Some of us are very nervous why people are so shy of them. Some of it is experience being ignored at parties and social gatherings. It's called receiving the quiet treatment and we all know about it when it happens to us in our company. We are social beings.It's in our DNA to feel bad when observing others busy communicating with each other noticing no time for us. It's made worse when we don't understand why it happens to us. We can become very disappointed with a crowed ending up very annoyed with the persistent quiet treatment paten in our company.

We are effected negatively observed by others in our attitude seen in our body language. The secrete cause of our dilemma can be caused by our annoyance and frustration that causes our pupils in our eyes to contract. Think of it this way. We know how we feel when we observe another person with tiny dark dots in the center of their eyes talking to us. We notice it in others just as other's notice our eyes have become beady little eyes because our pupils have contracted . We all tend to immediately shy away from people with those beady little eyes no matter how nice looking someone is.

A case in point the opposite scenario for a moment. When we observe grown ups with baby wide eyes no matter how plane looking we are immediately attracted. This is because subconsciously we observe wide dilated pupils not the eyes. The eyes can be narrow and still cute. Bear in mind the wide pupils can't be mimicked by widening the eyes. Straight away looks just like a crazy person. We all know when we see crazy eyes.

Think of it another way. You know what it's like when a plain looking stranger stares at you with huge dilated pupils and think or beautiful stranger talking to you for just for a few seconds with contracted pupils. I bet Adolph Hitler for example attracted a lot of people when he was excited in his speeches because everybody was memorized by the excitement in the dilated pupils caused by his own excitement when he was carried away with his speeches. Other times people shied away complaining he looked right though them probably because of contracted pupils at the time.

There is not a whole lot we can do about our pupils because the reaction is beyond our control specially when nervous, anxious and annoyed. But there is some psychological tactic targeting our anxiety that causes pupil contraction in the first place.

When we think of something very pleasant our eyes dilate open in thought. Operating on the principle we can apply something like that to help control our anxiety that to avoid prompting pupil contraction any more than need to.

Operating on the principle we all have our favorite joke that we can't help smiling over, a funny sight we've seen in the past, whether real life or TV, a favorite drama character a action hero  mentor or a comedy, or done something that makes us fee good about ourselves we have forgotten about. We can limit our pupil contraction by targeting our annoyance and anxieties by reminding ourselves of the latter. A helpful tip playing a game with ourselves with our favorite hero mentors imagining what it what would be like in the crowed with us. Ask that would they do to apply to yourself. This should help you keep cool calm and collected hopefully limiting pupil dilation.

Approaching someone with well meaning and careful sincerity with contracted pupils will enviably shy them into a quiet treatment to our conversation openers. At the other end of the scale we can approach a stranger with dilated pupils getting very pleasant conversation responding well  to our conversation openers. Even inexpeinces jerk conversation openers can sometimes get away it looking at the other person with huge cute dilated pupils. Both men and woman are highly addicted to large pupil dilatation in others.

Remember if can't resist responding to conversation openers to some with huge dilated pupils neither can others with our dilated pupils

The trick can be hard to control. They say we can do anything when we put our minds to it. There is something more powerful than that, that's infinitely more easy than using our mind. Habits. Once we start the habit of something we eventually loose conscious control. Until we get into the habit of it the response will be slow. Once the habit gets a hold of us we have done that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

One of the things that won't help is an environment where music we don't like. It will inevitably stress us causing pupil contraction and you're back to square one with all the headaches of others shying away from you.  Everything about the place will  annoyingly stressful and is often subconscious causing us to be constantly on edge. We would be back to square one others noticing though you attitude and above all our beady little eye pupil contraction. It's what everybody's pupils does when trying to hang in there with music we hate.

Operating on the principle of opposites, in an environment where music you love will achieve the opposite effect. Feeling cool calm and collected targets our anxiety thus limiting our pupil contraction that others will pick up on a lovely smile in your eyes.

The definition of experience is someone with a habit of doing something hundreds and thousands of times includes dating. The internet is never needed in the words the real world face to face stranger pick up experiences.

Done hundreds and thousands of time at the one night stand game habitually scan for people looking for the same thing. They frequently hang out at known singles bars. Not everybody at bars, clubs  and parties will be looking for one night stands. Experience is in on the look out for for who those look have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before. While the inexperience tends to jump in experience observe and waits to see who's who in a crowed.

The inexperienced is more like experienced at people being shy to them. This will make anybody uncomfortable. If we feel uncomfortable it shows though tense body language signs, foddered arms scanning a crowed is the most common. Experienced notices inexpeinces in others straight away how  inexperienced they are at the game. The inexperience is perhaps experienced at others very shy of them their faces and body looking withdrawn and nervous. They can't even communicate with conversation openers properly There is a reason for this

How that I've got that out of the way they say we can do anything when we put our minds to it. There is something more powerful than that. Habits. Done something hundreds and thousands of times before. A secrete to successes when we habitually talk too ourselves about the things we dream of, remembering our favorite joke to dwelling in our favorite music calms our anxieties The habit of roll playing the humorous things that makes us feel good, and positive things happening in our lives hundreds and thousand of times in our heads can show dividends how powerful habits can be.

As we have leant due to anxiety our own body language habits can be the most powerful put off's as well as turn on. When anxiety contracts our pupils  we start to notice when we get the minimum amount of attention to the maximum amount do you deny that? We all note the silent treatment something's up. "I must have done something wrong" When we don't know what we did wrong often comes out in more anxiety in  body language or another reaction particularly the face. When disappointed it looks a not pleased look no matter how humble we may feel. To make matters worse contracted pupils others notice.

Disappointment expression causes pupil contraction. We feel worse when others become very shy of us our conversation openers let a lone holding their attention. Very shy of us their faces drawn and tight in blank expressions, ( the not impressed look ) and a refusal to contribute to our conversation. No doubt they are noticing your own facial black expression of disappointment causing anxiety that causes pupil contraction trying to avid those beady little eyes of yours. All because of caused by anxiety.

Indicators experience notices is crossed arms and legs seated or standing and hand, beady little eyes, and body clusters most of us subconsciously to ignore our habitual bases it means nothing to us. Not until a drama comes to a head when it's all over ending up in a dismayed. "What did I do?"

It's important to bear in mind when we don't know why things are not going right with anything we become more stressed resulting in contracted pupils feeling bothered and confused which all to often comes out in our habitual facial look and body language responses because we are so anxious often coming out in a drawn out blank expression trying to figure out what is wrong with us or in others in the habit of trying to hide our worry. This includes worrying if we might step on a few toes in the environment round us not to motion if a lot of the tension caused by the environment from the music you really don't care for.

On that note music you happen to love can be a life saver keeping you calm resulting in limiting pupil contraction others will see how you are so relaxed seen in your eyes. Others won't be so shy of you  as much as if you had contracted pupils.

Body language experts teach us to observe body language behavior. Truth is, we all habitually concentrate on faces for information. Only the experienced individuals how have mastered their anxiety with tricks of their own at this sort of thing, body language experts, and those that have just been introduced to it learning to pay more attention to the rest of the body will observe the rest of the body signs. The second truth is, in a ordinary every day situations we habitually ignore body language itself habitually looking for it though attitude in others faces. Habitually concentrating on the face we unconsciously stuck in observing attitude clues from that area.

Little wonder the habit of concentrating on the face for clues of attitude the old clichés "The eyes have it" "The eyes are the window to our souls ".We are habitually sensitive to a worried look of a blank expression as a moody cold fish look in others. If we habitually carry the blank expression look over to single bars noticing any one we fancy with the same blank expression look on the face of the one we fancy we are  just as sensitive to it as we are and tend reciprocate with each other the same blank expression.

The blank expression in both us is not a blank expression but the look of nerves "Gosh I'm so nervous" and disappointment written all over the faces followed  by the resulting rest of our body language signals just as the rest of the others round us is equally habitually concentrating on our faces for attitude clues in us.

Often as not, noticing a blank expression we naturally avoid the moody "What are you looking at?" glare. We all get the message in less than a second glance. "What are you looking at? Stay away" looking glance. Naturally we look down and away. We then have then unconsciously we take the opportunity to observe the body language signals in the corner of our eyes as we move on and mingling with the rest of the crowed.

The blank expression look is for business and  formal occasions. It has no place in informal singles bars. We see blank expressions all the time in public places. It is very powerfully in board room meetings, business wheeling and dealing and court room dramas. The same blank expression doesn't have the moody cold fish look there, as we seen on jurors, judges and lawyers faces in a court room drama.

Watch what happens to our feelings in discussion in a board meeting, wheeling and dealing business or a defendant in a court of law if every body was relaxed and smiling. The blank expression has it's place.

We notice a social gaze when someone talks to us when someone we sense is gazing only at our nose area. We notice a different gaze taking to us as if third eye right in the center of our forehead. We know what that feels like when we see an authority look of a business gaze. If someone has the habit of being a non stop bore it will help slow them down.....a lot. If they had the habit of it, eventually the Penney drops coming to a stop completely perhaps with a query provided the person is gazing into our eyes "What?" "Is there something wrong? There is an opportunity to reply.

Looking at the other person at the nose "I'm sorry. I'm at a bit of a loss." Maintaining the nose gaze to the bore "Can you go though all that again?" never lowering the social gaze. Then it will be easier to communicate properly.

A  third gaze when someone appears to be gazing in both eyes chin triangle area while talking to us. It will only feel appropriate when actively found ideal pick up in single bars not public places. Public places is reserved for the social gaze. Thus, Intimate, social and business gazing have their places. Single pick up bars, public and businesses situations. If anybody who has the habit of any one of those all the time everywhere often finds conflict when in the unsuitable places.

Equally a completely blank expression using the business gaze every muscle in our face relaxed. It gives a different mood than the business  gaze. To others a not impressed look. It is a powerful gaze when another habitually keeps cracking wise ass jokes to us. It will only work if when we have a gaze attention from the other to notice it.

If a blank expression is habitually carried over into informal social satiation like singles bar is seen in a different light. The average person will read a moody cold fish look. It will seem a hostile look to approach dear not approach keep away anxiety not only in their faces but in the resulting rest of our body language.

If we habitually "Dame it all!!" anxiety look like there's nobody at the wheel look all the time people will notice. They can see them shaking like a leave in uncertain nervous anxiety in the inside. Attempting to pick up someone in that state of mind potentially dramas can come to a head. "OHHH. Dam it all" The eyes gives away suppressed disappointment look. Unsuppressed like we do when things are going from bad to worse for the football team we support or as a defendant in a court of law. Ironically the disgusted look all those wrinkles from children to adults will be seen in a different light as a feed up up disappointment look in the appropriate place

This is eye  language reaction of those situations. It results in the habit of being afraid of making a fool of our selves due to the habit of expecting it due to happen, has become the habit of not trusting themselves. The reaction is a "I thought that will happen", with a follow up "I do wish I know how to do this" disappointment non verbal face language transferred into the whole body as well.

Putting into practice there is a place and time for it. Only those that have done thousands of of times before can get away with a practice away from single bar. Often others the very motive if we let ourselves get into the habit of the wrong place and time. We will get all sorts of attention we don't want. We will bound to be put in our places and very frankly at that. If not careful with our habits anywhere we will open ourselves to be bullied  put in our places by all sorts of people.    

