The psychology of feeling bullied

The definition of bullying is often seen as intimating jerks humiliating us. We often see this in gangs and muggers humiliating those that tend to be a bit timid. Humiliation can also be passive not only from a bully but in yourself. Despite any complement we can all tell we have just been put in our place including seen in the movies.

Recognizing we'd felt put down by what appears a complement is the key to recognizing passive aggressiveness. Observing others in the habit of doing it to others is the key to recognizing a passive aggressive person. 

When fully alert our brain is very clever at picking up all sorts of hidden meanings behind complements. Politicians often feel compiled to lash out at reporter passive aggressive questioning.
Passive aggressive is a covert hostility often hiding behind spreading gossip targeted at their victims. Alert politicians lashing out at news media are now describing it as fake news.

Those who listen to gossip are often used as set up baits to ruin reputations and behind starting gang confrontations. An alert school principle and detective can suspect a passive aggressive trouble maker hidden in the background somewhere to investigate.

We see in movie school bullies humiliating other students often new students targeted trying out initiation testing to see what they've got. Other situations include victims seen as some sort of threat
quite often jealously behind unprovoked humiliation.

Potential victims are often those spotted by jerks that look like the have never learnt to look out themselves. In the movies often stereotyped as typical nerds. Our brain is good at picking up timid ness in others. It can see it miles away. Even the contrast those that look like they can look out for themselves too. Aggressive jerks pass over with caution unless they see us a threat of some kind overriding their better judgment for caution can be the most serious attention of unprovoked humiliation.

Being a victim of humanization is often from our subconscious mind sending a subconscious message from a gut feeling we are way-way out of our depth dealing with the problem once and for all. The problem with subconscious it is not specific. It's just a feeling. 

Most of us are nervous of a confrontation becoming physical. Most of the time it is a gut feeling it isn't the place, time and no support. Often our gut feeling is telling us we can't fight, terrified of getting hurt, and further humiliated by no support.

Avoiding confrontation pre conditions our subconscious mind to get into the habit of the feelings. Being uncomfortable shows miles away to every body to see. Our brain is very clever at observing constant on edge and timid behavior. We can be bluffed. Feeling humiliation specially in front of by standers watching on bullies can get away with messing with your head. It attracts teasing jerks like nails to a magnet.

In the movies it is clear we can learn a life lesson the wrong thing to say we don't want to fight. The humiliation only intensifies with probing and testing until the victim finally snaps. Also eyes wide. It not only looks spooky but tells everybody we are not in control of our fear.

