Once there was a TV news article about a seminar man teaching men how to pick up woman, a very countervail article. It's hard to imagine seminars for woman how to get your man. Teaching men how to pick up woman  is really a psychology of how to get a strange woman to flirt with them going trust allowing the women to be picked up.

Critics were many, sceptical of the conduct, particularly  woman critics who were not impressed at all. What is the psychology of the dating game anyway? It boils down to the basic reproductive instinct inherited in our genes all the way back millions of years of human evolution. It is dramatically different in the modem world. We are the only species to make reproduction so such of a complex issue.

Mankind has developed complicated strict set rules of sexual conduct in our society where families often impose on their house pets on heat. They tend make out right under our noses in full view of everybody as if a normal thing. In contrast we have a complicated caring idea to our system and feelings about razing children. In contrast our house pets seem have no such issues. When on heat we'd think the females don't seem have any idea of a rape concept.

Our matting instinct has evolved into loss of on heat into a picky choose game who we matt with. You only need to ask yourself  your preferences and how you feel about razing children. Our house pets on heat don't seem to have any considerations like ours. We seem to be controlled by who we are attracted to and not attracted too instincts. A modem trend that comes to mind is speed dating.

In the western world at lest both sexes are strangers playing the same game. The stranger men play musical chairs with the stranger girls tables with only a couple of minutes to get to know each other before they have to change tables again. Every stranger gets the chance to meet a new stranger. We are so complicated in our picking and choosing strangers we are comfortable and not comfortable with. Because of the limited time at each table the strangers are all compelled to start a two way conversation as quick as possible before they it is time for the men of move on to the next table. It is not a practice our house pets do when on heat.

It is a psychology issue these days than an instinctive duty we have lost in the eons of the millions of years we evolved on this planet. If anything psychologists on the issue of picking up woman game a text book issue entitled the psychology of meeting strangers, a sub tilted what goes on in the sexes brains would be interesting reading to some. We are such a complicated species others would be complete skeptics there is more to life than that spouting the rules and ethics involved.

What causes men to practice picking up woman? What causes some women to be comfortable with speed dating clubs, hang out in pick up bars and pubs, stripers and prostitutes? What makes others feel  very uncomfortable about that sort of thing? There is no general rule for everybody. There seems to be everybody's different issue involved.

Over the millions of years of matting evolution we have lost the old on for males and on heat signals from the females. Since when is there session on heat for humans in general theses days? We have evolved a psychological control of our sexual conduct. We all have issues on what we are attracted to and put off our house pets when on heat doesn't seem to have.

The psychology of speed dating for women who play the game when it comes to all those strange men fears are dampened to somewhat relative trust knowing the purpose of being there specially when knowing everybody else knows what they are all there for anyway. On top of that under the protective protocol umbrella of the club. Bouncers in view security will is a help feel secure if their any problems.

In five minutes everyone has to communicate in a two way conversation and be on their best polite behavior before the men have to change tables. Likewise helps men's confidence they don't have to fear rude rebuff's from the women. Men who attend seminar training on how to meet women will be able to do well.

In this type of situation the fear of awkward rebuff's is virtually illuminated. In pick up bars men on their own is a different. If their are successful one night stands are couples who don't care about each but have to be on the same wavelengths of what they are after. A extreme theme is to and fro proportion conversation between a prostate and her prospective trick. Sometimes criminal conduct picking up men freely can be a man trap with criminal intentions. Other situations can be human science testing research we often see on video TV current affair or articles on the subject.

For obvious reasons nobody in informal speed dating is allowed to attend if they have had a few. Under the influence we make the same mistake over and over again. In a free flowing alcohol pick up bar practically anything can happen, and commonly does.

What would a man give to hit it off with a stranger woman like James Bond did with woman he only meat in a moment ago in his movies. It only happens between strangers by love story authors and Hollywood script writers. Can happen in the real world but never like the two way flirting echo exchange script writers put into the shows.

Internet dating is less of a challenge than live speed dating because we are picking and choosing profiles hiding behind the cover of our computers. Adds in papers with just a simple polite sentence often did the trick. Imagine the same with no profile on the internet. 

