Adusting and replacing brake pads Kona ute and mini uit cargo bikes

Kona chose a mechanical disc brake brand called Avid codenamed BB5 for their ute and mini ute cargo bike range. This brake system brand is a mechanical design meaning the same mechanical arrangement as any garden variety rim brake bike from the handle bar to the wheel caliper brake arm anchor points.
In dealing with the Kona ute and mini ute braking system we will be concentrating on the Avid BB5 braking system. When you squeeze the handle bar lever only one pad is pressed against the disc. A pad on the other side of the rotor ( the wheel spoke side ) is fixed. For efficient breaking the fixed pad needs to be adjusted close to the disc. If to far only the moveable disc is not pressing the rotor properly resulting in paternally distorting it causing only one side pressed on it causing spongy and ineffective stopping power. Another problem can also cause the same problem if the cable anchor securing the inner wire cable to the caliper brake lever has been dissembled and reassembled can potentially cause brake efficacy problems.
A bend in the inner wire cable at the anchor point on the caliper lever can cause spongy braking. If this is the case the cable has to be disassembled and repositioned so the cable is going straight into the cable adjuster.
Adjustment is provided on the caliper bake arm and handle bars. If the handle bar adjusters are adjusted to far out causes a fair bit of bending stress on the threads when squeezing the brake levers striping them te adjuster threads. Squeezing takes it's tool. So too to a lesser extent the adjuster on the caliper.  To prevent and solve this problem problem screw the adjusters all the way back to nil. We need to readjust the bake arm anchor bolt position.
The bike can either be left up right on it's wheels or turned upside down resting on the seat and handle bars it's up to you. Professional workshops have bike stands everything chest height both wheels off the ground. In a backyard situation with the bike upside down the wheels at lest are free to rotate when adjusting the pads to the disc. ( Or the rotor ).
An Allan key unlocks the anchor bolt holding the inner cable to the caliper brake arm. The arm will spring back to maximum distance.
Make sure to locate the wire so it going straight into the adjuster. Depending whether left or right handed and looking at the bake arm the bike upside down or if chosen the right way up, pull the tail of the wire to maximum taking up the slack and with the other hand free to push the bake lever moving the pad close to the rotor. Give a little extra to compensate for the taking up slack cables tend to do when retightening. You will have a bend in the cable again bringing you back to square with effecting brake performance again. Not only that but causes extreme maximum handle bar adjustment problems again. Don't allow run out of adjustment or every time you squeeze the handle bar levers or will stress the threads again. Leave the handle bar adjusters screwed right back to nil. So to the caliper brake arm adjuster.
As you finger tight to hold it letting it free you will observe the cable takes up the slack pulling the extra closeness of the pad away from the rotor. Turn the wheel round to check you haven't over compensated for cable slack movement the pad is too close to the rotor. If it is a bit close for your taste you can fine tune from here. Fine tuning is the key to efficient braking. Undo just enough you can slip the cable a bit a retighten enough and double check on the wheel is free to spin.
Spin the wheel gripping the handle bar levers so the wheel jambs instantly to a stop. As you hold the lever the wheel should be jammed in position. If this does not happen follow the text step
Turn you attention on the spoke side of the caliper. In the center is Allen key bolt. This adjustment adjusts the fixed brake pad. An Allan key through the spokes turning inward adjusts the fixed pad towards the rotor and screwing outwards away from it. Screw inwards finger tight on the rotor squeezing the handle bar lever checking the wheel is jammed by the pads.
Next gently unscrew outwards a little so the wheel is free to turn and spin freely. To far out will cause the spongy braking problem all over again. When the handle bars are squeezed you can actually drag the wheel against the squeeze of the handle bars. Adjust gain retracting back inward a bit. When you squeeze the handle bar lever again the wheel should suddenly jamb stop and can't move while the brakes a squeezed. When you release the levers the wheel will be free to spin freely. 
When satisfied don't wrench the maximum tight the anchor bolt or you will start the processes of striping threads. Just a light wrench tight is enough.
When adjustment like this is carried out the original adjustment is disturbed and the brakes have to be run in again. This is usually done in time during normal braking procedures while riding. A popular trick to help hurry up the processes is a bit of sanding on the pads. This is usually a bit of a discretion on your part if the pads look a bit to warn down a bit for that. It is a decision processes based on your own judgment how much they can take.
As you use your bike you will notice braking power is satisfactory even great. Never the less in time you will experience a slack growing. It is a normal sigh of time for the routine maintenance procedures of adjust the slack cause by the normal ware stretching of the inner wire cable and on the pads.
After a while when the pads get to be a bit thin noticeable adjustments of the brakes the caliper brake arm gets close to the adjuster as the brake pads get closer and closer to the rotor eventually there will be no more margin left left in the pad surfaces causing the inside brake arm lever mechanism from working properly to work the moving pad. Time to replace.
Replacing the pads.
When you come to remove the cover small parts can easily fall out and get lost. Or at lets spending all your time looking for them that could fall anywhere. It pays to put a catcher tray in direct line the parts may fall caching them so you don't loose them.
You don't need to remove the inner cable from the caliper anchor bolt. This can be ignored. Instead concentrate in unscrewing the fixed pad adjuster bolt out as far as it can go. You will find when you remove the wheel the pads won't interfere catching on the rotor. The wheel will come off just like that. The same Allen key that fits the cable fixed adjuster will fit the two bolts on the wheel side of the caliper. Don't be shy to put some weight on them to undo. But don't be rough unscrewing because of the aluminum threads. They must be with drawn out dead straight.
Once the bolts are withdrawn the cover comes off, one or both pads, along with the spring may fall into your catcher. Remember you are handling the brake pads from now on so your hands should be pristine clean to insure you don't transfer oil and crease to the oil absorbing pads and rotor.
Examining the spring is a “V” shaped steel spring as seem in the left picture each tip crumpled each end a "u" shape hook that fits in a slot in each pad. The spring is effectively sandwiched between them.
Notice the hole in the center of the pad. This refits to the corresponding peg in the covers. Make sure you reassemble the pad hole in the corresponding pegs in the calliper covers properly.
Reassembly is tricky as it is a bit fiddly. Fit a pad color side into the corresponding recesses in the caliper cover fitting the spring in the corresponding pad slot as shown by the left picture. Make sure the center hole is fitted in the peg properly
Correspondingly fit the other pad color inwards the cover recess guiding it hooking the tip of the spring into the hook in the slot of that pad.
Line up the cover to the threads. Careless fitting of the two bolts into theses threads here is the major cause of stripping the calliper threads rendering the bolts useless. Screw the bolts carefully dead straight with only fingers. Never force them with the spanner if they feel a bit tight. Carefully withdraw and jiggle the cover a bit so the bolts can finger screw with out any grinding tight feel freedom of movement.
The final tighten of the bolts is another area will strip the caliper threads. Don't wrench thinking maximum tightness. A light tug they can't and no more.
The next step is the refit the wheel. All that is need is to screw back the fixed pad back in position close to the rotor as already described in adjusting it.

Extreme drowsness hypoglycaemia

Mother nature seems to have designed our livers to dump loads of unchecked sugar in our system. We are supplied with an organ called the pancreas that produces a hormone called insulin that puts the brakes on our liver. Our brain and pancreas knows when there is too much sugar  in our system and starts secreting insulin. Another takes over call glucagon encouraging the rise in sugar level. Our brain and panaceas also knows when there is not enough stopping glucagon secretion  and increasing insulin when needed.
If the pancreases or brain doesn't adjust theses hormones when appropriately required there are sugar level problems called diabetes. It is a frailer to recognize low or high sugar levels changes resulting two types of diabetes.
Type one when the pancreas doesn't recognize there is too much sugar in our system secreting not enough insulin and possibly a Glucagon decrees failure too. The liver is free to run riot discharging sugar in the blood stream unchecked. The level of the two hormone productions could have frozen at a time when there was a high blood sugar level present that has never sensed a drop in levels any more , stuck on a permanent low level of insulin and possibly excessive glucagon when sugar level dramatically increases.
The end result is an excess sugar overwhelming our body cells. There is more sugar than they can take in. In time it takes it's toll damaging the ability to absorb until they fail to respond any more. Individuals with this condition are committed to a lifetime of manually injecting insulin for life to compensate what the pancreases should automatically do.
Type two, when the two hormones has possibly frozen at a level when there was once a low sugar level stuck on a permanent high level of insulin in the blood stream. The result is an inappropriate amount preventing the liver from secreting sugar into the blood stream. In other words to much insulin and possibly not  enough glucagon as well. If the cells don't respond to the glucagon any more is often expressed as insulin resistant. This is why type two diabetics can't have insulin injections.
To much insulin ( and possibly not enough glucagon too ) we have a situation where our body cells have reached a point where they aren't responding to sugar absorption any more. We start to experience a low blood sugar drowsiness. We experience an onset of an overwhelming yawing binge followed by the next few minutes increasingly fighting to stay awake. If the drowsiness is not recognized for what it is we often dismiss as just tired. Most of us don't recognize tiredness does not catch up with us like that. It is important to understand our brain needs a constant supply of glucose from the sugar in the blood supply. Low blood sugar is effecting it this way.
This sudden onset is virtually a glucose starvation fit. It is the result of a sudden drop of glucose due to the  possible over abundance of insulin and under supply of glucagon denying our brain glucose called hypoglycaemia ( pronounced as high pog gliss seem e a ) keeping our glucose level stubbornly low.
Described, is a low level hypoglycaemia shock. The word is often mixed up with the same word for high blood sugar by just a minor spelling difference and pronounced differently high "per" gliss seem e a. ( Hyperglycaemia ). The key difference is between low and high blood sugar levels "Hypo" meaning low and "Hyper" meaning "high". The drowsiness description is a relatively low level hypo attack. A hypoglycaemia attack is often a warning we are entering a phase of type one diabetes due to the fact the pancreas has stopped insulin secretion or at lest jammed on a too low level that's not enough to balance the high sugar level that has been damaging our cells they aren't absorbing the sugar properly.
Our pancreas can have stopped or jammed on a low level secretion for some time without being aware of it.. We didn't recognize the symptoms when they are to minor to pay attention to dismissing as just every day occurrences. They include the  following that can last a few seconds to a few minute bouts all day long at a very, very minimal levels for a week or two. We can experience a minimal sensation of not being very bright today. This includes minimal shaking barely warranting our attention, barely aware we are sweating enough not to pay attention to. Be aware of hot summer days can do this. We also barely notice pounding heartbeats, a minor case of struggling with minimal bouts of blurry vision all day, or a barely noticeable headache, light headiness, or poor coordination bouts for a second or two all day long we tend to dismiss as nothing more than momentarily lapses as just one of those days today. It only needs any one of the symptoms that can also be a signal of an accompanying dehydration this condition causes.
The symptoms don't come all at a cluster. It only takes at lest one. Only when a symptom becomes obviously more noticeable than normal we start paying attention focusing on that one. The others get ignored because they are a feeling of being so minor they are dismissed as nothing
A hypo attack comes on from the minor symptoms below our attention threshold for some time. If sure of type 2 diabetes feeling the start of a hypo attack and emergency food can help you recover eating a fast acting sugary item such sweets or sugary drink. But we can never be sure if it is a type one warning that can do more ham than good.
If you have raw sugar on hand that is better than the processes white sugar in a cup of tea or a sugary fizzy drink, but if that's all you have that will do. Slow acting carbohydrate foods such as bread and bananas can be potentially to slow for any fast help.
If you recover alertness from a feeling of extreme drowsiness quickly odds are you have a type two diabetes condition.
Just because you have an abundance of insulin in your system doesn't mean your free to indulge in lots of sugar. Bear in mind any instant carbohydrate are fast at acceleration your energy ideal in the emergency but are equally fast at decelerating it. The technique of recovery once recovered should be toped up a light meal of slow accelerating carbohydrate foods to help stave off just in case of a potential relapses.
This is why type two diabetes is very tricky. There is a tricky and careful diet résumé to follow.