What we really feel habitually comes out in our body language behavior. The thing is there are times when it happens to be the right time and place where any negative body language including frustration "That's all need right now" eye and body speak can be positively be powerful from on lookers point of view at the right place and time often seen as normal and understandable. If a constant power from both sexes in business power play treating others in a non verbal social situation  "Do you have to bother me right now that?" while taking in the talking..

We have all seen talent show judges hand and face evaluation signals. Any hand to face language in business evaluation of company executive like finger steeple involving the nose to a entrepreneur selling an idea to them is very powerful here. If  a habit of carrying over into in social situations like singles bars is not a good habit to anybody we fancy. Different body language signals have their places in different places.

If we have a habit of studying body language book images  examples practicing picking up moves we can see negative body language of the eyes is not a good look to us. The same picture will have a different look in the eyes when we roll play an imaging selling an idea product to them.

Another example of body language signals have their place in the positive area. The habit of being relaxed with body language signals in a business situations is not a good look either. Only a good move a social environments.  If the habit of it is carried over in social situations doesn't go down to well there either.

The habit of being nervous has it's place as an audience of a seminar. If habitually relaxed neighbors will notice as not right including the seminar speaker putting everybody off. But things can potentially be different if there is an agenda point to be made. It be can be a very powerful point when we wish to show we are serious not interested letting the speaker volunteer to release the trap we are in letting us go.

Car sale people are only taught how to gain the upper hand though establishing a social rapport. They will not know what to do with some one who habitually cowboy stances hand on hips, or in pockets similar to we'd expect to observe in singles bar courtship behavior, or the habit of the power company execrative business stare, arms crossed, hiding naughty bits figure leave stances in their presence. They will either back off and let us view over their cars to make up their minds  in peace or start showing signs of being cross with us.

If habitual frustrated the habit will no doubt been seen though the eyes all the time and everywhere. Around  psychologists are just the people to put us in a border line personality disorder category. The frustration body language habit follows. Body language habits is the key notice of everybody.

The habitual business power play body language carried over into social situations make us look 

The habit of recognizing our own habitual body language is a very powerful way to control our misfortunes in the places of our choosing. The habit of checking our habitual body langue habits can also lead to the habit of over doing things often ending  back to where from seen in the eyes of others. But power of habitually reminding ourselves of the potential of over doing things is very powerful influence motive to developing the  habit of thinking how can I work on this. How can I stop my eyes from giving myself away and so on.

Both positive and negative body language in all social to business situations have their places of power and influence. They fall flat if we habitually carry one or the other habit into social or business situations. Both positive and negative body language in all social to business situations have their places of power and influence. They fall flat if we habitually carry one or the other habit into social or business situations.

Experienced men have habit of noticing women noticing them ever since they were yay high. These guys had the ability to notice when a woman was attracted to them all there lives. They can notice girls eying them kilometers away. To them it had always been sexy as far as they could remember. It's an aphrodisiac rush to them.

What's a aphrodisiac rush? A sexy flush feeling. Some guys have it strong. The first time was probably felt at school a long time ago experiencing an aphrodisiac surge when spotted a girl or couple in excited gossip about them. Then girls noticed the radiant look on his face reacting even more. These guys had been able to communicate with the feeling though meeting girls ever since. No anxiety is seen in the eyes. They were passionate about meeting girls. There is something sexy about the way girls do that sort of thing as it still does as an adult.

These guys have habitually noticed eye contact glances by thousands of woman. So too, all men in fact. The problem the eye contact form most woman is often flashed, looking away a bit too quickly all with a blank expression men can see anxiety in the eyes.

Blank expressions without anxiety are what we all expect as a business look almost a poker game face. It's not a very good look in pick up situations like singles bars as it conveys a very informal business look. Women who actively chase aphrodisiacs from men have habitually become not afraid to express the entire interest all over their face to a strange man she fancies. She shows she fancy's him with a broad smile, cheeks full and radiant glowing shy alluring look for a second or two then look away away, no sign of any fear detected by the man as if to say "Come and pick me up. Get back to me when your ready" The look is not flashed either. Even slow men can't help but notice it. "Wow. What was that? She's definitely crazy about me" It would certainly floor a guy who habitually experiences aphrodisiac flushes with courtship glances like that.

To the experienced, less than a second smile less blank expression over the shoulder glance the woman has noticed them. They take note promising to get back to them after finishing scouting round  because the woman obviously had noticed them.

The average guy a bit on the inexperienced side will flash back an equally blank expression and just as fast. These men have noticed it many times. But a blank expression is such a business glare in places like singles bar situations tend to pass each other over. Trouble here everybody is so used to it has become habitually normal. Normal or not, smiles less glances enumerate the surly unimpressed look.

Women don't want to seem to be as too forward. Nore as easy. This is one of the good reasons why experienced men hang back. They make sure woman noticing them with a gentleman's compliment return look on his face flirt with a smile with no anxiety in the eyes acknowledgment for an equal short amount of time moving on promising themselves they might come back to the woman in a minute.

Experienced woman have seen this all thousands of times before from many men as well as inexperienced moves hanging in there waiting for the guy to return to resume another flirt because they have done that sort of thing so often the first time round works on men every time.

The experienced men doing the latter to a woman that has a habit of a surly poker faced look woman certainly to be more relaxed the next time round. Experienced women are not shy at avoiding the quick blank expression style to any man they fancy.

Experienced women habitually hook men with by making them experience aphrodisiac rushes what is commonly the men killer flirtation glances. Both don't have to wonder whether they like each other or not. Both experienced men and women habitually spot each other giving a few seconds longer than normal radiant smile eye contact flirtation glances. Their psyche had always interoperated that as the coolest things they ever see for a women signaling with her face to a man "I'd love you to pick me up" and for a man a aphrodisiac rush and "Don't mind if I do" signal written all over his face. Body language and facial expression "Don't go way. I'll right be back".

In the ability to notice seated as well as standing they habituallnotice knees and toes pointed straight at them. They observe the fact not pointing anywhere is but them is enough of a aphrodisiac signal turn on.

Theses guys habitually focus on keeping their attention on her eyes only, habitually avoiding their mouths specially anywhere lower when returning the flirts. Turned on by the woman's flirting gestures any women can see it in these guys eyes before he even make a move. The next move is not immediate coming back to them in a minute.

Thus the key to successful interaction face to face opposite sex strangers without the help of internet dating sites. The secrete is in the guy's aphrodisiac habit of rehearsed roll playing in their heads thousands of times. This means the experienced have done that sort of thing with hundreds of girls thousand of times. They don't need the internet to meet their dream lover.

For the rest they all have noticed women's courtship signals too, but haven't the aphrodisiac rush to make it seem alive to them. It means nothing to them that tend to dismiss as "Girls do that to everybody. I've seen it many times" Without the aphrodisiac rush the pick up attempts will appear corny are dull and flat to women.

These days the guy community is more open than used to be. There are thousands in the guy community who aren't interested in the opposite sex as most of us are. Some of those people find the opposite sex unattractive. Experience develops the habit of noticing these things in the streets parties gatherings, in friends to acquaintances.

Noticing things hundreds and thousands of times before stepping into rooms, family gatherings, library's, restaurants, single bars to night clubs we will notice every thing were ever we go specially the habit of looking for the perfect aphrodisiac rush develops experience.

Done hundreds and thousands of times very little gets unnoticed .The habit of sorting out details using discrete recommence for courtship signals and behavior we can spot already spoken for signs as well as availability signs. Experience can spot a potential habitually knowing things can change in a matter of minutes.

The biggest barrier for success is spotting a person not recognizing obviously the person they spotted was attracted thern so can only ignore. If it was pointed out by experience these people may feel looking back at experienced person with a look of "Is that suppose to mean anything to me?"

Not recognizing the signs of someone attracted to us is the key player in resulting stop messages following. Some may only be able to notice the resulting disappointment response interoperated they don't like "Move on" body language signals. Both can be uptight with "What's the matter with you?.

Don't you like me or something" thoughts flowing though their heads.

Both may vow to themselves they will not make the mistake with that person again. When we get into the habit it we will get the nagging habit it has to be made always true cycle because we have seen it often enough. The habit of not recognizing some else is attracted to us is often the notice of a resulting disappointed response as a bad habit of everybody else throws at us. Everybody has the habit of ignoring me. We have seen habit of observing tense stop signals directed at us hundreds and thousands of times habit.

How do we know when someone is showing signs attracted to us? How can we turn around our bad habit of of not recognizing the signs someone is attracted to us? .It won't come from a experienced guide showing how to do pick up but our own habits of recognizing the signs others are attracted to us ourselves. The rest takes care of itself naturally.

The best place to start is the habit of researching body language books not reading though page by page but reviewing various aspects discussions in general new to us and concentrating on coming back to the them flirting with the courtship body language signals chapter back to the generals. It will take time. Scientists have found it takes a little under a month on average for any habit to take properly.

The habit of coming back to review bits and pieces every wear hundreds and thousands of times we will learn a thing or two more every time. It needs to be we have reviewed those bits and pieces hundreds of times.

The experienced habitually hesitates in a crowed singles bar or night club seating circles making a mental note of all the possibilities. Woman habitually signal men they fancy more than once.

Experienced man have developed their own unique style allowing for a percentage of how many times other promising girls got his attention back to them in a minute to check for the signs how the others are getting on.

Done hundreds and thousands of times before we notice introvert and extrovert behavior when we see it. With experience we notice signs some people energized in crowds others not. We've seen it all before people seem alive in company while we can't help noticing others obviously not enjoying the company as much by the shy hovering in the background behavior. It's obvious they are not making any attempt to join in.

By the time we gained expedience we'd seen it often enough. Since we have seen this sort of thing many times we recognize extroverts and introvert behavior body language anywhere. That is how we can tell between gay and straight people body language signs anywhere.

It come stop ass time and time again we developed a habitual observation people energized in the company of groups we can recognize as an extrovert behavior langue. Some of the signs of Bipolar disorder. While others look as if if they are not fitting looking uncomfortable. Experience tells us that this is not necessarily being left out because we have seen introvert behavior not comfortable with many for long hundreds of times before. We have seen their body language change to relaxed signs when alone with only one person. We've seen it often enough.

Seen many times before we often observe extrovert body langue behavior the saying "Two's company three is a crowed" is not necessary true for them, while it's typical of introvert body language behavior the opposite that it is very true. The habit seen often enough we have a great deal of self confidence we'd picked up our dream person hundreds and thousands of times before we can pick up anybody we want any time well like. We've done it all before.

Experience has seen gay as well as straight courtship behavior hundreds and thousand of times. That's how they can tell who's who in a mixed night club and single bar environment is really typical. They have seen it often enough. They habitually notice these things. What they have seen hundreds and thousand of times becomes is very familiar. Very common. Typical.

The habitual scanning picks up a lot of useful information

Those who have hardly done this sort of thing before has the habit of a folded arms mode scanning crowds. Their habit may ask what's wrong with that? I feel comfortable that way". Every body language book constantly advise it's not exactly the best positive look to pick up with. A key to understanding this is an ability in roll playing images in body language book examples look like in different situations.