As we see in the movies victims are seen as having balls often expressed showing victims not scared seen in long narrow eyed blank stars breathing though their nose. This non verbal bluff is seen as brave hearts by by-standers. Their silent anticipating waiting is a kind of a loud and clear non-verbal support. Potential gasps can come from  by standers when if stand with hands on our hips challenge. 
This cannot be acted. It can easily be overdone making us look like a nerd pretending to be tough making matters worse. Bullies including by standers have to observe genuine cool, calm and collected alertness in our eyes or see us as a fake.
Under constant humiliation we experience constant hurt lowering our alertness that plays a major roll in the continuing humiliation. We consciously experience the logic roll we must somehow be annoying to others. 
Our consciences is part of our brain that constantly looks for answers. We are consciously distressed we don't understand why everybody gives us unwarranted humiliation all the time can be supportive for a while. Always looking for answers we begin to feel we don't know what to believe anymore. But our conscious mind ability to keep looking for answers doesn't disperse never giving up analyzing for answers. 
Our subconscious mind is a part of our brain that has the habit of believing it without question. It is at it's strongest at suggestions when we are not fully alert though nursing hurt prides. We have conscious instruction to be uncomfortable round our bullying nemeses. We are instructed with gut feeling thoughts to be careful and at all costs to avoid them.
In avoiding humiliation we end up getting into the habit constantly suspicious of that person that person and so on. Our conscious mind is constantly analyzing why me? What am I doing wrong? I don't hurt anybody. I keep to myself analysis. 
Our subconscious mind hasn't the ability to doubt, and look for answers. It thinks in terms of we don't hurt anybody because we keep to ourselves because we don't hurt anybody because we keep to ourselves because we don't bully anybody to make it true bulling happens to us to make it true logic. 
With a lowed alertness we never consciously realize our short sighted subconscious mind instruction because it is unconscious to our alert conscious mind reasoning for answers. Our conscious mind is always looking for answers ability is not thinking like our subconscious mind.
It becomes a conscious habit of believing it must be true we annoy others coming straight from our deep subconscious mind who knows it isn't our fault we get bullied. It's logic dictates to show it isn't our our fault why we have get bullied to make it true we get bullied. 
The contrast our conscious mind doesn't except conclusions like that we are plumaged by our conscious thoughts of why me? I don't do anything wrong? Our conscious mind doesn't understand our subconscious is incapable of asking questions.
We often get conscious feelings of being disgusted with ourselves for standing by while letting bullies get away with humiliating us made worse thinking how could we let it happen right under everybody else's noses. The thought often turns into self loathing. In our lowered alertness we often get conscious thoughts about cowardice crossing our minds. 
The thought of wishing we could put our nemeses in their place for a change but feeling we can't galls us even more. Our conscious thoughts shows in our withdrawn and moody behavior others can see miles away. We often see this on TV shows. Everybody notices from friends and family. They are often hurt buy our shunning them. We often get persistent asking what's wrong interrogation attention hating ourselves for not looking out for ourselves.
Under our current self loathing we feel as an unwonted interrogation and patronization we don't want right now. All we feel is to be left alone. lashing out we feel embarrassed to talk it. Others don't understand how we feel specially not able to understand our lash out behavior either.
The one place that allows us to let bullies get away with messing with our heads is the fear of putting the bully in their place once and for the number of reasons described . We can all take comfort by a world war 2 American president present Theodore Roosevelt in a famous speech address to the public when he said we can use as a life lesson when said we have nothing to fear but fear itself.  Fear comes from our gut feelings straight from our subconscious mind we are out of our depth.
Consequently we get conscious messages it's our fault. If it becomes a habit we end up training our subconscious mind to believe it. During upset we are not fully alert. We become in danger of our subconscious mind taking over it's our fault because we are bullied because it's our fault because we get bullied logic. It becomes a conscious obsession. 
Think of the habit we consciously don't believe it's not our fault everybody humiliates us. Any habit keeps us on our toes and this positive affirmation is no exception. The habit of not believing it's not our fault we tend to be cool, calm and collected with ourselves. We become more alert. Fully alert our brain is cool, calm and collected free from the ravages of our own negative integration thoughts. In fact the habit our subconscious thinking is often brilliant at being supporting ourselves.
Our conscious mind's obsession with looking for answers we find ourselves question the logic it's not our fault. The questioning ability is maximum when fully alert keeping itself looking for answers motivating us to consider the possibility that it could be true it's not our fault after all.
Our conscious mind is free to recognize any bullying threat as an illusion of what it really means. It tends to be incredibly smart at recognizing transparency of what's really going on. Any out of the blue humiliation our brain can recognize testing initiation or jealous attacks when our brain sees it.
To work it must become a conscious habit of recognizing it's not our fault we have a bullying nemeses. The conscious habit of realizing it's not our fault appeals to our conscious mind supportive reasoning. We start experiencing emporia though the revelation. The trick is conscious self talk it's not our fault until it sinks in we believe it's true. In doing so we train our subconscious mind to believe it is not our fault.
There is 2 supportive magic words that helps us control our panic and bring us to a state of full alertness is don't panic followed by keep cool, calm and collected. Once again for this to work it must be a self talk habit telling ourselves we don't panic. 
Convincing ourselves we keep cool calm and collected until it becomes a subconscious habit logic we don't panic because we keep cool, calm and collected because we don't panic.
We don't panic because we keep cool, calm and collected logic. In the thinking our subconscious mind we don't panic because we keep, cool, calm and collected to make it true we don't panic, because we keep cool, calm and collected why we don't panic to make it true we keep, cool, calm and collected whitch is why we don't panic because we.....blar,blar,blar and son on
We retrain our subconscious mind to believe it's important to be not our fault to make it true it's not our fault. In the thinking of our subconscious mind because it's not our fault, it is true it's not our fault because it's not our fault to make it true it's not our fault. Soon it becomes an unconscious mind set habit we believe it is not our fault.
The thought is a calm relief from the grip of fear. Not being afraid of humiliation we can keep our heads. Keeping our heads shows. By standers can see us very sharp and alert miles away. A clear head is incredibly intelligently and cool looking. We look very brave and smart instructed by our subconscious mind telling us it is important it isn't our fault to make it true it isn't our fault. Under the influence of our subconscious mind our brain fully alert can properly observe, think and remember details with ease.

Stopping bullying. How to stop bullying. What is bullying.

To bystanders putting a stop to bullying can be a dilemma. Interrupting an episode of bullying we don't have to be Einstein's to instinctively know most bullies tend to be grudge holders. It is often what makes us heistate. We often see in the movies high school students that seem timid targets of teasing. An interruption is often seen as an invasion of a bully's privacy that doesn't concern them specially galling interrupted by a stranger.

We often see examples in the movies of a student who can't bear to be a bystander any longer interrupting a teasing scene. The bully feeling challenged by the bystander now becomes a target of the bullies annoyance directed at the bystander. The bully is is distracted by the bystander ending up getting caught up in reckoning bluff with the megalomaniac grudge holding ego. The bystander is often forced into a counter bluff drama. 

Next thing we know the well intended Samaritan ends up forced into brawling with the perpetrator taking the place of the bully's original victim. If we defeat grudge holder ego it isn't over. Bystanders are often marked for plans of revenge either with bold threats usually followed up by covert scheming.

If you have feel strange hint of being humiliated by friendly comradely you are a victim of a passive aggression attack. Despite any compliment we can all tell we have just been put in our place. It is a covered over hostility attack meant to undermine our confidence and it often works. 