We have all notice how computer players and recorders seem to handle heavily looked scratched discs. Some can even still play until the laser tracking reaches a deep grove locks up the disc in stubborn freeze frame.

A dull surface will do it. Before you insert or if in the machine remove it and check the sliver play side for a dull surface. When they get dull the surface is often not reflective enough for the laser. It isn't reflected properly even if not at all. New discs show how surfaces should be. It is suppressing polishing highly scratched looking discs looking like new works wonders even on fussy players. Pay attention to closely looking for little marks and spots.

Dodgy player or computer keyboard keys can be problematic in interfering with auto play functions. Computer operating system trouble shooter systems record theses as stop errors. They are due to a jammed, broken or collapsed button or keyboard key stuck on the press mode shorting the auto play function. It pays to pay closer attention to the buttons and get a second option on the button control conditions and properly fixed by an expert. Bad chassis cracks will do it. If you think back at any time you had accidentally knocked your computer and it seemed to function all right. In time the knock can take it's toll catching up with it.

As for record able discs sometimes formatted by one computer and played back in a different computer doesn't work. All it takes is any computer that doesn't have a similar software not recognizing the disc format. You can test this with other commuters with the same or similar operating system.

Recorded play back not responding is common of corruption due to interruption in the middle of the original recording. Optical discs are not like hard drives or our flash drive memory sticks. We can cancel or pull out of the USB socket in the middle of a recording session at any time with out corrupting those. We can start again. The operating system just deletes the original as it goes ahead of the new recording, but optical disks don't work that way. There is no ability of optical discs to delete the interruption let a lone record over. The interruption is permanent missing data play back cannot read back.

Once a recording session is under way they cannot be interrupted in any way. You cannot cancel because it is an interruption of data resulting in cannot be read back. If any record able disc cannot be read back is a dead give away it had been corrupted by an interruption in the middle of the recording session somehow, either by the user manually, a tiny spot on the surface was not reflective enough for the lazar or by a stop error from one of a shorting multimedia button.

Brand new record able blanks are no worries. Laid around for weeks though, before you burn it use a classes or similar cloth to polish up a bit. Don't scrounged hard circles. Just polish to looking like a new one looks. It's suppressing how a highly looking scratched discs can polish up looking like a new and play and read data perfectly provided there are no hidden mechanical stop errors in the keyboard keys or player buttons effected it.

Some of us are very nervous why people are so shy of them. Some of it is experience being ignored at parties and social gatherings. It's called receiving the quiet treatment and we all know about it when it happens to us in our company. We are social beings.It's in our DNA to feel bad when observing others busy communicating with each other noticing no time for us. It's made worse when we don't understand why it happens to us. We can become very disappointed with a crowed ending up very annoyed with the persistent quiet treatment paten in our company.

We are effected negatively observed by others in our attitude seen in our body language. The secrete cause of our dilemma can be caused by our annoyance and frustration that causes our pupils in our eyes to contract. Think of it this way. We know how we feel when we observe another person with tiny dark dots in the center of their eyes talking to us. We notice it in others just as other's notice our eyes have become beady little eyes because our pupils have contracted . We all tend to immediately shy away from people with those beady little eyes no matter how nice looking someone is.

A case in point the opposite scenario for a moment. When we observe grown ups with baby wide eyes no matter how plane looking we are immediately attracted. This is because subconsciously we observe wide dilated pupils not the eyes. The eyes can be narrow and still cute. Bear in mind the wide pupils can't be mimicked by widening the eyes. Straight away looks just like a crazy person. We all know when we see crazy eyes.

Think of it another way. You know what it's like when a plain looking stranger stares at you with huge dilated pupils and think or beautiful stranger talking to you for just for a few seconds with contracted pupils. I bet Adolph Hitler for example attracted a lot of people when he was excited in his speeches because everybody was memorized by the excitement in the dilated pupils caused by his own excitement when he was carried away with his speeches. Other times people shied away complaining he looked right though them probably because of contracted pupils at the time.

There is not a whole lot we can do about our pupils because the reaction is beyond our control specially when nervous, anxious and annoyed. But there is some psychological tactic targeting our anxiety that causes pupil contraction in the first place.

When we think of something very pleasant our eyes dilate open in thought. Operating on the principle we can apply something like that to help control our anxiety that to avoid prompting pupil contraction any more than need to.

Operating on the principle we all have our favorite joke that we can't help smiling over, a funny sight we've seen in the past, whether real life or TV, a favorite drama character a action hero  mentor or a comedy, or done something that makes us fee good about ourselves we have forgotten about. We can limit our pupil contraction by targeting our annoyance and anxieties by reminding ourselves of the latter. A helpful tip playing a game with ourselves with our favorite hero mentors imagining what it what would be like in the crowed with us. Ask that would they do to apply to yourself. This should help you keep cool calm and collected hopefully limiting pupil dilation.

Approaching someone with well meaning and careful sincerity with contracted pupils will enviably shy them into a quiet treatment to our conversation openers. At the other end of the scale we can approach a stranger with dilated pupils getting very pleasant conversation responding well  to our conversation openers. Even inexpeinces jerk conversation openers can sometimes get away it looking at the other person with huge cute dilated pupils. Both men and woman are highly addicted to large pupil dilatation in others.

Remember if can't resist responding to conversation openers to some with huge dilated pupils neither can others with our dilated pupils

The trick can be hard to control. They say we can do anything when we put our minds to it. There is something more powerful than that, that's infinitely more easy than using our mind. Habits. Once we start the habit of something we eventually loose conscious control. Until we get into the habit of it the response will be slow. Once the habit gets a hold of us we have done that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

One of the things that won't help is an environment where music we don't like. It will inevitably stress us causing pupil contraction and you're back to square one with all the headaches of others shying away from you.  Everything about the place will  annoyingly stressful and is often subconscious causing us to be constantly on edge. We would be back to square one others noticing though you attitude and above all our beady little eye pupil contraction. It's what everybody's pupils does when trying to hang in there with music we hate.

Operating on the principle of opposites, in an environment where music you love will achieve the opposite effect. Feeling cool calm and collected targets our anxiety thus limiting our pupil contraction that others will pick up on a lovely smile in your eyes.

The definition of experience is someone with a habit of doing something hundreds and thousands of times includes dating. The internet is never needed in the words the real world face to face stranger pick up experiences.

Done hundreds and thousands of time at the one night stand game habitually scan for people looking for the same thing. They frequently hang out at known singles bars. Not everybody at bars, clubs  and parties will be looking for one night stands. Experience is in on the look out for for who those look have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before. While the inexperience tends to jump in experience observe and waits to see who's who in a crowed.

The inexperienced is more like experienced at people being shy to them. This will make anybody uncomfortable. If we feel uncomfortable it shows though tense body language signs, foddered arms scanning a crowed is the most common. Experienced notices inexpeinces in others straight away how  inexperienced they are at the game. The inexperience is perhaps experienced at others very shy of them their faces and body looking withdrawn and nervous. They can't even communicate with conversation openers properly There is a reason for this

How that I've got that out of the way they say we can do anything when we put our minds to it. There is something more powerful than that. Habits. Done something hundreds and thousands of times before. A secrete to successes when we habitually talk too ourselves about the things we dream of, remembering our favorite joke to dwelling in our favorite music calms our anxieties The habit of roll playing the humorous things that makes us feel good, and positive things happening in our lives hundreds and thousand of times in our heads can show dividends how powerful habits can be.