Think of the image as a stranger you are are approaching. Practicing in our heads straight will be enlightening . Body language books describe how to read everybody's hidden thoughts. But they neglect concentrating the readers signals inevitably portray themselves to others. There should be a lest a chapter title like "What are you saying with your body language to others"

The habit of folded arms everywhere. Been in night clubs and singles bars hundreds and thousand of times before the experienced knows all to well the chances all sorts of thoughts by others in a the confines of a crowed singles bar looks just like a bouncer over seeing every body behaves and waiting to throw someone out any moment or undercover cop working in the place scanning for evidence of criminal activity.

Simple testing roll plying the pictured illustrations in body language books with folded arms you spotted scanning the floor of a crowed singles bar. Other way way what it would be like for you if the image was a stranger you are approaching can be illuminating. Very often folded arms can make us nervous enough to be tongue tired. Another confirmation is yourself in a mirror.

We can see straight away what we look like when watching in a folded arms mode to ourselves in a mirror. Compare that with hands in pockets. We notice something else. The geometry of our faces. We can be shocked at what we see with folded arms.

If we habitually roll play picking up a girl (or a man ) body language book illustrations hands in pockets seated or standing, hands on hips, cowboy stances an other illustrations we can become an experienced expert in our heads because we have seen that sort of thing hundreds and thousand of times we habitually notice in the the real world too.

In the habit of tilting our heads in a "let me see" analytical view point seems a change. The thing we most notice how dramatic even with the slightest tilt it can be. Once again when we try with hands in our pockets it just as dramatically changes with folded arms.

We can be pleasantly suppressed at what a difference it makes to ourselves. We find ourselves in a cute smile that dramatically changes things again. Scientifically speaking tilting the head, back, down left or right even if ever, ever so slightly in effect is adjusting our best side towards our selves. Now image if it was you who caught you doing that to you.

Imagine face to face with a woman ( or a man ) of your dreams talking to you with your arms folded. Then imagine the woman with her arms like you see to you. Try with hands in your pockets. Imagine a woman in that mode to you while talking to her. We instinctively shift most of our weight to a leg and in a "let me see" analytical tilt of the head.

Getting into the habit of hands in pockets with ever so slight tilt of the head everywhere, anywhere and everything we do all the time prevents us from the habit of forgetting we are listening with folded arms mistake. Making a habit of anything makes perfect. Our brain takes over letting us know all the time we've done what ever habit we get ourselves into hundreds and thousands of times confidence.

The habit of hands in pockets we develop the habit of feeling we look and feel great every day and everywhere we go.

Observing our faces if we can spot imperfections in our skin tone which others will too. Skiers and cyclist with wind blown redness looking uneven sun burn all over on the checks. We all notice and old and ugly appeal. Cosmetic products traditionally reserved for women that will help hide all that making the face the back to the illusion of very young and youthful looking.

If we get into the habit doing this all day we begin to recognize the the benefit of folded arms and hands in pockets have their places that can work wonders. For example the folded arm testing with left, right, up, or down head tilt combination in a mirror to ourselves we can see has their places. The folded arms maneuver can help deflect challenges directed directly at us by others. There is respect observing somebody in a tense situation reaming cool calm and collected during a tense stand off in though calm body and facial language signs not afraid of looking after themselves when need too.

The insipience tend to show panic or frustration all over their faces as well as afraid body language signals. The "Oh O! " flight or flight shock look response written all over their faces coupled with some body language signals. Common looking away and down.

Extreme cases of frustrated feelings though face wiping which tend to pull a scared crazy eyes look, wiping hair over ears in a extreme case with both hands in a tense stand off environment where people are looking on. Trying those to ourselves in a mirror we'll soon get the idea why we can easily be assaulted, laughed at as a jerk and thrown out of a place with no sympathy by our trousers by a bouncer.

Likewise the hands in pockets technique has it place as all the body language tips you see in body language books. Practicing enough of the relaxing technique to a point we have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before we begin the habit of it naturally knowing places and times to use the signal properly and in it place have developed experience on our side. It's n good to know we have done something hundreds and thousands of times before confidence behind us.

It is the backing of our experiences we'd done it all before successfully that we are so familiar it we can always do it again. It is good to know our brains never let us forget we have done it all before. We also learn the value of what happens when we over do things too.

The habits of the experienced instinctively avoids limbs anywhere near, crossing each other or the body standing or seated. For both men and women habitually hands in pockets ,including blouses, dresses jeans or slacks. Experienced would noticed this sort of language in others hundreds and thousands of times before. Very common relaxing technique as demonstrated consistently in all body language books.

The relaxed attitude tends display a visual normal looking when we see it in a mirror of ourselves is equally from someone else's point of view us too. Everybody is relaxed. If someone else is observant will notice the behavior the experienced person well aware this can typically happen being unexpectedly picked up or flirt to from a girl or men or two approaches

Habitual roll playing in our heads is a good away to develop any habit. We are putting into practice our own private fantasies where there is no fear off disappointing frank rebuffs of being asked to leave. Without the nagging fear we are free and open to do in our heads what ever outcome our hearts desires.

Most people will call this day dreaming fantasies. But if we make a habit of it we soon get this nagging habit we have to make it come true. Once a habit gets a hold of us we can't shake it off easily. Thus dismissing the habit as day dreaming fantasy won't help developing the habit to make our desire come true.

When we have the habit of not being afraid to approach a potential partner of our dreams in our heads we start the burning desire habit to make it come to pass in the real world. Habitually roll playing approaching a stranger of our dreams in our heads with out fear will be able to transform into the real world.

The property of understanding women's moods for men is an important part of picking the girls. For women understanding men's attitudes is equally important. In general psychological practice it is called emotional intelligence formally known as sensuality expressing we are intelligent to other people feelings. If these people were to take an empathy questionnaire would score a high empathy IQ. We all notice an inelegant attitude towards us.

What's empathy? A feeling for others. The characteristics doesn't concentrate on communicating practical solutions to problems but dwells on shearing how it feels communication. High emotional intelligence is the key for that sort of thing. It simple means a person with a talent at picking up on how others feel.

An example, the ability to recognizes someone displaying depression signs when they see it. Empathy is about this ability. The opposite to this having know idea how others feel. In the battle of the sexes the difference is often expressed with the classical old cliché "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus"

That is not necessarily true. A husband with a high empathy intellect towards his wife is sure fire recipe for a successful marriage. Like wise a wife with the same empathy towards men's ways is a guaranteed loving relationship. Experience tends to habitually apply empathy in their pick up approaches. Done hundreds of thousands of times before can easily communicate shearing combination.

The habitual sensuality practice tend to treat everybody as if they weren't born yesterday approaches, as if intelligent and smart, treating others as if they have been there and done that attitude. Both men and woman notice that sort of treatment from each other. Conflicts and marriage break ups when each partner has poor emotional intelligent skills with each other.

Experience has taught most people we do much better at bars and night clubs rather than public places like libraries and beaches. These are the places inexperience have no business practicing. Public places are far to tricky to get away with inexperienced at picking up a lover. Only the experienced individuals has the capability of knowing how to handle the tricky formal setting and even then it is a challenge to the most experienced.

The best place for inexperience novices are single bars and night clubs because it is the closest thing to a place where others are potentially doing the same thing a perfect spot for self taught body language book details in action. Body language books are a excellent heads up in what to look for signs.

Observing flirting signs from body language books is the best way to develop the habit of it. Don't take one with you. It will can easily be seen as a joke. And there is a potential of getting into the habit of rousing lots of suspicion an uncover cop operative on the prowl where all activity will all but dry up round you. Be aware of that sort of thing can happen by the habit of the relaxing hands in pockets whether standing or seated.

If already been there where opportunities suddenly dried up round you will recognize the latter. Being aware we can guess we had inadvertently may have aroused suspicion that might have happed. Inexperience gives itself away every time.

Avoiding behavioral suspicion while investigating body language hundreds and thousands of times develops a habitual skill of patient and discrete reconnaissance. The experience habitually avoids the habit of making people self conscious they are being observed.

The habit of scanning a dance floor and what's going in on the dance floor and seating arrangements for signs off flirting is often a life saver from making a disastrous moves. The experienced have learnt to habitually look for the same sex as well as opposite sexes flirting signs to each other before they make the mistake of moving in where they are not wanted.

They are on the look out for possible chaperone ( escort signs hovering in background keeping an eye on who they are escorting ) brothers and sister signs and signs of long time friends only out to have a good time signs. Done this sort of thing hundreds of thousands of times before is a great confidence we always know everything that goes on.

Experienced brain knows how to processes all this information advising them on it offering heads up advice and so know exactly what they are doing and will be in for if they do make a move in. The habit of reconnaissance prevents mistakes happening before they happen.

The flip side inexperience in a egger to get on with it will miss a lot. Not careful with all that activity going on is a potential for disastrous mistakes often end up with disappointment simply not careful going in where they where not really wanted.

Problems for the inexperienced men ( as well as for women ) encounter the classical display of turn off signs. The typical characteristics is a refusal to play to conversation openings. In most cases women ( as well as men ) habitually display the no sympathy attitude to inexperienced approaches.

The jerk approach behavior is often the most rebuffed.

A quiet bored treatment often confuses the inexperience how to deal with an unresponsive conversation. Attempt after attempt is made until has had enough treating the women as joke or a woman with frank rebuffs to the inexperienced approaches. The inexperienced can be left protrude and confused "Why do women do that to me" The same often applies to a woman.

Advice for the inexperienced is to take the advice of body language books. Book after book all say the same thing. limbs crossing any part of each other, self touch, hiding any parts of the body are expressed as barrier signals, arm and leg folding styles are tense put off signals with the exception of couple of important courtship signals. Book after book say the same thing about hands in pockets with no crossed limbs is considered a relaxed body sign that tends to relax everybody else.

They advise trying to stimulate a conversation side on doesn't work. Trying it standing while the potential partner is seated is not on the same level. They advise in standing position frontal face to face approaches no body touching, hands in packets relaxation aid with all hand held objects considered as barriers like a drink to be removed by putting aside.

The important point to bear in mind that they are all unconscious displays most of them habits. The habit of crossed limbs with any part of arm and leg or body, folding styles can cause tension with others in informal atmospheres like a night club. The experienced has developed the habit of the opposite uncrossed limbs away from the body. Hands hands in pockets has become a habit while seated often work wonders in helping to relax everybody else round them. Body language books discuss and show examples of relaxed stiles of seating.

The important point to bear in mind when learning these things is not to get caught up in a eagerness carry away show. It will look over done and acting causing tension. With experience you will notice it yourself when someone else tries it looking like a embarrassing joke. In any embarrassment people tend to behave with request frank requests to behave or ask to leave. Experience people have developed into a habit of looking normal if not a little sweet.

The trick is rehearse in a few samples in body language books in a mirror to get an orientation of what you will look like from other peoples point of view. Try the body language moves that you have the habit of.