Seminar speakers teaching audiences how to pick up woman should know by now they are teaching their students skills of two strangers meeting each other for the first time turning the strange woman round to trust enough to flirt back. It is all about the psychology of meeting strangers equally implacable to business wheeling and dealing and sales people. Image a title written by a psychologist main title the psychology of meeting stringers including sub titles of what goes on in our brains. It all boils down to how the human brain is turning over all the time working on the member of the opposite for the first time.

Picking up strangers in bars and pubs on a man's own is the hardest art to follow. James Bond script writers carefully avoided corny conversation openers writing in the situation in a few visual minutes of bonds powers of observation before he made his move. We all know the James Bond look and study when spotting a beautiful woman. Of course the movie situation is all planed. Never the less Bond was a class act at it.

The human brain both male and female can tell when it hears corny and pathetic conversation openers. Out brain is instantaneous. After all the gaps between the firing cells are a couple of hundred times as small as than a human hair with a electric charge on a light speed scale crossing the gaps millions of cells millions of times per second. The brain processes information to our thoughts and we think from there thoughts less than a second. Success can sometimes be an illusion. 

There are accessions woman overlook a man's corny behavior humoring him like the woman often did flirting back with James bond in his movies they just met. In the case of the movies of course written by the movie script writers. In real live there can be criminal agendas or otherwise.

In the latter years of Bond's movies the scrip writers decided it was time he was rebuffed from time to time. They wrote in cool calm and collected responses. Keeping cool with rude rebuffs especially blunt embarrassing ones can have a profound effect on confidences men. Taking rebuff so seriously. Keeping calm has a profound influence on our brains controlling our hormones. When we are cool with any rebuff our brain response has clear insights. We only need to be reminded of how Bond behaved when he was rebuffed using that as a guide for ourselves.

Terrified of rebuff's can have consequences if men tend to take personally. It can eat up men with jealousy. Upset and angry can lash out making things worse. Our brain is sensitive in recognizing a one way communication as a strong rebuff message. In other words the one way conversation is interoperated as a get lost I can't stand you to our brain. Some men back off immediately vowing never to make the mistake of talking to that woman ever again. Feelings will never be the same again. To many rebuff's like that can make a man quite bitter towards woman. It's often a motive in strong sex drives turning towards rape responses.

Psychologists are professionals to write a tilled how to met strangers or a title the psychology of meeting strangers. A book or video about what happens to us when communicating with someone we have just introduced ourselves to seconds we meet for the first time. Meeting strangers introduced in behalf of another is easy compared to picking them up with the intentions of getting them to flirt with on our own. 

Mistrust and suspicions is at it's highest level we all should be aware of when a man expects strange woman to flirt back. A man or woman attempting this sort of thing on their own in clubs and bars will raise all sorts of suspicions from a under cover cop sting even an extreme case a suspecting a serial rapist on the prowl.

A video, seminar or book on what happens to our brains when we are introduced from a stranger would be an idea manual for sales people as they are constantly dealing with clients browsing on their own in a premises like a used car yards and retailer shops.

There are books available with this approach can be useful are body language books found in the social sciences racks at any local libraries used as a tool in how to be aware of  stranger reactions and the habits in our body langue reactions that often gives ourselves away. There are lots of examples we can use as exercises in the images and text illustrious as if strangers meet for the first time during introductions and special insights attempting to pick them up on your own. 

There is two magic words that everybody should get into the habit of talking to ourselves constantly about the advantages of not panicking. James Bond keeping cool calm a collected with woman rebuffs was often impressive. It will leave a mark on any stranger in the real world. Any body language book illustration we can look to how Bond would behave in response we see of the images given introduced or picking up on his own.

The movie script writers wrote in their scripts he kept an eye on the body language reaction to strangers in his presence we don't have the advantage of unless we have done that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before ourselves. If we keep cool calm and collected our own brain is quick to recommend what not to do as well as spotting cues that tells us to beware clues when to back off or to make a move and how. 

CSI teams are trained examples to look for hiding evidence. They don't know what they are looking but searching anyway they are looking on the basis they will know when they spot somthing of interest is a good example source of spotting clues in strangers. Looking for clues is always discrete specially attempting to pick up on your own if not we are guarantied to get a very bad impression the second they spot you observing them.