As we have leant due to anxiety our own body language habits can be the most powerful put off's as well as turn on. When anxiety contracts our pupils  we start to notice when we get the minimum amount of attention to the maximum amount do you deny that? We all note the silent treatment something's up. "I must have done something wrong" When we don't know what we did wrong often comes out in more anxiety in  body language or another reaction particularly the face. When disappointed it looks a not pleased look no matter how humble we may feel. To make matters worse contracted pupils others notice.

Disappointment expression causes pupil contraction. We feel worse when others become very shy of us our conversation openers let a lone holding their attention. Very shy of us their faces drawn and tight in blank expressions, ( the not impressed look ) and a refusal to contribute to our conversation. No doubt they are noticing your own facial black expression of disappointment causing anxiety that causes pupil contraction trying to avid those beady little eyes of yours. All because of caused by anxiety.

Indicators experience notices is crossed arms and legs seated or standing and hand, beady little eyes, and body clusters most of us subconsciously to ignore our habitual bases it means nothing to us. Not until a drama comes to a head when it's all over ending up in a dismayed. "What did I do?"

It's important to bear in mind when we don't know why things are not going right with anything we become more stressed resulting in contracted pupils feeling bothered and confused which all to often comes out in our habitual facial look and body language responses because we are so anxious often coming out in a drawn out blank expression trying to figure out what is wrong with us or in others in the habit of trying to hide our worry. This includes worrying if we might step on a few toes in the environment round us not to motion if a lot of the tension caused by the environment from the music you really don't care for.

On that note music you happen to love can be a life saver keeping you calm resulting in limiting pupil contraction others will see how you are so relaxed seen in your eyes. Others won't be so shy of you  as much as if you had contracted pupils.

Body language experts teach us to observe body language behavior. Truth is, we all habitually concentrate on faces for information. Only the experienced individuals how have mastered their anxiety with tricks of their own at this sort of thing, body language experts, and those that have just been introduced to it learning to pay more attention to the rest of the body will observe the rest of the body signs. The second truth is, in a ordinary every day situations we habitually ignore body language itself habitually looking for it though attitude in others faces. Habitually concentrating on the face we unconsciously stuck in observing attitude clues from that area.

Little wonder the habit of concentrating on the face for clues of attitude the old clichés "The eyes have it" "The eyes are the window to our souls ".We are habitually sensitive to a worried look of a blank expression as a moody cold fish look in others. If we habitually carry the blank expression look over to single bars noticing any one we fancy with the same blank expression look on the face of the one we fancy we are  just as sensitive to it as we are and tend reciprocate with each other the same blank expression.

The blank expression in both us is not a blank expression but the look of nerves "Gosh I'm so nervous" and disappointment written all over the faces followed  by the resulting rest of our body language signals just as the rest of the others round us is equally habitually concentrating on our faces for attitude clues in us.

Often as not, noticing a blank expression we naturally avoid the moody "What are you looking at?" glare. We all get the message in less than a second glance. "What are you looking at? Stay away" looking glance. Naturally we look down and away. We then have then unconsciously we take the opportunity to observe the body language signals in the corner of our eyes as we move on and mingling with the rest of the crowed.

The blank expression look is for business and  formal occasions. It has no place in informal singles bars. We see blank expressions all the time in public places. It is very powerfully in board room meetings, business wheeling and dealing and court room dramas. The same blank expression doesn't have the moody cold fish look there, as we seen on jurors, judges and lawyers faces in a court room drama.

Watch what happens to our feelings in discussion in a board meeting, wheeling and dealing business or a defendant in a court of law if every body was relaxed and smiling. The blank expression has it's place.

We notice a social gaze when someone talks to us when someone we sense is gazing only at our nose area. We notice a different gaze taking to us as if third eye right in the center of our forehead. We know what that feels like when we see an authority look of a business gaze. If someone has the habit of being a non stop bore it will help slow them down.....a lot. If they had the habit of it, eventually the Penney drops coming to a stop completely perhaps with a query provided the person is gazing into our eyes "What?" "Is there something wrong? There is an opportunity to reply.

Looking at the other person at the nose "I'm sorry. I'm at a bit of a loss." Maintaining the nose gaze to the bore "Can you go though all that again?" never lowering the social gaze. Then it will be easier to communicate properly.

A  third gaze when someone appears to be gazing in both eyes chin triangle area while talking to us. It will only feel appropriate when actively found ideal pick up in single bars not public places. Public places is reserved for the social gaze. Thus, Intimate, social and business gazing have their places. Single pick up bars, public and businesses situations. If anybody who has the habit of any one of those all the time everywhere often finds conflict when in the unsuitable places.

Equally a completely blank expression using the business gaze every muscle in our face relaxed. It gives a different mood than the business  gaze. To others a not impressed look. It is a powerful gaze when another habitually keeps cracking wise ass jokes to us. It will only work if when we have a gaze attention from the other to notice it.

If a blank expression is habitually carried over into informal social satiation like singles bar is seen in a different light. The average person will read a moody cold fish look. It will seem a hostile look to approach dear not approach keep away anxiety not only in their faces but in the resulting rest of our body language.

If we habitually "Dame it all!!" anxiety look like there's nobody at the wheel look all the time people will notice. They can see them shaking like a leave in uncertain nervous anxiety in the inside. Attempting to pick up someone in that state of mind potentially dramas can come to a head. "OHHH. Dam it all" The eyes gives away suppressed disappointment look. Unsuppressed like we do when things are going from bad to worse for the football team we support or as a defendant in a court of law. Ironically the disgusted look all those wrinkles from children to adults will be seen in a different light as a feed up up disappointment look in the appropriate place

This is eye  language reaction of those situations. It results in the habit of being afraid of making a fool of our selves due to the habit of expecting it due to happen, has become the habit of not trusting themselves. The reaction is a "I thought that will happen", with a follow up "I do wish I know how to do this" disappointment non verbal face language transferred into the whole body as well.

Putting into practice there is a place and time for it. Only those that have done thousands of of times before can get away with a practice away from single bar. Often others the very motive if we let ourselves get into the habit of the wrong place and time. We will get all sorts of attention we don't want. We will bound to be put in our places and very frankly at that. If not careful with our habits anywhere we will open ourselves to be bullied  put in our places by all sorts of people.    

What we really feel habitually comes out in our body language behavior. The thing is there are times when it happens to be the right time and place where any negative body language including frustration "That's all need right now" eye and body speak can be positively be powerful from on lookers point of view at the right place and time often seen as normal and understandable. If a constant power from both sexes in business power play treating others in a non verbal social situation  "Do you have to bother me right now that?" while taking in the talking..

We have all seen talent show judges hand and face evaluation signals. Any hand to face language in business evaluation of company executive like finger steeple involving the nose to a entrepreneur selling an idea to them is very powerful here. If  a habit of carrying over into in social situations like singles bars is not a good habit to anybody we fancy. Different body language signals have their places in different places.

If we have a habit of studying body language book images  examples practicing picking up moves we can see negative body language of the eyes is not a good look to us. The same picture will have a different look in the eyes when we roll play an imaging selling an idea product to them.

Another example of body language signals have their place in the positive area. The habit of being relaxed with body language signals in a business situations is not a good look either. Only a good move a social environments.  If the habit of it is carried over in social situations doesn't go down to well there either.

The habit of being nervous has it's place as an audience of a seminar. If habitually relaxed neighbors will notice as not right including the seminar speaker putting everybody off. But things can potentially be different if there is an agenda point to be made. It be can be a very powerful point when we wish to show we are serious not interested letting the speaker volunteer to release the trap we are in letting us go.

Car sale people are only taught how to gain the upper hand though establishing a social rapport. They will not know what to do with some one who habitually cowboy stances hand on hips, or in pockets similar to we'd expect to observe in singles bar courtship behavior, or the habit of the power company execrative business stare, arms crossed, hiding naughty bits figure leave stances in their presence. They will either back off and let us view over their cars to make up their minds  in peace or start showing signs of being cross with us.

If habitual frustrated the habit will no doubt been seen though the eyes all the time and everywhere. Around  psychologists are just the people to put us in a border line personality disorder category. The frustration body language habit follows. Body language habits is the key notice of everybody.

The habitual business power play body language carried over into social situations make us look 

The habit of recognizing our own habitual body language is a very powerful way to control our misfortunes in the places of our choosing. The habit of checking our habitual body langue habits can also lead to the habit of over doing things often ending  back to where from seen in the eyes of others. But power of habitually reminding ourselves of the potential of over doing things is very powerful influence motive to developing the  habit of thinking how can I work on this. How can I stop my eyes from giving myself away and so on.

Both positive and negative body language in all social to business situations have their places of power and influence. They fall flat if we habitually carry one or the other habit into social or business situations. Both positive and negative body language in all social to business situations have their places of power and influence. They fall flat if we habitually carry one or the other habit into social or business situations.

Experienced men have habit of noticing women noticing them ever since they were yay high. These guys had the ability to notice when a woman was attracted to them all there lives. They can notice girls eying them kilometers away. To them it had always been sexy as far as they could remember. It's an aphrodisiac rush to them.

What's a aphrodisiac rush? A sexy flush feeling. Some guys have it strong. The first time was probably felt at school a long time ago experiencing an aphrodisiac surge when spotted a girl or couple in excited gossip about them. Then girls noticed the radiant look on his face reacting even more. These guys had been able to communicate with the feeling though meeting girls ever since. No anxiety is seen in the eyes. They were passionate about meeting girls. There is something sexy about the way girls do that sort of thing as it still does as an adult.