Problems occur when empathy intelligence is lacking. For men in particular approaching women with poor sensuality skills. Women may recognize the signs of poor empathy skills in a man but if equally low skills themselves has the habit having no sympathy for inexperience pick up approaches. They habitually display the classic moody turn off signs.

An Inexperienced man with poor sensuality skills may try to hang in their making himself a persistent jerk. Reasonable sensuality has the ability to at lest detect the moody signals possibly a guy woman getting the message not wanted. In his inexperience will quietly back away with a possible quiet apology for the intrusion.

A high sensuality intelligence is the most experienced and will probably developed the skill of telling if gay or straight from an attitude language developing the habit a specialty of low sensuality and moody women. In the habitual ability developed the habit of being able to take on the challenge of turning round a moody straight women round hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced men as well as women as in experienced guy people will notice inexperience and experience when they see it adjusting their moods accordingly. A highly sensual guy and straight women will recognize a persistent jerk as not necessarily a jerk turning her on sensuality skills to her advantage the habits of being a jerk towards her soon disappears. It take a high empathy IQ in both guy and straight women to and experience taming somebody behaving like a jerk into someone who is not.

When we have turned round a jerk behavior round to somebody else nicer hundreds and thousands of times it is a piece of cake to us to do it again and again.

Reasonable emotional intelligence habitually displays inexperience though picking up on the moody responses of any women. Poor emotional intelligence will be disappointed. It tends to vow to never make the mistake of upsetting her again backing off and avoids her after that. These guys are genuinely afraid of the moody display girls can look like she's about to call the police or her boy friends for help she is sexually harassed any second.

Experience observers will notice what both did wrong. It will be clear as the noses on their faces approached either a timid and shy way or a complete jerk approaches and the moody turn off signs showing no sympathy for the inexperience by the woman. Experienced observers spot low sensuality skills in both sexes when they see it because they have seen it all before. It is very familiar to them. typical mistakes.

The inability to pick others intelligence has developed the experience. If it continues there is a potently lack of experience that shows in both sexes in poor conversation opening sequences. If it becomes a habit of women to have no sympathy with inexperience pick up approaches has done that sort of to many men hundreds and thousands of times before. Trouble is habits are almost impossible to change once they get a hold of a person.

Men can eventually be so frustrated and angry will become wiredrawn with themselves showing it by lashing out at woman are all the same. If rejections continue they develop the habit of believing they are unpopular with girls. These guys have seen the impatient no sympathy syndrome hundreds and thousands o times before. The same is true with women. If turn off’s keep continuing to be a habit will soon develop a bad habit attitude men about women and women about men the source of sexist remarks and jokes about each other put downs.

On the other hand if highly sensual in the first place began the habit of being charming in the company of of thousands of girls becomes before that developed the habit of a good attitude towards woman and if the habit of girls warming up to a man continues will find his own habit very exciting often can't wait to charm all sorts of women with pleasantries for more attention. Their high sensuality ( or emotional intelligence ) has habitually communicated on the same level as women hundreds and thousand of times before will convince them of that for ever.

A guy not very good at being sensual will experience continual habits of women not very impressed with them all the time. They will develop the habit in their heads it's true they are unpopular with girls. They have seen it often enough. On the other hand if a man is highly sensual good experiences keep coming breading the habits in their heads it's true they are popular with girls. They also have have seen it often enough. In both cases they have been though it all hundreds and thousands of times before over the years that alternately determines the habitual self talk belief about themselves for a long time.

The habitual habit of a guy who believes unpopular with girls will almost be impossible to change unless their is an agenda, a purpose for the change. Habits need a convincing motive to modify the stance. The habit of believing unpopular with girls is based on the habits girls unexpressed with them so it is simply not possible to change it to not being unpopular with girls.

The main problem with inexperienced men have encountered the reaction of inexpeinces women where both don't know what to do. A highly sensual experienced person will recognize inexperience when they see it.

There are both men and woman who have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before who recognize experience and inexperience alike. The habit of chasing over the years have seen everything seen it all before and done it all hundreds and thousands of times. The start was a early habit, why they are so successful. Experience tend to recognize inexperience when they see it remaining cool calm and collected adjusting their attitude accordingly.

All the traditional courtship behavior remains intact expect for one detail. Experienced women noticing a jerk behavior yet initially fancied him when she spotted him, instead of waiting to be being lead by the guy they recognize their from observing their behavior leading the guy in opening conversations before he can say or do anything else to draw out the real person by her charm towards him before he gets in first to make a fool of himself to her. Done hundreds and thousand of times before can get on with the court ship ritual. It is all due the habit of doing that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced woman who habitually encounters jerk behavior thousands of times. They have a unshakable confidence in remaining cool calm and collected applying psychology onto them becoming someone completely different. It is usually experienced prostitutes who have seen it all before where jerks don't know they had been put in their places. Experienced women are in hot demand. By contrast a woman who has never done that sort of thing before. Mistakes will be made turning off men against her that certainly could have been an ideal in the end.

Experienced woman can turn an boring jerk talking who habitually talks to much into an intelligent two way conversation because done hundreds of times before. We'd think they were psychologists in dis skies.

It started as a habit and by now have to do that sort so often to get more. Since they have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before the traditional roll of only men has take the lead has been abandoned in favor of experience in the last decades.

Other girls getting their men and men getting their girls and we don't is just experience on their part. Remember making a jerk or a laughing stock of ourselves is just inexperienced on our part. The experienced have seen inexperience behavior in action and so will we hundreds and thousands of times when we see it. The habit studying body language book images and mirror practicing will all help to gain confidence we also have done it hundred and thousands of times too..

To the experienced, less than a second smile less blank expression over the shoulder glance the woman has noticed them. They take note promising to get back to them after finishing scouting round  because the woman obviously had noticed them.

The average guy a bit on the inexperienced side will flash back an equally blank expression and just as fast. These men have noticed it many times. But a blank expression is such a business glare in places like singles bar situations tend to pass each other over. Trouble here everybody is so used to it has become habitually normal. Normal or not, smiles less glances enumerate the surly unimpressed look.

Women don't want to seem to be as too forward. Nore as easy. This is one of the good reasons why experienced men hang back. They make sure woman noticing them with a gentleman's compliment return look on his face flirt with a smile with no anxiety in the eyes acknowledgment for an equal short amount of time moving on promising themselves they might come back to the woman in a minute.

Experienced woman have seen this all thousands of times before from many men as well as inexperienced moves hanging in there waiting for the guy to return to resume another flirt because they have done that sort of thing so often the first time round works on men every time.

The experienced men doing the latter to a woman that has a habit of a surly poker faced look woman certainly to be more relaxed the next time round. Experienced women are not shy at avoiding the quick blank expression style to any man they fancy.

Experienced women habitually hook men with by making them experience aphrodisiac rushes what is commonly the men killer flirtation glances. Both don't have to wonder whether they like each other or not. Both experienced men and women habitually spot each other giving a few seconds longer than normal radiant smile eye contact flirtation glances. Their psyche had always interoperated that as the coolest things they ever see for a women signaling with her face to a man "I'd love you to pick me up" and for a man a aphrodisiac rush and "Don't mind if I do" signal written all over his face. Body language and facial expression "Don't go way. I'll right be back".

In the ability to notice seated as well as standing they habituallnotice knees and toes pointed straight at them. They observe the fact not pointing anywhere is but them is enough of a aphrodisiac signal turn on.

Theses guys habitually focus on keeping their attention on her eyes only, habitually avoiding their mouths specially anywhere lower when returning the flirts. Turned on by the woman's flirting gestures any women can see it in these guys eyes before he even make a move. The next move is not immediate coming back to them in a minute.

Thus the key to successful interaction face to face opposite sex strangers without the help of internet dating sites. The secrete is in the guy's aphrodisiac habit of rehearsed roll playing in their heads thousands of times. This means the experienced have done that sort of thing with hundreds of girls thousand of times. They don't need the internet to meet their dream lover.

For the rest they all have noticed women's courtship signals too, but haven't the aphrodisiac rush to make it seem alive to them. It means nothing to them that tend to dismiss as "Girls do that to everybody. I've seen it many times" Without the aphrodisiac rush the pick up attempts will appear corny are dull and flat to women.

These days the guy community is more open than used to be. There are thousands in the guy community who aren't interested in the opposite sex as most of us are. Some of those people find the opposite sex unattractive. Experience develops the habit of noticing these things in the streets parties gatherings, in friends to acquaintances.

Noticing things hundreds and thousands of times before stepping into rooms, family gatherings, library's, restaurants, single bars to night clubs we will notice every thing were ever we go specially the habit of looking for the perfect aphrodisiac rush develops experience.

Done hundreds and thousands of times very little gets unnoticed .The habit of sorting out details using discrete recommence for courtship signals and behavior we can spot already spoken for signs as well as availability signs. Experience can spot a potential habitually knowing things can change in a matter of minutes.

The biggest barrier for success is spotting a person not recognizing obviously the person they spotted was attracted thern so can only ignore. If it was pointed out by experience these people may feel looking back at experienced person with a look of "Is that suppose to mean anything to me?"

Not recognizing the signs of someone attracted to us is the key player in resulting stop messages following. Some may only be able to notice the resulting disappointment response interoperated they don't like "Move on" body language signals. Both can be uptight with "What's the matter with you?.

Don't you like me or something" thoughts flowing though their heads.

Both may vow to themselves they will not make the mistake with that person again. When we get into the habit it we will get the nagging habit it has to be made always true cycle because we have seen it often enough. The habit of not recognizing some else is attracted to us is often the notice of a resulting disappointed response as a bad habit of everybody else throws at us. Everybody has the habit of ignoring me. We have seen habit of observing tense stop signals directed at us hundreds and thousands of times habit.

How do we know when someone is showing signs attracted to us? How can we turn around our bad habit of of not recognizing the signs someone is attracted to us? .It won't come from a experienced guide showing how to do pick up but our own habits of recognizing the signs others are attracted to us ourselves. The rest takes care of itself naturally.

The best place to start is the habit of researching body language books not reading though page by page but reviewing various aspects discussions in general new to us and concentrating on coming back to the them flirting with the courtship body language signals chapter back to the generals. It will take time. Scientists have found it takes a little under a month on average for any habit to take properly.

The habit of coming back to review bits and pieces every wear hundreds and thousands of times we will learn a thing or two more every time. It needs to be we have reviewed those bits and pieces hundreds of times.

The experienced habitually hesitates in a crowed singles bar or night club seating circles making a mental note of all the possibilities. Woman habitually signal men they fancy more than once.

Experienced man have developed their own unique style allowing for a percentage of how many times other promising girls got his attention back to them in a minute to check for the signs how the others are getting on.

Done hundreds and thousands of times before we notice introvert and extrovert behavior when we see it. With experience we notice signs some people energized in crowds others not. We've seen it all before people seem alive in company while we can't help noticing others obviously not enjoying the company as much by the shy hovering in the background behavior. It's obvious they are not making any attempt to join in.

By the time we gained expedience we'd seen it often enough. Since we have seen this sort of thing many times we recognize extroverts and introvert behavior body language anywhere. That is how we can tell between gay and straight people body language signs anywhere.