These guys have habitually noticed eye contact glances by thousands of woman. So too, all men in fact. The problem the eye contact form most woman is often flashed, looking away a bit too quickly all with a blank expression men can see anxiety in the eyes.

Blank expressions without anxiety are what we all expect as a business look almost a poker game face. It's not a very good look in pick up situations like singles bars as it conveys a very informal business look. Women who actively chase aphrodisiacs from men have habitually become not afraid to express the entire interest all over their face to a strange man she fancies. She shows she fancy's him with a broad smile, cheeks full and radiant glowing shy alluring look for a second or two then look away away, no sign of any fear detected by the man as if to say "Come and pick me up. Get back to me when your ready" The look is not flashed either. Even slow men can't help but notice it. "Wow. What was that? She's definitely crazy about me" It would certainly floor a guy who habitually experiences aphrodisiac flushes with courtship glances like that.

To the experienced, less than a second smile less blank expression over the shoulder glance the woman has noticed them. They take note promising to get back to them after finishing scouting round  because the woman obviously had noticed them.

The average guy a bit on the inexperienced side will flash back an equally blank expression and just as fast. These men have noticed it many times. But a blank expression is such a business glare in places like singles bar situations tend to pass each other over. Trouble here everybody is so used to it has become habitually normal. Normal or not, smiles less glances enumerate the surly unimpressed look.

Women don't want to seem to be as too forward. Nore as easy. This is one of the good reasons why experienced men hang back. They make sure woman noticing them with a gentleman's compliment return look on his face flirt with a smile with no anxiety in the eyes acknowledgment for an equal short amount of time moving on promising themselves they might come back to the woman in a minute.

Experienced woman have seen this all thousands of times before from many men as well as inexperienced moves hanging in there waiting for the guy to return to resume another flirt because they have done that sort of thing so often the first time round works on men every time.

The experienced men doing the latter to a woman that has a habit of a surly poker faced look woman certainly to be more relaxed the next time round. Experienced women are not shy at avoiding the quick blank expression style to any man they fancy.

Experienced women habitually hook men with by making them experience aphrodisiac rushes what is commonly the men killer flirtation glances. Both don't have to wonder whether they like each other or not. Both experienced men and women habitually spot each other giving a few seconds longer than normal radiant smile eye contact flirtation glances. Their psyche had always interoperated that as the coolest things they ever see for a women signaling with her face to a man "I'd love you to pick me up" and for a man a aphrodisiac rush and "Don't mind if I do" signal written all over his face. Body language and facial expression "Don't go way. I'll right be back".

In the ability to notice seated as well as standing they habituallnotice knees and toes pointed straight at them. They observe the fact not pointing anywhere is but them is enough of a aphrodisiac signal turn on.

Theses guys habitually focus on keeping their attention on her eyes only, habitually avoiding their mouths specially anywhere lower when returning the flirts. Turned on by the woman's flirting gestures any women can see it in these guys eyes before he even make a move. The next move is not immediate coming back to them in a minute.

Thus the key to successful interaction face to face opposite sex strangers without the help of internet dating sites. The secrete is in the guy's aphrodisiac habit of rehearsed roll playing in their heads thousands of times. This means the experienced have done that sort of thing with hundreds of girls thousand of times. They don't need the internet to meet their dream lover.

For the rest they all have noticed women's courtship signals too, but haven't the aphrodisiac rush to make it seem alive to them. It means nothing to them that tend to dismiss as "Girls do that to everybody. I've seen it many times" Without the aphrodisiac rush the pick up attempts will appear corny are dull and flat to women.

These days the guy community is more open than used to be. There are thousands in the guy community who aren't interested in the opposite sex as most of us are. Some of those people find the opposite sex unattractive. Experience develops the habit of noticing these things in the streets parties gatherings, in friends to acquaintances.

Noticing things hundreds and thousands of times before stepping into rooms, family gatherings, library's, restaurants, single bars to night clubs we will notice every thing were ever we go specially the habit of looking for the perfect aphrodisiac rush develops experience.

Done hundreds and thousands of times very little gets unnoticed .The habit of sorting out details using discrete recommence for courtship signals and behavior we can spot already spoken for signs as well as availability signs. Experience can spot a potential habitually knowing things can change in a matter of minutes.

The biggest barrier for success is spotting a person not recognizing obviously the person they spotted was attracted thern so can only ignore. If it was pointed out by experience these people may feel looking back at experienced person with a look of "Is that suppose to mean anything to me?"

Not recognizing the signs of someone attracted to us is the key player in resulting stop messages following. Some may only be able to notice the resulting disappointment response interoperated they don't like "Move on" body language signals. Both can be uptight with "What's the matter with you?.

Don't you like me or something" thoughts flowing though their heads.

Both may vow to themselves they will not make the mistake with that person again. When we get into the habit it we will get the nagging habit it has to be made always true cycle because we have seen it often enough. The habit of not recognizing some else is attracted to us is often the notice of a resulting disappointed response as a bad habit of everybody else throws at us. Everybody has the habit of ignoring me. We have seen habit of observing tense stop signals directed at us hundreds and thousands of times habit.

How do we know when someone is showing signs attracted to us? How can we turn around our bad habit of of not recognizing the signs someone is attracted to us? .It won't come from a experienced guide showing how to do pick up but our own habits of recognizing the signs others are attracted to us ourselves. The rest takes care of itself naturally.

The best place to start is the habit of researching body language books not reading though page by page but reviewing various aspects discussions in general new to us and concentrating on coming back to the them flirting with the courtship body language signals chapter back to the generals. It will take time. Scientists have found it takes a little under a month on average for any habit to take properly.

The habit of coming back to review bits and pieces every wear hundreds and thousands of times we will learn a thing or two more every time. It needs to be we have reviewed those bits and pieces hundreds of times.

The experienced habitually hesitates in a crowed singles bar or night club seating circles making a mental note of all the possibilities. Woman habitually signal men they fancy more than once.

Experienced man have developed their own unique style allowing for a percentage of how many times other promising girls got his attention back to them in a minute to check for the signs how the others are getting on.

Done hundreds and thousands of times before we notice introvert and extrovert behavior when we see it. With experience we notice signs some people energized in crowds others not. We've seen it all before people seem alive in company while we can't help noticing others obviously not enjoying the company as much by the shy hovering in the background behavior. It's obvious they are not making any attempt to join in.

By the time we gained expedience we'd seen it often enough. Since we have seen this sort of thing many times we recognize extroverts and introvert behavior body language anywhere. That is how we can tell between gay and straight people body language signs anywhere.

It come stop ass time and time again we developed a habitual observation people energized in the company of groups we can recognize as an extrovert behavior langue. Some of the signs of Bipolar disorder. While others look as if if they are not fitting looking uncomfortable. Experience tells us that this is not necessarily being left out because we have seen introvert behavior not comfortable with many for long hundreds of times before. We have seen their body language change to relaxed signs when alone with only one person. We've seen it often enough.

Seen many times before we often observe extrovert body langue behavior the saying "Two's company three is a crowed" is not necessary true for them, while it's typical of introvert body language behavior the opposite that it is very true. The habit seen often enough we have a great deal of self confidence we'd picked up our dream person hundreds and thousands of times before we can pick up anybody we want any time well like. We've done it all before.

Experience has seen gay as well as straight courtship behavior hundreds and thousand of times. That's how they can tell who's who in a mixed night club and single bar environment is really typical. They have seen it often enough. They habitually notice these things. What they have seen hundreds and thousand of times becomes is very familiar. Very common. Typical.

The habitual scanning picks up a lot of useful information

Those who have hardly done this sort of thing before has the habit of a folded arms mode scanning crowds. Their habit may ask what's wrong with that? I feel comfortable that way". Every body language book constantly advise it's not exactly the best positive look to pick up with. A key to understanding this is an ability in roll playing images in body language book examples look like in different situations.

Think of the image as a stranger you are are approaching. Practicing in our heads straight will be enlightening . Body language books describe how to read everybody's hidden thoughts. But they neglect concentrating the readers signals inevitably portray themselves to others. There should be a lest a chapter title like "What are you saying with your body language to others"

The habit of folded arms everywhere. Been in night clubs and singles bars hundreds and thousand of times before the experienced knows all to well the chances all sorts of thoughts by others in a the confines of a crowed singles bar looks just like a bouncer over seeing every body behaves and waiting to throw someone out any moment or undercover cop working in the place scanning for evidence of criminal activity.

Simple testing roll plying the pictured illustrations in body language books with folded arms you spotted scanning the floor of a crowed singles bar. Other way way what it would be like for you if the image was a stranger you are approaching can be illuminating. Very often folded arms can make us nervous enough to be tongue tired. Another confirmation is yourself in a mirror.

We can see straight away what we look like when watching in a folded arms mode to ourselves in a mirror. Compare that with hands in pockets. We notice something else. The geometry of our faces. We can be shocked at what we see with folded arms.

If we habitually roll play picking up a girl (or a man ) body language book illustrations hands in pockets seated or standing, hands on hips, cowboy stances an other illustrations we can become an experienced expert in our heads because we have seen that sort of thing hundreds and thousand of times we habitually notice in the the real world too.

In the habit of tilting our heads in a "let me see" analytical view point seems a change. The thing we most notice how dramatic even with the slightest tilt it can be. Once again when we try with hands in our pockets it just as dramatically changes with folded arms.

We can be pleasantly suppressed at what a difference it makes to ourselves. We find ourselves in a cute smile that dramatically changes things again. Scientifically speaking tilting the head, back, down left or right even if ever, ever so slightly in effect is adjusting our best side towards our selves. Now image if it was you who caught you doing that to you.

Imagine face to face with a woman ( or a man ) of your dreams talking to you with your arms folded. Then imagine the woman with her arms like you see to you. Try with hands in your pockets. Imagine a woman in that mode to you while talking to her. We instinctively shift most of our weight to a leg and in a "let me see" analytical tilt of the head.

Getting into the habit of hands in pockets with ever so slight tilt of the head everywhere, anywhere and everything we do all the time prevents us from the habit of forgetting we are listening with folded arms mistake. Making a habit of anything makes perfect. Our brain takes over letting us know all the time we've done what ever habit we get ourselves into hundreds and thousands of times confidence.

The habit of hands in pockets we develop the habit of feeling we look and feel great every day and everywhere we go.

Observing our faces if we can spot imperfections in our skin tone which others will too. Skiers and cyclist with wind blown redness looking uneven sun burn all over on the checks. We all notice and old and ugly appeal. Cosmetic products traditionally reserved for women that will help hide all that making the face the back to the illusion of very young and youthful looking.

If we get into the habit doing this all day we begin to recognize the the benefit of folded arms and hands in pockets have their places that can work wonders. For example the folded arm testing with left, right, up, or down head tilt combination in a mirror to ourselves we can see has their places. The folded arms maneuver can help deflect challenges directed directly at us by others. There is respect observing somebody in a tense situation reaming cool calm and collected during a tense stand off in though calm body and facial language signs not afraid of looking after themselves when need too.

The insipience tend to show panic or frustration all over their faces as well as afraid body language signals. The "Oh O! " flight or flight shock look response written all over their faces coupled with some body language signals. Common looking away and down.

Extreme cases of frustrated feelings though face wiping which tend to pull a scared crazy eyes look, wiping hair over ears in a extreme case with both hands in a tense stand off environment where people are looking on. Trying those to ourselves in a mirror we'll soon get the idea why we can easily be assaulted, laughed at as a jerk and thrown out of a place with no sympathy by our trousers by a bouncer.

Likewise the hands in pockets technique has it place as all the body language tips you see in body language books. Practicing enough of the relaxing technique to a point we have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before we begin the habit of it naturally knowing places and times to use the signal properly and in it place have developed experience on our side. It's n good to know we have done something hundreds and thousands of times before confidence behind us.

It is the backing of our experiences we'd done it all before successfully that we are so familiar it we can always do it again. It is good to know our brains never let us forget we have done it all before. We also learn the value of what happens when we over do things too.

The habits of the experienced instinctively avoids limbs anywhere near, crossing each other or the body standing or seated. For both men and women habitually hands in pockets ,including blouses, dresses jeans or slacks. Experienced would noticed this sort of language in others hundreds and thousands of times before. Very common relaxing technique as demonstrated consistently in all body language books.

The relaxed attitude tends display a visual normal looking when we see it in a mirror of ourselves is equally from someone else's point of view us too. Everybody is relaxed. If someone else is observant will notice the behavior the experienced person well aware this can typically happen being unexpectedly picked up or flirt to from a girl or men or two approaches

Habitual roll playing in our heads is a good away to develop any habit. We are putting into practice our own private fantasies where there is no fear off disappointing frank rebuffs of being asked to leave. Without the nagging fear we are free and open to do in our heads what ever outcome our hearts desires.

Most people will call this day dreaming fantasies. But if we make a habit of it we soon get this nagging habit we have to make it come true. Once a habit gets a hold of us we can't shake it off easily. Thus dismissing the habit as day dreaming fantasy won't help developing the habit to make our desire come true.

When we have the habit of not being afraid to approach a potential partner of our dreams in our heads we start the burning desire habit to make it come to pass in the real world. Habitually roll playing approaching a stranger of our dreams in our heads with out fear will be able to transform into the real world.

The property of understanding women's moods for men is an important part of picking the girls. For women understanding men's attitudes is equally important. In general psychological practice it is called emotional intelligence formally known as sensuality expressing we are intelligent to other people feelings. If these people were to take an empathy questionnaire would score a high empathy IQ. We all notice an inelegant attitude towards us.

What's empathy? A feeling for others. The characteristics doesn't concentrate on communicating practical solutions to problems but dwells on shearing how it feels communication. High emotional intelligence is the key for that sort of thing. It simple means a person with a talent at picking up on how others feel.

An example, the ability to recognizes someone displaying depression signs when they see it. Empathy is about this ability. The opposite to this having know idea how others feel. In the battle of the sexes the difference is often expressed with the classical old cliché "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus"

That is not necessarily true. A husband with a high empathy intellect towards his wife is sure fire recipe for a successful marriage. Like wise a wife with the same empathy towards men's ways is a guaranteed loving relationship. Experience tends to habitually apply empathy in their pick up approaches. Done hundreds of thousands of times before can easily communicate shearing combination.

The habitual sensuality practice tend to treat everybody as if they weren't born yesterday approaches, as if intelligent and smart, treating others as if they have been there and done that attitude. Both men and woman notice that sort of treatment from each other. Conflicts and marriage break ups when each partner has poor emotional intelligent skills with each other.

Experience has taught most people we do much better at bars and night clubs rather than public places like libraries and beaches. These are the places inexperience have no business practicing. Public places are far to tricky to get away with inexperienced at picking up a lover. Only the experienced individuals has the capability of knowing how to handle the tricky formal setting and even then it is a challenge to the most experienced.

The best place for inexperience novices are single bars and night clubs because it is the closest thing to a place where others are potentially doing the same thing a perfect spot for self taught body language book details in action. Body language books are a excellent heads up in what to look for signs.

Observing flirting signs from body language books is the best way to develop the habit of it. Don't take one with you. It will can easily be seen as a joke. And there is a potential of getting into the habit of rousing lots of suspicion an uncover cop operative on the prowl where all activity will all but dry up round you. Be aware of that sort of thing can happen by the habit of the relaxing hands in pockets whether standing or seated.

If already been there where opportunities suddenly dried up round you will recognize the latter. Being aware we can guess we had inadvertently may have aroused suspicion that might have happed. Inexperience gives itself away every time.

Avoiding behavioral suspicion while investigating body language hundreds and thousands of times develops a habitual skill of patient and discrete reconnaissance. The experience habitually avoids the habit of making people self conscious they are being observed.

The habit of scanning a dance floor and what's going in on the dance floor and seating arrangements for signs off flirting is often a life saver from making a disastrous moves. The experienced have learnt to habitually look for the same sex as well as opposite sexes flirting signs to each other before they make the mistake of moving in where they are not wanted.

They are on the look out for possible chaperone ( escort signs hovering in background keeping an eye on who they are escorting ) brothers and sister signs and signs of long time friends only out to have a good time signs. Done this sort of thing hundreds of thousands of times before is a great confidence we always know everything that goes on.

Experienced brain knows how to processes all this information advising them on it offering heads up advice and so know exactly what they are doing and will be in for if they do make a move in. The habit of reconnaissance prevents mistakes happening before they happen.

The flip side inexperience in a egger to get on with it will miss a lot. Not careful with all that activity going on is a potential for disastrous mistakes often end up with disappointment simply not careful going in where they where not really wanted.

Problems for the inexperienced men ( as well as for women ) encounter the classical display of turn off signs. The typical characteristics is a refusal to play to conversation openings. In most cases women ( as well as men ) habitually display the no sympathy attitude to inexperienced approaches.

The jerk approach behavior is often the most rebuffed.

A quiet bored treatment often confuses the inexperience how to deal with an unresponsive conversation. Attempt after attempt is made until has had enough treating the women as joke or a woman with frank rebuffs to the inexperienced approaches. The inexperienced can be left protrude and confused "Why do women do that to me" The same often applies to a woman.

Advice for the inexperienced is to take the advice of body language books. Book after book all say the same thing. limbs crossing any part of each other, self touch, hiding any parts of the body are expressed as barrier signals, arm and leg folding styles are tense put off signals with the exception of couple of important courtship signals. Book after book say the same thing about hands in pockets with no crossed limbs is considered a relaxed body sign that tends to relax everybody else.

They advise trying to stimulate a conversation side on doesn't work. Trying it standing while the potential partner is seated is not on the same level. They advise in standing position frontal face to face approaches no body touching, hands in packets relaxation aid with all hand held objects considered as barriers like a drink to be removed by putting aside.

The important point to bear in mind that they are all unconscious displays most of them habits. The habit of crossed limbs with any part of arm and leg or body, folding styles can cause tension with others in informal atmospheres like a night club. The experienced has developed the habit of the opposite uncrossed limbs away from the body. Hands hands in pockets has become a habit while seated often work wonders in helping to relax everybody else round them. Body language books discuss and show examples of relaxed stiles of seating.

The important point to bear in mind when learning these things is not to get caught up in a eagerness carry away show. It will look over done and acting causing tension. With experience you will notice it yourself when someone else tries it looking like a embarrassing joke. In any embarrassment people tend to behave with request frank requests to behave or ask to leave. Experience people have developed into a habit of looking normal if not a little sweet.

The trick is rehearse in a few samples in body language books in a mirror to get an orientation of what you will look like from other peoples point of view. Try the body language moves that you have the habit of.

Problems occur when empathy intelligence is lacking. For men in particular approaching women with poor sensuality skills. Women may recognize the signs of poor empathy skills in a man but if equally low skills themselves has the habit having no sympathy for inexperience pick up approaches. They habitually display the classic moody turn off signs.