It come stop ass time and time again we developed a habitual observation people energized in the company of groups we can recognize as an extrovert behavior langue. Some of the signs of Bipolar disorder. While others look as if if they are not fitting looking uncomfortable. Experience tells us that this is not necessarily being left out because we have seen introvert behavior not comfortable with many for long hundreds of times before. We have seen their body language change to relaxed signs when alone with only one person. We've seen it often enough.

Seen many times before we often observe extrovert body langue behavior the saying "Two's company three is a crowed" is not necessary true for them, while it's typical of introvert body language behavior the opposite that it is very true. The habit seen often enough we have a great deal of self confidence we'd picked up our dream person hundreds and thousands of times before we can pick up anybody we want any time well like. We've done it all before.

Experience has seen gay as well as straight courtship behavior hundreds and thousand of times. That's how they can tell who's who in a mixed night club and single bar environment is really typical. They have seen it often enough. They habitually notice these things. What they have seen hundreds and thousand of times becomes is very familiar. Very common. Typical.

The habitual scanning picks up a lot of useful information

Those who have hardly done this sort of thing before has the habit of a folded arms mode scanning crowds. Their habit may ask what's wrong with that? I feel comfortable that way". Every body language book constantly advise it's not exactly the best positive look to pick up with. A key to understanding this is an ability in roll playing images in body language book examples look like in different situations.

Think of the image as a stranger you are are approaching. Practicing in our heads straight will be enlightening . Body language books describe how to read everybody's hidden thoughts. But they neglect concentrating the readers signals inevitably portray themselves to others. There should be a lest a chapter title like "What are you saying with your body language to others"

The habit of folded arms everywhere. Been in night clubs and singles bars hundreds and thousand of times before the experienced knows all to well the chances all sorts of thoughts by others in a the confines of a crowed singles bar looks just like a bouncer over seeing every body behaves and waiting to throw someone out any moment or undercover cop working in the place scanning for evidence of criminal activity.

Simple testing roll plying the pictured illustrations in body language books with folded arms you spotted scanning the floor of a crowed singles bar. Other way way what it would be like for you if the image was a stranger you are approaching can be illuminating. Very often folded arms can make us nervous enough to be tongue tired. Another confirmation is yourself in a mirror.

We can see straight away what we look like when watching in a folded arms mode to ourselves in a mirror. Compare that with hands in pockets. We notice something else. The geometry of our faces. We can be shocked at what we see with folded arms.

If we habitually roll play picking up a girl (or a man ) body language book illustrations hands in pockets seated or standing, hands on hips, cowboy stances an other illustrations we can become an experienced expert in our heads because we have seen that sort of thing hundreds and thousand of times we habitually notice in the the real world too.

In the habit of tilting our heads in a "let me see" analytical view point seems a change. The thing we most notice how dramatic even with the slightest tilt it can be. Once again when we try with hands in our pockets it just as dramatically changes with folded arms.

We can be pleasantly suppressed at what a difference it makes to ourselves. We find ourselves in a cute smile that dramatically changes things again. Scientifically speaking tilting the head, back, down left or right even if ever, ever so slightly in effect is adjusting our best side towards our selves. Now image if it was you who caught you doing that to you.

Imagine face to face with a woman ( or a man ) of your dreams talking to you with your arms folded. Then imagine the woman with her arms like you see to you. Try with hands in your pockets. Imagine a woman in that mode to you while talking to her. We instinctively shift most of our weight to a leg and in a "let me see" analytical tilt of the head.

Getting into the habit of hands in pockets with ever so slight tilt of the head everywhere, anywhere and everything we do all the time prevents us from the habit of forgetting we are listening with folded arms mistake. Making a habit of anything makes perfect. Our brain takes over letting us know all the time we've done what ever habit we get ourselves into hundreds and thousands of times confidence.

The habit of hands in pockets we develop the habit of feeling we look and feel great every day and everywhere we go.

Observing our faces if we can spot imperfections in our skin tone which others will too. Skiers and cyclist with wind blown redness looking uneven sun burn all over on the checks. We all notice and old and ugly appeal. Cosmetic products traditionally reserved for women that will help hide all that making the face the back to the illusion of very young and youthful looking.

If we get into the habit doing this all day we begin to recognize the the benefit of folded arms and hands in pockets have their places that can work wonders. For example the folded arm testing with left, right, up, or down head tilt combination in a mirror to ourselves we can see has their places. The folded arms maneuver can help deflect challenges directed directly at us by others. There is respect observing somebody in a tense situation reaming cool calm and collected during a tense stand off in though calm body and facial language signs not afraid of looking after themselves when need too.

The insipience tend to show panic or frustration all over their faces as well as afraid body language signals. The "Oh O! " flight or flight shock look response written all over their faces coupled with some body language signals. Common looking away and down.

Extreme cases of frustrated feelings though face wiping which tend to pull a scared crazy eyes look, wiping hair over ears in a extreme case with both hands in a tense stand off environment where people are looking on. Trying those to ourselves in a mirror we'll soon get the idea why we can easily be assaulted, laughed at as a jerk and thrown out of a place with no sympathy by our trousers by a bouncer.

Likewise the hands in pockets technique has it place as all the body language tips you see in body language books. Practicing enough of the relaxing technique to a point we have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before we begin the habit of it naturally knowing places and times to use the signal properly and in it place have developed experience on our side. It's n good to know we have done something hundreds and thousands of times before confidence behind us.

It is the backing of our experiences we'd done it all before successfully that we are so familiar it we can always do it again. It is good to know our brains never let us forget we have done it all before. We also learn the value of what happens when we over do things too.

The habits of the experienced instinctively avoids limbs anywhere near, crossing each other or the body standing or seated. For both men and women habitually hands in pockets ,including blouses, dresses jeans or slacks. Experienced would noticed this sort of language in others hundreds and thousands of times before. Very common relaxing technique as demonstrated consistently in all body language books.

The relaxed attitude tends display a visual normal looking when we see it in a mirror of ourselves is equally from someone else's point of view us too. Everybody is relaxed. If someone else is observant will notice the behavior the experienced person well aware this can typically happen being unexpectedly picked up or flirt to from a girl or men or two approaches

Habitual roll playing in our heads is a good away to develop any habit. We are putting into practice our own private fantasies where there is no fear off disappointing frank rebuffs of being asked to leave. Without the nagging fear we are free and open to do in our heads what ever outcome our hearts desires.

Most people will call this day dreaming fantasies. But if we make a habit of it we soon get this nagging habit we have to make it come true. Once a habit gets a hold of us we can't shake it off easily. Thus dismissing the habit as day dreaming fantasy won't help developing the habit to make our desire come true.

When we have the habit of not being afraid to approach a potential partner of our dreams in our heads we start the burning desire habit to make it come to pass in the real world. Habitually roll playing approaching a stranger of our dreams in our heads with out fear will be able to transform into the real world.

The property of understanding women's moods for men is an important part of picking the girls. For women understanding men's attitudes is equally important. In general psychological practice it is called emotional intelligence formally known as sensuality expressing we are intelligent to other people feelings. If these people were to take an empathy questionnaire would score a high empathy IQ. We all notice an inelegant attitude towards us.

What's empathy? A feeling for others. The characteristics doesn't concentrate on communicating practical solutions to problems but dwells on shearing how it feels communication. High emotional intelligence is the key for that sort of thing. It simple means a person with a talent at picking up on how others feel.

An example, the ability to recognizes someone displaying depression signs when they see it. Empathy is about this ability. The opposite to this having know idea how others feel. In the battle of the sexes the difference is often expressed with the classical old cliché "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus"

That is not necessarily true. A husband with a high empathy intellect towards his wife is sure fire recipe for a successful marriage. Like wise a wife with the same empathy towards men's ways is a guaranteed loving relationship. Experience tends to habitually apply empathy in their pick up approaches. Done hundreds of thousands of times before can easily communicate shearing combination.

The habitual sensuality practice tend to treat everybody as if they weren't born yesterday approaches, as if intelligent and smart, treating others as if they have been there and done that attitude. Both men and woman notice that sort of treatment from each other. Conflicts and marriage break ups when each partner has poor emotional intelligent skills with each other.

Experience has taught most people we do much better at bars and night clubs rather than public places like libraries and beaches. These are the places inexperience have no business practicing. Public places are far to tricky to get away with inexperienced at picking up a lover. Only the experienced individuals has the capability of knowing how to handle the tricky formal setting and even then it is a challenge to the most experienced.

The best place for inexperience novices are single bars and night clubs because it is the closest thing to a place where others are potentially doing the same thing a perfect spot for self taught body language book details in action. Body language books are a excellent heads up in what to look for signs.

Observing flirting signs from body language books is the best way to develop the habit of it. Don't take one with you. It will can easily be seen as a joke. And there is a potential of getting into the habit of rousing lots of suspicion an uncover cop operative on the prowl where all activity will all but dry up round you. Be aware of that sort of thing can happen by the habit of the relaxing hands in pockets whether standing or seated.

If already been there where opportunities suddenly dried up round you will recognize the latter. Being aware we can guess we had inadvertently may have aroused suspicion that might have happed. Inexperience gives itself away every time.

Avoiding behavioral suspicion while investigating body language hundreds and thousands of times develops a habitual skill of patient and discrete reconnaissance. The experience habitually avoids the habit of making people self conscious they are being observed.

The habit of scanning a dance floor and what's going in on the dance floor and seating arrangements for signs off flirting is often a life saver from making a disastrous moves. The experienced have learnt to habitually look for the same sex as well as opposite sexes flirting signs to each other before they make the mistake of moving in where they are not wanted.

They are on the look out for possible chaperone ( escort signs hovering in background keeping an eye on who they are escorting ) brothers and sister signs and signs of long time friends only out to have a good time signs. Done this sort of thing hundreds of thousands of times before is a great confidence we always know everything that goes on.

Experienced brain knows how to processes all this information advising them on it offering heads up advice and so know exactly what they are doing and will be in for if they do make a move in. The habit of reconnaissance prevents mistakes happening before they happen.

The flip side inexperience in a egger to get on with it will miss a lot. Not careful with all that activity going on is a potential for disastrous mistakes often end up with disappointment simply not careful going in where they where not really wanted.

Problems for the inexperienced men ( as well as for women ) encounter the classical display of turn off signs. The typical characteristics is a refusal to play to conversation openings. In most cases women ( as well as men ) habitually display the no sympathy attitude to inexperienced approaches.

The jerk approach behavior is often the most rebuffed.

A quiet bored treatment often confuses the inexperience how to deal with an unresponsive conversation. Attempt after attempt is made until has had enough treating the women as joke or a woman with frank rebuffs to the inexperienced approaches. The inexperienced can be left protrude and confused "Why do women do that to me" The same often applies to a woman.

Advice for the inexperienced is to take the advice of body language books. Book after book all say the same thing. limbs crossing any part of each other, self touch, hiding any parts of the body are expressed as barrier signals, arm and leg folding styles are tense put off signals with the exception of couple of important courtship signals. Book after book say the same thing about hands in pockets with no crossed limbs is considered a relaxed body sign that tends to relax everybody else.