An Inexperienced man with poor sensuality skills may try to hang in their making himself a persistent jerk. Reasonable sensuality has the ability to at lest detect the moody signals possibly a guy woman getting the message not wanted. In his inexperience will quietly back away with a possible quiet apology for the intrusion.

A high sensuality intelligence is the most experienced and will probably developed the skill of telling if gay or straight from an attitude language developing the habit a specialty of low sensuality and moody women. In the habitual ability developed the habit of being able to take on the challenge of turning round a moody straight women round hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced men as well as women as in experienced guy people will notice inexperience and experience when they see it adjusting their moods accordingly. A highly sensual guy and straight women will recognize a persistent jerk as not necessarily a jerk turning her on sensuality skills to her advantage the habits of being a jerk towards her soon disappears. It take a high empathy IQ in both guy and straight women to and experience taming somebody behaving like a jerk into someone who is not.

When we have turned round a jerk behavior round to somebody else nicer hundreds and thousands of times it is a piece of cake to us to do it again and again.

Reasonable emotional intelligence habitually displays inexperience though picking up on the moody responses of any women. Poor emotional intelligence will be disappointed. It tends to vow to never make the mistake of upsetting her again backing off and avoids her after that. These guys are genuinely afraid of the moody display girls can look like she's about to call the police or her boy friends for help she is sexually harassed any second.

Experience observers will notice what both did wrong. It will be clear as the noses on their faces approached either a timid and shy way or a complete jerk approaches and the moody turn off signs showing no sympathy for the inexperience by the woman. Experienced observers spot low sensuality skills in both sexes when they see it because they have seen it all before. It is very familiar to them. typical mistakes.

The inability to pick others intelligence has developed the experience. If it continues there is a potently lack of experience that shows in both sexes in poor conversation opening sequences. If it becomes a habit of women to have no sympathy with inexperience pick up approaches has done that sort of to many men hundreds and thousands of times before. Trouble is habits are almost impossible to change once they get a hold of a person.

Men can eventually be so frustrated and angry will become wiredrawn with themselves showing it by lashing out at woman are all the same. If rejections continue they develop the habit of believing they are unpopular with girls. These guys have seen the impatient no sympathy syndrome hundreds and thousands o times before. The same is true with women. If turn off’s keep continuing to be a habit will soon develop a bad habit attitude men about women and women about men the source of sexist remarks and jokes about each other put downs.

On the other hand if highly sensual in the first place began the habit of being charming in the company of of thousands of girls becomes before that developed the habit of a good attitude towards woman and if the habit of girls warming up to a man continues will find his own habit very exciting often can't wait to charm all sorts of women with pleasantries for more attention. Their high sensuality ( or emotional intelligence ) has habitually communicated on the same level as women hundreds and thousand of times before will convince them of that for ever.

A guy not very good at being sensual will experience continual habits of women not very impressed with them all the time. They will develop the habit in their heads it's true they are unpopular with girls. They have seen it often enough. On the other hand if a man is highly sensual good experiences keep coming breading the habits in their heads it's true they are popular with girls. They also have have seen it often enough. In both cases they have been though it all hundreds and thousands of times before over the years that alternately determines the habitual self talk belief about themselves for a long time.

The habitual habit of a guy who believes unpopular with girls will almost be impossible to change unless their is an agenda, a purpose for the change. Habits need a convincing motive to modify the stance. The habit of believing unpopular with girls is based on the habits girls unexpressed with them so it is simply not possible to change it to not being unpopular with girls.

The main problem with inexperienced men have encountered the reaction of inexpeinces women where both don't know what to do. A highly sensual experienced person will recognize inexperience when they see it.

There are both men and woman who have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before who recognize experience and inexperience alike. The habit of chasing over the years have seen everything seen it all before and done it all hundreds and thousands of times. The start was a early habit, why they are so successful. Experience tend to recognize inexperience when they see it remaining cool calm and collected adjusting their attitude accordingly.

All the traditional courtship behavior remains intact expect for one detail. Experienced women noticing a jerk behavior yet initially fancied him when she spotted him, instead of waiting to be being lead by the guy they recognize their from observing their behavior leading the guy in opening conversations before he can say or do anything else to draw out the real person by her charm towards him before he gets in first to make a fool of himself to her. Done hundreds and thousand of times before can get on with the court ship ritual. It is all due the habit of doing that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced woman who habitually encounters jerk behavior thousands of times. They have a unshakable confidence in remaining cool calm and collected applying psychology onto them becoming someone completely different. It is usually experienced prostitutes who have seen it all before where jerks don't know they had been put in their places. Experienced women are in hot demand. By contrast a woman who has never done that sort of thing before. Mistakes will be made turning off men against her that certainly could have been an ideal in the end.

Experienced woman can turn an boring jerk talking who habitually talks to much into an intelligent two way conversation because done hundreds of times before. We'd think they were psychologists in dis skies.

It started as a habit and by now have to do that sort so often to get more. Since they have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before the traditional roll of only men has take the lead has been abandoned in favor of experience in the last decades.

Other girls getting their men and men getting their girls and we don't is just experience on their part. Remember making a jerk or a laughing stock of ourselves is just inexperienced on our part. The experienced have seen inexperience behavior in action and so will we hundreds and thousands of times when we see it. The habit studying body language book images and mirror practicing will all help to gain confidence we also have done it hundred and thousands of times too..

To the experienced, less than a second smile less blank expression over the shoulder glance the woman has noticed them. They take note promising to get back to them after finishing scouting round  because the woman obviously had noticed them.

The average guy a bit on the inexperienced side will flash back an equally blank expression and just as fast. These men have noticed it many times. But a blank expression is such a business glare in places like singles bar situations tend to pass each other over. Trouble here everybody is so used to it has become habitually normal. Normal or not, smiles less glances enumerate the surly unimpressed look.

Women don't want to seem to be as too forward. Nore as easy. This is one of the good reasons why experienced men hang back. They make sure woman noticing them with a gentleman's compliment return look on his face flirt with a smile with no anxiety in the eyes acknowledgment for an equal short amount of time moving on promising themselves they might come back to the woman in a minute.

Experienced woman have seen this all thousands of times before from many men as well as inexperienced moves hanging in there waiting for the guy to return to resume another flirt because they have done that sort of thing so often the first time round works on men every time.

The experienced men doing the latter to a woman that has a habit of a surly poker faced look woman certainly to be more relaxed the next time round. Experienced women are not shy at avoiding the quick blank expression style to any man they fancy.

Experienced women habitually hook men with by making them experience aphrodisiac rushes what is commonly the men killer flirtation glances. Both don't have to wonder whether they like each other or not. Both experienced men and women habitually spot each other giving a few seconds longer than normal radiant smile eye contact flirtation glances. Their psyche had always interoperated that as the coolest things they ever see for a women signaling with her face to a man "I'd love you to pick me up" and for a man a aphrodisiac rush and "Don't mind if I do" signal written all over his face. Body language and facial expression "Don't go way. I'll right be back".

In the ability to notice seated as well as standing they habituallnotice knees and toes pointed straight at them. They observe the fact not pointing anywhere is but them is enough of a aphrodisiac signal turn on.

Theses guys habitually focus on keeping their attention on her eyes only, habitually avoiding their mouths specially anywhere lower when returning the flirts. Turned on by the woman's flirting gestures any women can see it in these guys eyes before he even make a move. The next move is not immediate coming back to them in a minute.

Thus the key to successful interaction face to face opposite sex strangers without the help of internet dating sites. The secrete is in the guy's aphrodisiac habit of rehearsed roll playing in their heads thousands of times. This means the experienced have done that sort of thing with hundreds of girls thousand of times. They don't need the internet to meet their dream lover.

For the rest they all have noticed women's courtship signals too, but haven't the aphrodisiac rush to make it seem alive to them. It means nothing to them that tend to dismiss as "Girls do that to everybody. I've seen it many times" Without the aphrodisiac rush the pick up attempts will appear corny are dull and flat to women.

These days the guy community is more open than used to be. There are thousands in the guy community who aren't interested in the opposite sex as most of us are. Some of those people find the opposite sex unattractive. Experience develops the habit of noticing these things in the streets parties gatherings, in friends to acquaintances.

Noticing things hundreds and thousands of times before stepping into rooms, family gatherings, library's, restaurants, single bars to night clubs we will notice every thing were ever we go specially the habit of looking for the perfect aphrodisiac rush develops experience.

Done hundreds and thousands of times very little gets unnoticed .The habit of sorting out details using discrete recommence for courtship signals and behavior we can spot already spoken for signs as well as availability signs. Experience can spot a potential habitually knowing things can change in a matter of minutes.

The biggest barrier for success is spotting a person not recognizing obviously the person they spotted was attracted thern so can only ignore. If it was pointed out by experience these people may feel looking back at experienced person with a look of "Is that suppose to mean anything to me?"

Not recognizing the signs of someone attracted to us is the key player in resulting stop messages following. Some may only be able to notice the resulting disappointment response interoperated they don't like "Move on" body language signals. Both can be uptight with "What's the matter with you?.

Don't you like me or something" thoughts flowing though their heads.

Both may vow to themselves they will not make the mistake with that person again. When we get into the habit it we will get the nagging habit it has to be made always true cycle because we have seen it often enough. The habit of not recognizing some else is attracted to us is often the notice of a resulting disappointed response as a bad habit of everybody else throws at us. Everybody has the habit of ignoring me. We have seen habit of observing tense stop signals directed at us hundreds and thousands of times habit.

How do we know when someone is showing signs attracted to us? How can we turn around our bad habit of of not recognizing the signs someone is attracted to us? .It won't come from a experienced guide showing how to do pick up but our own habits of recognizing the signs others are attracted to us ourselves. The rest takes care of itself naturally.

The best place to start is the habit of researching body language books not reading though page by page but reviewing various aspects discussions in general new to us and concentrating on coming back to the them flirting with the courtship body language signals chapter back to the generals. It will take time. Scientists have found it takes a little under a month on average for any habit to take properly.

The habit of coming back to review bits and pieces every wear hundreds and thousands of times we will learn a thing or two more every time. It needs to be we have reviewed those bits and pieces hundreds of times.

The experienced habitually hesitates in a crowed singles bar or night club seating circles making a mental note of all the possibilities. Woman habitually signal men they fancy more than once.

Experienced man have developed their own unique style allowing for a percentage of how many times other promising girls got his attention back to them in a minute to check for the signs how the others are getting on.

Done hundreds and thousands of times before we notice introvert and extrovert behavior when we see it. With experience we notice signs some people energized in crowds others not. We've seen it all before people seem alive in company while we can't help noticing others obviously not enjoying the company as much by the shy hovering in the background behavior. It's obvious they are not making any attempt to join in.

By the time we gained expedience we'd seen it often enough. Since we have seen this sort of thing many times we recognize extroverts and introvert behavior body language anywhere. That is how we can tell between gay and straight people body language signs anywhere.

It come stop ass time and time again we developed a habitual observation people energized in the company of groups we can recognize as an extrovert behavior langue. Some of the signs of Bipolar disorder. While others look as if if they are not fitting looking uncomfortable. Experience tells us that this is not necessarily being left out because we have seen introvert behavior not comfortable with many for long hundreds of times before. We have seen their body language change to relaxed signs when alone with only one person. We've seen it often enough.

Seen many times before we often observe extrovert body langue behavior the saying "Two's company three is a crowed" is not necessary true for them, while it's typical of introvert body language behavior the opposite that it is very true. The habit seen often enough we have a great deal of self confidence we'd picked up our dream person hundreds and thousands of times before we can pick up anybody we want any time well like. We've done it all before.

Experience has seen gay as well as straight courtship behavior hundreds and thousand of times. That's how they can tell who's who in a mixed night club and single bar environment is really typical. They have seen it often enough. They habitually notice these things. What they have seen hundreds and thousand of times becomes is very familiar. Very common. Typical.

The habitual scanning picks up a lot of useful information

Those who have hardly done this sort of thing before has the habit of a folded arms mode scanning crowds. Their habit may ask what's wrong with that? I feel comfortable that way". Every body language book constantly advise it's not exactly the best positive look to pick up with. A key to understanding this is an ability in roll playing images in body language book examples look like in different situations.

Think of the image as a stranger you are are approaching. Practicing in our heads straight will be enlightening . Body language books describe how to read everybody's hidden thoughts. But they neglect concentrating the readers signals inevitably portray themselves to others. There should be a lest a chapter title like "What are you saying with your body language to others"

The habit of folded arms everywhere. Been in night clubs and singles bars hundreds and thousand of times before the experienced knows all to well the chances all sorts of thoughts by others in a the confines of a crowed singles bar looks just like a bouncer over seeing every body behaves and waiting to throw someone out any moment or undercover cop working in the place scanning for evidence of criminal activity.

Simple testing roll plying the pictured illustrations in body language books with folded arms you spotted scanning the floor of a crowed singles bar. Other way way what it would be like for you if the image was a stranger you are approaching can be illuminating. Very often folded arms can make us nervous enough to be tongue tired. Another confirmation is yourself in a mirror.

We can see straight away what we look like when watching in a folded arms mode to ourselves in a mirror. Compare that with hands in pockets. We notice something else. The geometry of our faces. We can be shocked at what we see with folded arms.

If we habitually roll play picking up a girl (or a man ) body language book illustrations hands in pockets seated or standing, hands on hips, cowboy stances an other illustrations we can become an experienced expert in our heads because we have seen that sort of thing hundreds and thousand of times we habitually notice in the the real world too.

In the habit of tilting our heads in a "let me see" analytical view point seems a change. The thing we most notice how dramatic even with the slightest tilt it can be. Once again when we try with hands in our pockets it just as dramatically changes with folded arms.

We can be pleasantly suppressed at what a difference it makes to ourselves. We find ourselves in a cute smile that dramatically changes things again. Scientifically speaking tilting the head, back, down left or right even if ever, ever so slightly in effect is adjusting our best side towards our selves. Now image if it was you who caught you doing that to you.

Imagine face to face with a woman ( or a man ) of your dreams talking to you with your arms folded. Then imagine the woman with her arms like you see to you. Try with hands in your pockets. Imagine a woman in that mode to you while talking to her. We instinctively shift most of our weight to a leg and in a "let me see" analytical tilt of the head.

Getting into the habit of hands in pockets with ever so slight tilt of the head everywhere, anywhere and everything we do all the time prevents us from the habit of forgetting we are listening with folded arms mistake. Making a habit of anything makes perfect. Our brain takes over letting us know all the time we've done what ever habit we get ourselves into hundreds and thousands of times confidence.

The habit of hands in pockets we develop the habit of feeling we look and feel great every day and everywhere we go.

Observing our faces if we can spot imperfections in our skin tone which others will too. Skiers and cyclist with wind blown redness looking uneven sun burn all over on the checks. We all notice and old and ugly appeal. Cosmetic products traditionally reserved for women that will help hide all that making the face the back to the illusion of very young and youthful looking.

If we get into the habit doing this all day we begin to recognize the the benefit of folded arms and hands in pockets have their places that can work wonders. For example the folded arm testing with left, right, up, or down head tilt combination in a mirror to ourselves we can see has their places. The folded arms maneuver can help deflect challenges directed directly at us by others. There is respect observing somebody in a tense situation reaming cool calm and collected during a tense stand off in though calm body and facial language signs not afraid of looking after themselves when need too.

The insipience tend to show panic or frustration all over their faces as well as afraid body language signals. The "Oh O! " flight or flight shock look response written all over their faces coupled with some body language signals. Common looking away and down.

Extreme cases of frustrated feelings though face wiping which tend to pull a scared crazy eyes look, wiping hair over ears in a extreme case with both hands in a tense stand off environment where people are looking on. Trying those to ourselves in a mirror we'll soon get the idea why we can easily be assaulted, laughed at as a jerk and thrown out of a place with no sympathy by our trousers by a bouncer.

Likewise the hands in pockets technique has it place as all the body language tips you see in body language books. Practicing enough of the relaxing technique to a point we have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before we begin the habit of it naturally knowing places and times to use the signal properly and in it place have developed experience on our side. It's n good to know we have done something hundreds and thousands of times before confidence behind us.

It is the backing of our experiences we'd done it all before successfully that we are so familiar it we can always do it again. It is good to know our brains never let us forget we have done it all before. We also learn the value of what happens when we over do things too.

The habits of the experienced instinctively avoids limbs anywhere near, crossing each other or the body standing or seated. For both men and women habitually hands in pockets ,including blouses, dresses jeans or slacks. Experienced would noticed this sort of language in others hundreds and thousands of times before. Very common relaxing technique as demonstrated consistently in all body language books.

The relaxed attitude tends display a visual normal looking when we see it in a mirror of ourselves is equally from someone else's point of view us too. Everybody is relaxed. If someone else is observant will notice the behavior the experienced person well aware this can typically happen being unexpectedly picked up or flirt to from a girl or men or two approaches

Habitual roll playing in our heads is a good away to develop any habit. We are putting into practice our own private fantasies where there is no fear off disappointing frank rebuffs of being asked to leave. Without the nagging fear we are free and open to do in our heads what ever outcome our hearts desires.

Most people will call this day dreaming fantasies. But if we make a habit of it we soon get this nagging habit we have to make it come true. Once a habit gets a hold of us we can't shake it off easily. Thus dismissing the habit as day dreaming fantasy won't help developing the habit to make our desire come true.

When we have the habit of not being afraid to approach a potential partner of our dreams in our heads we start the burning desire habit to make it come to pass in the real world. Habitually roll playing approaching a stranger of our dreams in our heads with out fear will be able to transform into the real world.

The property of understanding women's moods for men is an important part of picking the girls. For women understanding men's attitudes is equally important. In general psychological practice it is called emotional intelligence formally known as sensuality expressing we are intelligent to other people feelings. If these people were to take an empathy questionnaire would score a high empathy IQ. We all notice an inelegant attitude towards us.

What's empathy? A feeling for others. The characteristics doesn't concentrate on communicating practical solutions to problems but dwells on shearing how it feels communication. High emotional intelligence is the key for that sort of thing. It simple means a person with a talent at picking up on how others feel.

An example, the ability to recognizes someone displaying depression signs when they see it. Empathy is about this ability. The opposite to this having know idea how others feel. In the battle of the sexes the difference is often expressed with the classical old cliché "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus"

That is not necessarily true. A husband with a high empathy intellect towards his wife is sure fire recipe for a successful marriage. Like wise a wife with the same empathy towards men's ways is a guaranteed loving relationship. Experience tends to habitually apply empathy in their pick up approaches. Done hundreds of thousands of times before can easily communicate shearing combination.

The habitual sensuality practice tend to treat everybody as if they weren't born yesterday approaches, as if intelligent and smart, treating others as if they have been there and done that attitude. Both men and woman notice that sort of treatment from each other. Conflicts and marriage break ups when each partner has poor emotional intelligent skills with each other.