They advise trying to stimulate a conversation side on doesn't work. Trying it standing while the potential partner is seated is not on the same level. They advise in standing position frontal face to face approaches no body touching, hands in packets relaxation aid with all hand held objects considered as barriers like a drink to be removed by putting aside.

The important point to bear in mind that they are all unconscious displays most of them habits. The habit of crossed limbs with any part of arm and leg or body, folding styles can cause tension with others in informal atmospheres like a night club. The experienced has developed the habit of the opposite uncrossed limbs away from the body. Hands hands in pockets has become a habit while seated often work wonders in helping to relax everybody else round them. Body language books discuss and show examples of relaxed stiles of seating.

The important point to bear in mind when learning these things is not to get caught up in a eagerness carry away show. It will look over done and acting causing tension. With experience you will notice it yourself when someone else tries it looking like a embarrassing joke. In any embarrassment people tend to behave with request frank requests to behave or ask to leave. Experience people have developed into a habit of looking normal if not a little sweet.

The trick is rehearse in a few samples in body language books in a mirror to get an orientation of what you will look like from other peoples point of view. Try the body language moves that you have the habit of.

Problems occur when empathy intelligence is lacking. For men in particular approaching women with poor sensuality skills. Women may recognize the signs of poor empathy skills in a man but if equally low skills themselves has the habit having no sympathy for inexperience pick up approaches. They habitually display the classic moody turn off signs.

An Inexperienced man with poor sensuality skills may try to hang in their making himself a persistent jerk. Reasonable sensuality has the ability to at lest detect the moody signals possibly a guy woman getting the message not wanted. In his inexperience will quietly back away with a possible quiet apology for the intrusion.

A high sensuality intelligence is the most experienced and will probably developed the skill of telling if gay or straight from an attitude language developing the habit a specialty of low sensuality and moody women. In the habitual ability developed the habit of being able to take on the challenge of turning round a moody straight women round hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced men as well as women as in experienced guy people will notice inexperience and experience when they see it adjusting their moods accordingly. A highly sensual guy and straight women will recognize a persistent jerk as not necessarily a jerk turning her on sensuality skills to her advantage the habits of being a jerk towards her soon disappears. It take a high empathy IQ in both guy and straight women to and experience taming somebody behaving like a jerk into someone who is not.

When we have turned round a jerk behavior round to somebody else nicer hundreds and thousands of times it is a piece of cake to us to do it again and again.

Reasonable emotional intelligence habitually displays inexperience though picking up on the moody responses of any women. Poor emotional intelligence will be disappointed. It tends to vow to never make the mistake of upsetting her again backing off and avoids her after that. These guys are genuinely afraid of the moody display girls can look like she's about to call the police or her boy friends for help she is sexually harassed any second.

Experience observers will notice what both did wrong. It will be clear as the noses on their faces approached either a timid and shy way or a complete jerk approaches and the moody turn off signs showing no sympathy for the inexperience by the woman. Experienced observers spot low sensuality skills in both sexes when they see it because they have seen it all before. It is very familiar to them. typical mistakes.

The inability to pick others intelligence has developed the experience. If it continues there is a potently lack of experience that shows in both sexes in poor conversation opening sequences. If it becomes a habit of women to have no sympathy with inexperience pick up approaches has done that sort of to many men hundreds and thousands of times before. Trouble is habits are almost impossible to change once they get a hold of a person.

Men can eventually be so frustrated and angry will become wiredrawn with themselves showing it by lashing out at woman are all the same. If rejections continue they develop the habit of believing they are unpopular with girls. These guys have seen the impatient no sympathy syndrome hundreds and thousands o times before. The same is true with women. If turn off’s keep continuing to be a habit will soon develop a bad habit attitude men about women and women about men the source of sexist remarks and jokes about each other put downs.

On the other hand if highly sensual in the first place began the habit of being charming in the company of of thousands of girls becomes before that developed the habit of a good attitude towards woman and if the habit of girls warming up to a man continues will find his own habit very exciting often can't wait to charm all sorts of women with pleasantries for more attention. Their high sensuality ( or emotional intelligence ) has habitually communicated on the same level as women hundreds and thousand of times before will convince them of that for ever.

A guy not very good at being sensual will experience continual habits of women not very impressed with them all the time. They will develop the habit in their heads it's true they are unpopular with girls. They have seen it often enough. On the other hand if a man is highly sensual good experiences keep coming breading the habits in their heads it's true they are popular with girls. They also have have seen it often enough. In both cases they have been though it all hundreds and thousands of times before over the years that alternately determines the habitual self talk belief about themselves for a long time.

The habitual habit of a guy who believes unpopular with girls will almost be impossible to change unless their is an agenda, a purpose for the change. Habits need a convincing motive to modify the stance. The habit of believing unpopular with girls is based on the habits girls unexpressed with them so it is simply not possible to change it to not being unpopular with girls.

The main problem with inexperienced men have encountered the reaction of inexpeinces women where both don't know what to do. A highly sensual experienced person will recognize inexperience when they see it.

There are both men and woman who have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before who recognize experience and inexperience alike. The habit of chasing over the years have seen everything seen it all before and done it all hundreds and thousands of times. The start was a early habit, why they are so successful. Experience tend to recognize inexperience when they see it remaining cool calm and collected adjusting their attitude accordingly.

All the traditional courtship behavior remains intact expect for one detail. Experienced women noticing a jerk behavior yet initially fancied him when she spotted him, instead of waiting to be being lead by the guy they recognize their from observing their behavior leading the guy in opening conversations before he can say or do anything else to draw out the real person by her charm towards him before he gets in first to make a fool of himself to her. Done hundreds and thousand of times before can get on with the court ship ritual. It is all due the habit of doing that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced woman who habitually encounters jerk behavior thousands of times. They have a unshakable confidence in remaining cool calm and collected applying psychology onto them becoming someone completely different. It is usually experienced prostitutes who have seen it all before where jerks don't know they had been put in their places. Experienced women are in hot demand. By contrast a woman who has never done that sort of thing before. Mistakes will be made turning off men against her that certainly could have been an ideal in the end.

Experienced woman can turn an boring jerk talking who habitually talks to much into an intelligent two way conversation because done hundreds of times before. We'd think they were psychologists in dis skies.

It started as a habit and by now have to do that sort so often to get more. Since they have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before the traditional roll of only men has take the lead has been abandoned in favor of experience in the last decades.

Other girls getting their men and men getting their girls and we don't is just experience on their part. Remember making a jerk or a laughing stock of ourselves is just inexperienced on our part. The experienced have seen inexperience behavior in action and so will we hundreds and thousands of times when we see it. The habit studying body language book images and mirror practicing will all help to gain confidence we also have done it hundred and thousands of times too..

We are often reminded of a philosophical cliché we can do anything when we put our minds to it. But there is something more powerful. Habits. Nothing to do with anything about good or bad only anything we started finally doing it hundreds and thousands of times without any more conscious input from ourselves anymore.

Psychologists specially hypnotists believes habits that rule our lives comes from one place, the start of a habit from self talking. Not the out loud conversation with ourselves, but the habitual silent thoughts flowing though our heads. In other words we are what we habitually think about. Hypnosis believe habitual thinking Habits come from a part of our brain that is our unconscious selves.

According to hypnotherapy we have two parts to our brains a conscious and an unconscious part. We know our unconscious part  when we get hit on the head knocked out, or used as a esthetic operation preparation. We have seen our unconsciousness in action thousands of times on TV and  movie plots. Someone sometime or another is knocked out cold. We have twin but opposite parts of ourselves genome. We've seen hundreds and thousands of times paramedics fighting to keep someone conscious and so on.
What is this conscious and unconscious states we have?

We are aware of being aware. There are some days there seems to be to many hours in a day. But when it comes to our unconsciousness all we know of time flow is meaningless when out cold. We have no memory of several days when we come to. Only when we come to are we conscious. Strange as it may seem a bit like a science fiction time traveler traveled many years into the future that feels was not much more than less than a second or two.

Who's to say we are permanently unconscious only for the fact there is a conscious veil we are aware of being aware operating in foreground like the desk top of your computer's operating system desk top permanently open in the background of this page. Our consciences understands the difference between one plus one is two and two plus one is three. Our mathematical instinct aggress with the logic. Math's can't lie you know.

In comparison our unconscious is an unintelligent moron .It hasn't the ability logic to agree. It excepts one plus one equals two and one plus two equals four but doesn't know the difference. In fact because it doesn't know anything about any differences it is instructed except as fact one plus one is two that equals one plus one is three. It thinks in terms two plus two is two equals two plus two that equals three the same as four. As far as it's concerned one plus one equals one one plus one that equals one plus two, that equals one plus one that equals one plus two that equals one plus two equals that equals one plus two that equals......... Everything is equally to everything.

Our five senses are excepted by our unconsciousness the same way. Our unconsciousness can't tell the deference between, smell, taste, touch, sight, and hearing. Even semiconscious the sight of a car, it's color, music, the smell off roses wolfing from a near by garden and the taste of the after math of a burger are all registered as the same things.

Our unconscious hovers in the background when we are fully alert. Our habits are started by our unconsciousness that can't stop. We start the processing programming our unconsciousness in a run away habit. The habit takes charge of our self communication dictating mind sets of who we are, and who we are not, and what we believe about ourselves is true and not true.

When we start the Habit of roll playing in our heads our perfect day is habitually happening to us every day we will develop a nagging habit it seems to be true. When we star the habit of self talk soon becomes a instructive habit, soon automatically carried out with out any conscious effort from ourselves to a point we stop arguing the pros and cons. It applies to everything.

When we start the habit of believing smoking is hard to give up only reinforces the belief. Any habit is a experiences of been there done that, hundreds and thousands of thousand of times before. When ever our habits are threatened by our own reasoning we tend to experience temper tantrums to to hold on to our habits.  We start experiencing panic attracts  which is why it is hard to give up smoking called withdraw. Many inexperienced observers often panic in sympathy because the don't recognize it's only display of withdraw systems. Imagine the threat we have to give up what we have already done hundreds and thousands of times.

Imagine an electronics repairman who have got hundreds of thousands of electronic apparatus running smoothly hundreds and thousands of times threatened to give it all up.

When it comes being aware we think on a conscious level. The third part of us, is us. We are our critical facture. We are the ones that decide what is and what isn't for our selves. We decide who we are and who we are not. Our conscienceless is just an organic that store house of informed judgments. Our background unconsciousness on the other hand is none critical, it hasn't a clue about judgments .With out our critical input it is a mindless automaton. It doesn't know anything about  analyzing pros and cons and making critical judgmental like we do. A case in point.

A person has been overcome by smoke in a house fire. The unconscious person still has time to escape to survive even when flames licking close by. The unconscious level cannot understand any of that kind of the concept even when still alive. It only knows how to keep it's body functions alive while it can. It only knows to stimulate the basic body functions to survive in a desperate attempt to stay alive while being consumed by fire. If lucky to come to fo any reason after breathing in all that smoke we take over.