Experience has taught most people we do much better at bars and night clubs rather than public places like libraries and beaches. These are the places inexperience have no business practicing. Public places are far to tricky to get away with inexperienced at picking up a lover. Only the experienced individuals has the capability of knowing how to handle the tricky formal setting and even then it is a challenge to the most experienced.

The best place for inexperience novices are single bars and night clubs because it is the closest thing to a place where others are potentially doing the same thing a perfect spot for self taught body language book details in action. Body language books are a excellent heads up in what to look for signs.

Observing flirting signs from body language books is the best way to develop the habit of it. Don't take one with you. It will can easily be seen as a joke. And there is a potential of getting into the habit of rousing lots of suspicion an uncover cop operative on the prowl where all activity will all but dry up round you. Be aware of that sort of thing can happen by the habit of the relaxing hands in pockets whether standing or seated.

If already been there where opportunities suddenly dried up round you will recognize the latter. Being aware we can guess we had inadvertently may have aroused suspicion that might have happed. Inexperience gives itself away every time.

Avoiding behavioral suspicion while investigating body language hundreds and thousands of times develops a habitual skill of patient and discrete reconnaissance. The experience habitually avoids the habit of making people self conscious they are being observed.

The habit of scanning a dance floor and what's going in on the dance floor and seating arrangements for signs off flirting is often a life saver from making a disastrous moves. The experienced have learnt to habitually look for the same sex as well as opposite sexes flirting signs to each other before they make the mistake of moving in where they are not wanted.

They are on the look out for possible chaperone ( escort signs hovering in background keeping an eye on who they are escorting ) brothers and sister signs and signs of long time friends only out to have a good time signs. Done this sort of thing hundreds of thousands of times before is a great confidence we always know everything that goes on.

Experienced brain knows how to processes all this information advising them on it offering heads up advice and so know exactly what they are doing and will be in for if they do make a move in. The habit of reconnaissance prevents mistakes happening before they happen.

The flip side inexperience in a egger to get on with it will miss a lot. Not careful with all that activity going on is a potential for disastrous mistakes often end up with disappointment simply not careful going in where they where not really wanted.

Problems for the inexperienced men ( as well as for women ) encounter the classical display of turn off signs. The typical characteristics is a refusal to play to conversation openings. In most cases women ( as well as men ) habitually display the no sympathy attitude to inexperienced approaches.

The jerk approach behavior is often the most rebuffed.

A quiet bored treatment often confuses the inexperience how to deal with an unresponsive conversation. Attempt after attempt is made until has had enough treating the women as joke or a woman with frank rebuffs to the inexperienced approaches. The inexperienced can be left protrude and confused "Why do women do that to me" The same often applies to a woman.

Advice for the inexperienced is to take the advice of body language books. Book after book all say the same thing. limbs crossing any part of each other, self touch, hiding any parts of the body are expressed as barrier signals, arm and leg folding styles are tense put off signals with the exception of couple of important courtship signals. Book after book say the same thing about hands in pockets with no crossed limbs is considered a relaxed body sign that tends to relax everybody else.

They advise trying to stimulate a conversation side on doesn't work. Trying it standing while the potential partner is seated is not on the same level. They advise in standing position frontal face to face approaches no body touching, hands in packets relaxation aid with all hand held objects considered as barriers like a drink to be removed by putting aside.

The important point to bear in mind that they are all unconscious displays most of them habits. The habit of crossed limbs with any part of arm and leg or body, folding styles can cause tension with others in informal atmospheres like a night club. The experienced has developed the habit of the opposite uncrossed limbs away from the body. Hands hands in pockets has become a habit while seated often work wonders in helping to relax everybody else round them. Body language books discuss and show examples of relaxed stiles of seating.

The important point to bear in mind when learning these things is not to get caught up in a eagerness carry away show. It will look over done and acting causing tension. With experience you will notice it yourself when someone else tries it looking like a embarrassing joke. In any embarrassment people tend to behave with request frank requests to behave or ask to leave. Experience people have developed into a habit of looking normal if not a little sweet.

The trick is rehearse in a few samples in body language books in a mirror to get an orientation of what you will look like from other peoples point of view. Try the body language moves that you have the habit of.

Problems occur when empathy intelligence is lacking. For men in particular approaching women with poor sensuality skills. Women may recognize the signs of poor empathy skills in a man but if equally low skills themselves has the habit having no sympathy for inexperience pick up approaches. They habitually display the classic moody turn off signs.

An Inexperienced man with poor sensuality skills may try to hang in their making himself a persistent jerk. Reasonable sensuality has the ability to at lest detect the moody signals possibly a guy woman getting the message not wanted. In his inexperience will quietly back away with a possible quiet apology for the intrusion.

A high sensuality intelligence is the most experienced and will probably developed the skill of telling if gay or straight from an attitude language developing the habit a specialty of low sensuality and moody women. In the habitual ability developed the habit of being able to take on the challenge of turning round a moody straight women round hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced men as well as women as in experienced guy people will notice inexperience and experience when they see it adjusting their moods accordingly. A highly sensual guy and straight women will recognize a persistent jerk as not necessarily a jerk turning her on sensuality skills to her advantage the habits of being a jerk towards her soon disappears. It take a high empathy IQ in both guy and straight women to and experience taming somebody behaving like a jerk into someone who is not.

When we have turned round a jerk behavior round to somebody else nicer hundreds and thousands of times it is a piece of cake to us to do it again and again.

Reasonable emotional intelligence habitually displays inexperience though picking up on the moody responses of any women. Poor emotional intelligence will be disappointed. It tends to vow to never make the mistake of upsetting her again backing off and avoids her after that. These guys are genuinely afraid of the moody display girls can look like she's about to call the police or her boy friends for help she is sexually harassed any second.

Experience observers will notice what both did wrong. It will be clear as the noses on their faces approached either a timid and shy way or a complete jerk approaches and the moody turn off signs showing no sympathy for the inexperience by the woman. Experienced observers spot low sensuality skills in both sexes when they see it because they have seen it all before. It is very familiar to them. typical mistakes.

The inability to pick others intelligence has developed the experience. If it continues there is a potently lack of experience that shows in both sexes in poor conversation opening sequences. If it becomes a habit of women to have no sympathy with inexperience pick up approaches has done that sort of to many men hundreds and thousands of times before. Trouble is habits are almost impossible to change once they get a hold of a person.

Men can eventually be so frustrated and angry will become wiredrawn with themselves showing it by lashing out at woman are all the same. If rejections continue they develop the habit of believing they are unpopular with girls. These guys have seen the impatient no sympathy syndrome hundreds and thousands o times before. The same is true with women. If turn off’s keep continuing to be a habit will soon develop a bad habit attitude men about women and women about men the source of sexist remarks and jokes about each other put downs.

On the other hand if highly sensual in the first place began the habit of being charming in the company of of thousands of girls becomes before that developed the habit of a good attitude towards woman and if the habit of girls warming up to a man continues will find his own habit very exciting often can't wait to charm all sorts of women with pleasantries for more attention. Their high sensuality ( or emotional intelligence ) has habitually communicated on the same level as women hundreds and thousand of times before will convince them of that for ever.

A guy not very good at being sensual will experience continual habits of women not very impressed with them all the time. They will develop the habit in their heads it's true they are unpopular with girls. They have seen it often enough. On the other hand if a man is highly sensual good experiences keep coming breading the habits in their heads it's true they are popular with girls. They also have have seen it often enough. In both cases they have been though it all hundreds and thousands of times before over the years that alternately determines the habitual self talk belief about themselves for a long time.

The habitual habit of a guy who believes unpopular with girls will almost be impossible to change unless their is an agenda, a purpose for the change. Habits need a convincing motive to modify the stance. The habit of believing unpopular with girls is based on the habits girls unexpressed with them so it is simply not possible to change it to not being unpopular with girls.

The main problem with inexperienced men have encountered the reaction of inexpeinces women where both don't know what to do. A highly sensual experienced person will recognize inexperience when they see it.

There are both men and woman who have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before who recognize experience and inexperience alike. The habit of chasing over the years have seen everything seen it all before and done it all hundreds and thousands of times. The start was a early habit, why they are so successful. Experience tend to recognize inexperience when they see it remaining cool calm and collected adjusting their attitude accordingly.

All the traditional courtship behavior remains intact expect for one detail. Experienced women noticing a jerk behavior yet initially fancied him when she spotted him, instead of waiting to be being lead by the guy they recognize their from observing their behavior leading the guy in opening conversations before he can say or do anything else to draw out the real person by her charm towards him before he gets in first to make a fool of himself to her. Done hundreds and thousand of times before can get on with the court ship ritual. It is all due the habit of doing that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced woman who habitually encounters jerk behavior thousands of times. They have a unshakable confidence in remaining cool calm and collected applying psychology onto them becoming someone completely different. It is usually experienced prostitutes who have seen it all before where jerks don't know they had been put in their places. Experienced women are in hot demand. By contrast a woman who has never done that sort of thing before. Mistakes will be made turning off men against her that certainly could have been an ideal in the end.

Experienced woman can turn an boring jerk talking who habitually talks to much into an intelligent two way conversation because done hundreds of times before. We'd think they were psychologists in dis skies.

It started as a habit and by now have to do that sort so often to get more. Since they have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before the traditional roll of only men has take the lead has been abandoned in favor of experience in the last decades.

Other girls getting their men and men getting their girls and we don't is just experience on their part. Remember making a jerk or a laughing stock of ourselves is just inexperienced on our part. The experienced have seen inexperience behavior in action and so will we hundreds and thousands of times when we see it. The habit studying body language book images and mirror practicing will all help to gain confidence we also have done it hundred and thousands of times too..