When come to we are the conscious self not our brain. Our brain is only a simple communication device with the outside world. We are the intelligence living in it that will act for survival. Panic is often when things are very unfamiliar. But when we have been in a situation like that hundreds and thousands of times before our brain not letting us forget  previous experiences come to us in an instant flood. Our thought's are organized because we have done this sort of thing many times before. Not done before makes us unintelligent doing the wrongs things at the wrong times often for the wrong reasons often dictated by the thinking of unfamiliarity.

In an extreme case example of done something hundred and thousands of times before those that have been in earthquakes hundreds and thousands of times will be familiar with the latest event when it occurs experiencing little to no fear so are cool calm and collected with floods of memories of the after shocks that typically came from the previous experiences. The person will expect them coming as typical events that are going to follow when the main event is over. They will be prepared for the after socks every time they occur.

The first time in our lives is the key to panic and despair. For some reason everything seems to fast to think properly we are urged by our heads to do something right now in panic. For some reason familiar with any emergency the perception of time seems to slow down time. The slowing of time in a emergency gives us a sense we have time to think.

A wealth of data from our previous expenses flood into our minds we convert into instructions. We habitual look round gathering data we can see chances of executing a safe plan of escape in the middle chaos such as in the middle of an earthquake or a fire and the chaotic aftermath when the main event stops. In the chaos thoughts of getting rubble shard up support for the coming after shocks.

Done anything hundreds and thousands before we having floods of memories we'd done before we
paternally think ahead during any emergency.

Been though all this hundreds and thousands of times before our senses and intelligence is sharp to notice things. Something tells us not to open that door. When we don't panic our consciousness reasons with a thought there could be anything behind it. A flood of what kind of consequences can happen if we do. With such none panic thoughts we can think of plan of rescue without getting hurt. Our escape is well organized because we have done that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

With a clear head we are clear in our thinking reporting to any other rescuers necessary information handy for rescue  like professionals.

When we have done anything hundreds and thousands of times before we are very powerful. Done thousands of times we are confident and not ruled by panic. We are foresighted in what to do in any emergency. We are capable of thinking up improvised plans at top of our heads at the spire of any moment.

Take a fire emergency. When been in situations thousands of times before we are capable of analyzing properly the  first thing that come into our heads. We analyze, plan and quickly think of checking as we go in the fire helping everybody execute our organized escape route while doing so. Clear headed we can think carefully. For example  when not panicking spotting closed doors we experience the experiences of before might be a fire behind it testing feeling and probing it before blindly swing it open before it's to late.

Done hundreds and thousands of times before wood an excelled insulator of heat spotting a wooden door size board can be an excellent shield opportunity to escape behind. Observing how much will be burnt will carry along for safe measure further along corridors for protection.  All this because the person has been in a emergency situation like this hundreds and thousands of times before.

In other words there is two parts, us and our mindless brain that depends on us. We are the conscious self were we are at our  most alert. Without us our brain is just a organic computer automatically keeping our body alive and no more. A clear case in point when  we are unconscious our brain  is numbed not responding our inputs.

We are aware though our five sense though our organic windows of sight, hearing, taste and smell provided by the brain. We are like a person isolated in a room with only a keyboard, mouse and monitor controlling how we interact with life on the internet as the outside world , though a computer window, ( sight ) the multimedia speaker system, ( hearing ) taste and smell sensations picked up by the senses of the computer.

A part of our brain that stands between us it, is our unconsciiness. There is a minimum of slightly unaware of our immediate surroundings. The daze of a bitter disappointment's grief, and even the shock of witnessing a traumatic event will do it. In a extreme case panicking causes a lowering our alertness level. Think of the cleaver quick thinking we admire of others who have the ability of not panic in any emergency.

There is a consensus among hypnotists who believe the unconscious part of our brain is the place were the secretes about ourselves and habits come from where they have the knack at being able to  tap into it by lowering us from it.

Us being the critical facture the critical factor is gaining trust otherwise we  tend to rebel rendering our selves useless to hypnosis. The key facture to show Hypnotists is a friendly charm. It is an ultimate ice breaker ideal for business and sales people opening trust that promotes communication. Some people struggle it while others are naturals.

It is one of the factures we all find hard to resist rendering our cooperation.  We tend to over look the quite quiet and surly person until it is too late we are astonished to learn committed a murder atrocity we thought would have not done. The secrete to recognizing a potential perpetrator is recognizing very little and surly communication. As the saying goes "It's the quiet ones you have to watch" With the extreme charm is the key characteristic of con artists. We all fall for friendly charm. It's what makes us so vulnerable to con artists. 

We all impose negative impact on ourselves one way or another in our every day lives though a nonmaterial reviler. One common is day dreaming. When we day dream everything around us is less conscious wide open to our auto polite brain taking in the data from the outside world with out our input. Hypnotists believe under such circumstance we can potentially program our friends when they are in a momentarily lapse. Show hypnotists are dealing with hundreds and thousands of strangers all the time. They have applied friendly charm to induce the trust of the thousands before the proceeded with them This is a pre-relaxing technique to render our trust states.

Show hypnotists charm has to be genuine to us since the hypnotists is a stranger. We tend to be supper sensitive to picking attitude. Our mindless brain can only provide incoming data. It is us who analysis and decides. Our judging is the most important part to show hypnotists. They have to  make it clear to gests we are not fools.

The environment round us can momentarily fade out as we drift into a world of our own. This can only happen when when we feel safe and relaxed.

During this period our brain is continuing the receive any  music, ( any sounds in fact ), any talk back radio or TV commercial to interview programs our brain. That's al it takes to be programmed by a TV commercial. We often fade in and out of alertness. This is because  Our brain is a fixed constant from the day we were born while we have varying digress from drifting off to sleep to a world of our own.

We all all born with a unconsciousness gene. In fact we are born that way. Medical TV shows testifies to this as apart of the human condition to fit in with the story lines. Action an adventure testify to Paramedics, nurses, and surgeons clamber about patience trying to save them going into shock to avoid unconscious and coma. Story lines of being whacked from behind sending people unconsciousness and coma stories and all that.

There seem to be  a mechanism that protects us from the shock of extreme pain.  Imagine what it would be like to have a major operation consciousness. We are born with the condition we are often lowered in some form of alertness. We fade in and out of alertness like the volume of a stereo from maximum zero.

As far as a coma is concerned coming too is always to us as if the last time remembering consciousness which would only seem a moment in time we don't exist until we come to, the closest description of what it would to be like dead.

Imagine being conscious in a coma. Coming out of one for as many days, weeks or months even years that we didn't exist until we gain our conscious level. From our  point of view would have traveled into the future somewhat.

Wile we are out of it. There is no concept of any past present or future concept when we don't exist while unconscious. All our brain knows the past is seen in a hear an now present us unconscious or not. We often hear of 30 years described as a long time ago at the same time amazed at some people saying a experience 30 years ago like it was  only yesterday. All those years of experience is a memory of right here and now.
All the time in a coma is our unconsciousness records as a present time. All the person knows when came too the last time remembering fully conscious.

In the medical world Surgeons tap into lowering our consciousness level till we are completely unaware by using general atheistic. That's the general plan. There have been documented reports of atheistic that hadn't worked the way it should have.

Never the less, time doesn't exist as we know at any in degrees of conscious level only when fully alert. It doesn't exist at all to our unconsciousness. The lest severe the lay person understands as semiconscious, technically called concussion. We are in a state of dumb nuts not with it. Fainting spells including can't stop shaking because of shock that is a sign of lowered conscious. Heart attacks lowers our conscious level.
It this not quite with it state that we are at the most valuable to automatic suggestion.

To our unconsciousness not only the spoken word, but, smell, any sounds, including tones, high and low pitch,  feel, touch sensation pain, ( heat and cold ) just as it is with varying digress of light in sight is all instructive.

Hypnotists world wide believe our unconsciousness is a place where all our habits are controlled. Smoking is a classic example. Our consciousness is aware of the education smoking is bad for us. But for the life of us we can't explain the unexplained obstinacy of not wanting to give up. Saying we can't is actually the only conscious explanation of explaining away our unconscious addiction.

Our unconscious is fully active even fully conscious in touch with the outside world it is not aware of. All it knows the information coming from all our senses while we are unconscious. We are in fact unconscious except for our consciousness awareness operating in the foreground.

Our conscious part understands, A,  B,  and C, differences. A good analogy clarifying Hepatitis into A,  B  and C, category. Any doctor will tell you Hepatitis A is not the same as Hepatitis B or Hepatitis C even though they are all Hepatitis. Our unconscious cannot  think in that kind of differences. Everything equals all the same. It thinks in terms Hepatitis A is the same as Hepatitis C and Hepatitis C the same as Hepatitis B and Hepatitis B the same as Hepatitis C and Hepatitis C the same as Hepatitis A respectively. Every is the same.

Remember to bear in mind our brain having automatic functions keep us alive when unconscious. As far as our conscienceless is concerned we’re perhaps the closest experience of what it would be like to be dead even though still body alive even though it struggles with traumatized breathing and heart rate. We are not conscious to experience the share panic of the trauma. Only when we come to we begin to feel the conscious experience.

In the meantime our unconsciousness records everything of the trauma that is unconscious memory. It exists from moments of day dreaming to light concussion. Even light concussion is suggestive. There is a collection of all the times we suffered minor concussions we have consciously forgotten about, Not to our unconsciousness it's not. All records are there just not available as conscious memory.

There's no level to our unconsciousness. It’s a permanently fixed operating in the background of our consciousness since birth. When our consciousness is lowered, for what ever reason, leaves our unconsciousness open to our five sense sensations during unconsciousness programming us. Our unconsciiness continues to record everything.

Stories of amputees still feeing the ach of their amputated limb despite the fact the limb is not there and nowhere for doctors to dispense a pain killers. An example of how our unconscious memory runs our lives, an avid horseback rider comes off a horse braking a leg. All memory of the event  semiconscious memory during the periods of the stress. Giddiness on the verge of collapsing for example.

Although the leg has long since healed every time our unconscious hears or smells everything that reminded it during any traumatic incident remembers the trauma to our consciousnesses the cause of old wounds playing up latter at latter dates. Our unconsciousness is remembering flash backs of everything of our five senses.

There is a great deal  of attention brought to post traumatic stress issues recently. If there is ever a cause it would be  due to the reaction of our unconsciiness remembrance of traumatized events. Triggers can be a smell, a sight, a sound, to a touch sensation that can be the stressor that sends a person off their rocker. Chemical brain imbalance has been fingered as a possible maybe off mantle illnesses like bipolar disorder and schizophrenia.

The remembrance of a traumatic is often inflicted on us by our brain's memory system. Suffered extensive burns during a fire several years ago the wounds long since healed. Just the sound of any wailing of a emergency vehicle wail feelings of frantic and anxiety and the growing sensation where the person as burned start nagging nag. It is our brain memory remembering everything that happened communicating with us to get away from danger.

Getting down to the nitty-gritty of the sciences it is a chemical reaction of our living brain cells that make up the brain dedicated to living and surviving. Our bodies depend on our automatic brain functions controlling hormones to keep us functioning a normal. The automatic functions that keep us alive with out conscious effort is controlled by the chemistry brain cells that make up each dedicated part of the brain. For with out a chimerical reactions we would not exist.

Hypnotists believe we are programmed when we're off in a world of own state a day dreaming or reviver state. Half asleep is a lowering of our consciousness awareness. Maximum consciousness when are bright and alert.

Reviver is often brought on  by some monotonous routine getting to us like watching the scenery pass by in public transport to watching TV. Engrossed in our own thoughts waiting for commercials to pass we're not alert to the environment's background.

We are not even aware of a friend trying to tall to us unstill they gain our attention.

"Are you listening"  "A Penny for your thoughts"

"You hoo.....are you there!"

"Oh! Sorry! Sorry. What was that?"

Our unconsciousness harbors our emotional feelings such as elation and joy where rational reason doesn't prevail the characteristics of the manic episodes of bipolar disorder. The mid is in a run away not happy mood when it remembers the incident that triggered it in the first place were person experiences the pleasant emotion welling up inside us no matter how inappropriate at any time. It can be any trigger from an unconscious memory of a smell, taste, sound, touch or sight that is usually the stressor.

Bitter disappointments to heart rendering traumas can also play a part in rendering the shock of a world of our own that lowers our consciousness to same degree. Our unconsciousness operating in the background not only harbors the emotions for life the roots of post traumatic stress disorder. It is normal to experience bitterness and grief for a time being recovering back fully bright and alertness where rational reason prevails. Our uncommonness  is  a power drain on our full alertness.

Your unconsciousness heard it all right. The environment's background is an unconscious memory until it's brought to your conscious attention again where the unconscious memory is popped from your unconscious memory into your conscious memory. Some of us can recall what people just said quicker than others.

What ever is said to us during a state of any day dream is absorbed by our brain, as programming instructions. Our brain is not able to tell differences statements and questions are treated in the same programming context. Questions, regular conversation and explanations all have no pronunciation meaning.

It see's them  all as a single programming words. Hypnotisms believe even a minimal lowering of our consciousness is a potential programming effect on the brain thus us. During times of day dreaming we have a potential  of the words of songs we follow in our heads. They believe these moments our own thoughts program us including rehearsing songs we currently listing to or repeating over in our heads. During these day dreaming states what goes on in our heads we eventually unconsciously become.

If we keep repeating something long enough it's reparative we can eventually unconsciously become, positive as well as negative. If it becomes a habit can convince our unconscious it can get anything and do anything your habit demands. Habits convinces our brain  that convinces us of the unconscious habit, even if it is only an unconscious thing. Self talk habits often start as a passing though rehearsing in our heads caused by some inspiration followed by a curiosity. Curious enough we will be driven by our curiosity. Thus hypnotists into using hypnoses as a therapy are all unanimous our unconsciousness is the prime source of all our habits good and bad,

Curiosity inspires inspiration that inspires action. Curiosity is electric. It give results in discoveries and inspiration  bursts of energy and ecstasy. Habitual curiosity (and often driven by passion as well),  is the secrete of high achieving. Famous scientific people are habitually curious that's the cause of  the birth of modern quantum physics theory that started it all in 1900. Habits is also the same simple thing  that create self made millionaires. Habits are the driving of high achievers energy and focus even though it may be unconscious driven by their unconsciousness.

The best motor mechanics are caused by a deep passion and curiosity if he (and even a she) could get a old dilapidated vehicle running smoothly again. The habitual curiosity they can rebuild a wreck as good as new and curious if they can meat top safety mechanical standards required by the law putting it back on the road and running smoothly again. Curiosity starts to become a habit at being very passionate at doing good jobs at the absolute best. The same with individuals obsessed with achieving some record breaking attempt we criticizes as adrilllion  junky driven by habitual curiosity  to see if they can do it.

Curious to know is the secrete to scientific greatness like the famous hero Albert Einstein. He was curious about what it would be like at the maximum speed of light that inspired him to shear his thoughts during his employment at a patent office in 1905. (From Einstein's theory of reality my curiosity is what would it be like to travel a distance of a 160km, (100 miles),  in one second flat.

After all,  light at it's maximum speed in the zero resistance of open space does a distance of just under 300,000km in a second). Einstein's  curious habit was the driving force to his concentration and focus writing drafts and sending the final revised copies off to publishers eventually creating the world famous theory of relativity. In it he shared with his scientific colleges his inspiration extreme velocity causes time dilution and all his famous light laws. he discovered. In the second year of world war 1 further inspirations inspired him revising his 1905 version, he shared the inspiration gravity is caused by matter bending space. After the war it was proven by a measurement of an eclipse that light is indeed bent by gravity. Einstein became famous because of his curious habit of searching for the theory of everything shearing with his colleges though papers on the subject.

Habits are also the secrete of becoming millionaires. Being a millionaire is a habitual passion for businesses. The founder of the famous Windows computer operating system company Microsoft, bill Gates had a passion for computer programming when he was only a kid well over thirty years ago. He and a friend Paul

Allen's habits at playing round with the then computer technology become well known. Their curiosity at computer programming becomes a habitual source of their knowledge experience. The pair got recognized and some awards for excellence in that field. These two had a passion for businesses adventure using their experience curious the could write one of the early computer traffic control operating systems for a couple of traffic control firms in the midd 70's. Both men put their business and computer programming and businesses habits to good use becoming milliners today.

Mind over mater usually starts with a curiosity that never seems to be satisfied growing into a obsession of wanting to know more. A lot of us are skeptics about our mind controlling matter. If you are one of those you have every right to be skeptical because it can’t work with out a habit. Habits are the key to mind over matter control. Individuals that appear in the Gneiss book of records and Ripley’s believe it or not that seemed to achieve humanly impossible things were governed by the well known cliché everybody’s familiar with Practice makes perfect. They didn’t use their minds they way we think. It starts off as a curious idea.

When they first started it was impossibly hard. What starts as routine training excurses becomes a habit.
After a while they noticed getting closer and closer to their goal all the time. Now they've done it over and over hundreds of thousands of times before the discipline required has become so easy it's now taken for granted encouraging the habits to continue. Habits turn into an unconscious routine. When we fall into an unconscious habit we take for granted there’s no drudgery to spoil the focus. Habits can focus anybody into indefinite robotic routines.

It's habits why some of us are more lucky than others. Studies by professor Richard Wiseman of the university of Hertfifordshire has uncovered an interesting insight that suggests luck has to do with the psychological attitude of individuals. His report found those who considered themselves lucky were typically extroverts. Extroverts are at ease mixing  with strangers. Mixing well with strangers makes a lot of friends and friends leads to many open opportunities. At ease with strangers is the aptitude of the worlds great entrepreneurs, marketing gurus and sales people money spinners. These people have habitually been reminded how lucky there are over and over again habit even if it unconscious.

It can all just start with something as simple as any body put on a pedestal as a mentor that gets a lot of peoples positive attention at first. Then as it grows it starts to become routine the person soon gets used to becoming a typical  reoccurrence because the persons been there done that pedestal mentor all before. It can become quite intoxicating. All from a habit of believing because it's happen to them many times. 

Therefore to our  unconsciousness it's got to keep happening we habitually believe out of habit has always been that way. Soon our unconsciousness believes true becoming a part of the person's every day life they eventually taking it for granted without every thinking about it. We can say out of habit we believe in ourselves, just as it's a habit of being skeptical about how lucky we are not. Being skeptical about being lucky is a self talk habit that that our unconscious will believe habitually. It's a vicious circle.

But all is not lost with habitual negative thinkers because habits often change unconsciously to something else testimony when we work on changing our bad habits can equally work when we know full well some times change by themselves. Most of us are skeptical because when things change without us realizing because we are not aware have changed in our own minds. So we don't know things have changed because we need awareness things had change in our own minds to help us become stuck in a habitual possessiveness.

Habits cause mental pictures in our heads seeing ourselves at our goals encouraging rehearsing in our heads tactics and strategies that further encourages mental pictures of our goal encouraging inspirational plans to carry out our desires that encourages a sense of progressing. We developed day by day plans planning for our long term goal keeping us busy.  

Operating on the principle habits can convince us we are currying our cancers. It starts off with a curiosity of what's causing our ache and pains and recurring illness. Seeing doctors are tied down to obligations demanded by government agencies and drug companies in the name of sensitive politics not allowed educate patients on the cause of illnesses and cancers. This is why doctors can be a  very unhelpful source of education.

The curious take as much information as a doctor can provide visiting the health section in libraries filling in the rest educating themselves with books on their condition. Developing a habit we can discover more helpful information on how our illnesses and cancer works. We create a knowable data base in own own heads at what we understand is happening to us. The habit studying our symptoms from medical library books we can pin pointing the area of pains come from, matching symptoms to library books can be very educational enlightening and inspiring. 

Again curiosity is the key to habits. The information provided by library books and internet resources can became habitually encouraging and inspirational as they are writers shearing the same symptoms as you and me. There will be things you find you wonder why doctors don't embrace recommend and use. Again it all comes down they are not allowed to discuses ordered in their contracts by government and dug companies for political reasons. This is why our own research from libraries and internet can be more inspiring than your doctor's advice. 

We'll become so familiar with some of the medical knowledge will soon be taken for granted continually looking for more inspirations becoming an unconscious habit digging deeper and deeper into the world of our medical condition. With the habit of collecting medical knowledge we start the habit of forming plans in our heads. Before we know it our unconsciousness responds working on your plans automatically. We no longer struggle to think about how to implement our plans. We implementing our plans with out thinking automatically from continuous new inspiring information popping up as we habitually keep digging deeper and deeper into our medical condition. 

When we begin to take the knowledge we'd gain for granted, the habits of constantly forming plains to deasl with our condition becomes a unthinking habit from our unconsciousness 

Knowing how you illnesses or cancer works, you'll be inspired you can use your mind to fix it. The habit of instructing yourself the causes and habits and the things you can do to help curer your complaint can encourage mind over matter control controlling your medical condition better than doctors could their hands tied down by government and drug company policies. Ignorance of how your condition works is the cause of your mind's neglect neglecting it is the cause that makes it worse.

Knowing how your condition works, you understand what's causing it, getting inspiring insights you're doing well. The only way to know how your complaint works is the habit of studies study of internet web pages and library books looking for the symptoms the web pages and library books describe. A helpful way is a habitual diary, collection of the habits of your complaint can often sus out a pattern for us. Checking library books and the internet can inspiring. The studies habit can help with mind over matter control of your internal organs for grater health.

Habitual study supported by curiosity and inspiration promotes entitlement knowledge that promotes sense of well being. Habit fueld by passion can be worth a lot of money to major companies. Forming habits begin with  learning something that's new. Starting from scratch even the basics seem way, way beyond our league. My definition of experience is  is the habit of done something,  (anything)  hundreds and thousands of time before. A computer buff that's done programming on his PC hundreds and thousands of times is before is more of a confident professional than someone with just a diploma to show for it.

Habits being the thing that eventually becomes so familiar to us we start to take for granted as a part of our every day lives, is a recipe for high achieving successes. The rich and famous celebrities have done their thing so many times before without thinking how it should be done is at a point it's clockwork routine that their profession is taken for granted as a natural part of their every day lives. They've gotten so use to it they've taken their skills for granted worth a lot of many to many high profile companies.