Our brain easily recognizes negative assumptions behind it when it hears it. Most bullies scared into  into this type of friendly teasing. Dispute the friendly comradely our brain still recognized we have just been undermined. Challenging such teasing scares covert hostility into indigent mind set denials. Inexperience is often taken in by lies and withheld vital information they don't know about.
By listing to our brain we'd felt put down by what appears a complement is the key to recognizing passive aggressiveness.

As a bystander we observe others in the habit of doing it is the key to recognizing a passive aggressive person to avoid. Once we can recognize for what a complement really is we develop a strong instinct experience at recognizing that sort of behavior.

Fully alert our brain is very clever at picking up all sorts of hidden meanings behind complements. Politicians often feel compelled to lash out at aggressive questioning. Passive aggressive is often hiding behind spreading gossip targeted at their victims. Alert politicians lashing out at news media are now describing aggressive gossip as fake news.

Those who listen to gossip are often victims of set up baits to help ruin reputations and behind starting gang confrontations. Anybody who listens to gossip are unwitting accomplishers and allies destroying reputations. 

Alert school principles and police detectives suspect passive aggressive trouble making gasp hiding in the background somewhere. Armed with the insight they dig deeper uncovering many withheld information they should known about. Keeping important information to ourselves is more effective ally to injustice than direct lying.

We see in movie school bullies humiliating other students often new students targeted trying out initiation testing to see what they've got. Other situations include victims seen as some sort of threat quite often jealously behind unprovoked humiliation.

Potential victims are often spotted looking like the have never learnt to look out themselves. In the movies often stereotyped as typical nerds. Our brain is good at picking up timidness in others. It can see it miles away. By contrast of those that look like as if they can look out for themselves too.

Aggressive jerks pass over with caution unless they see as threat of some kind overriding their better judgment for caution can be the most serious attention of unprovoked humiliation.
Being a victim of humiliation is often from our subconscious mind sending a subconscious message from a gut feeling we are way-way out of our depth at what to do deal with the problem once and for all. The problem with subconscious it is not specific. It's just a feeling. 

Most of us are nervous of a confrontation becoming physical. Most of the time it is a gut feeling it isn't the place, time and no support. Often our gut feeling is telling us we can't fight, terrified of getting hurt, or further humiliated when we have no support.

Avoiding confrontation pre conditions our subconscious mind to get into the habit of the feelings. Being uncomfortable shows miles away to everybody to see. Our brain is very clever at observing constant on edge and timid behavior. We can be bluffed. Feeling humiliated specially in front of by standers watching on bullies can get away with messing with your head. It attracts teasing jerks like nails to a magnet.

In the movies it is clear we can learn a life lesson the wrong thing to say we don't want to fight. The humiliation only intensifies with probing and testing until the victim finally snaps. Unwitting eyes wide is a problem. It not only looks spooky guaranteed to start trouble but tells everybody we are not in control of our fear.

We have seen in the movies where victims of humiliation are seen as having balls often looking not scared. It is expressed in confronting their tormentors with blank stars breathing though their nose with no emotion. This non verbal bluff is seen as brave hearts by bystanders. Their silent anticipating waiting is a kind of a loud and clear non-verbal support. Potential gasps can come from  by standers if stand with hands on our hips blank stare challenge. 

A word of warning. This cannot be acted. It can easily be overdone making us look like a nerd pretending to be tough making matters worse. Bullies including bystanders have to observe genuine cool, calm and collected alertness in our eyes or they will see us as a fake requires something else.
Under constant humiliation we experience constant hurt lowering our alertness that plays a major roll in the continuing humiliation. We consciously experience the logic roll we must somehow be annoying to others. 

Our consciences is part of our brain that constantly looks for answers. We are consciously distressed we don't understand why everybody gives us unwarranted humiliation all the time which can be a self insuring can support for a while. Always looking for answers we begin to feel we don't know what to believe anymore. But our conscious mind ability to keep looking for answers doesn't disperse never giving up. It is always crisping at analyzing answers in the background. 

Our subconscious mind is a part of our brain that has the habit of believing everything without question. It is at it's strongest at suggestions when we are not fully alert though nursing hurt prides. We have conscious instruction to be uncomfortable round our bullying nemeses. We are instructed with gut feeling thoughts to be careful and at all costs to avoid them.

In avoiding humiliation we end up getting into the habit constantly suspicious of that person that person and so on. Our conscious mind is constantly analyzing why me? What am I doing wrong? I don't hurt anybody. I keep to myself const reassurance analysis. 

Our subconscious mind hasn't the ability to doubt, and look for answers. It thinks in terms of we don't hurt anybody because we keep to ourselves because we don't hurt anybody because we keep to ourselves because we don't bully anybody to make it true bulling happens to us to make it true logic. 

With a lowed alertness we never consciously realize our short sighted subconscious mind instruction because it is unconscious to our alert conscious mind reasoning for answers. Our conscious mind is always looking for answers ability is not thinking like our subconscious mind.

It becomes a conscious habit of believing it must be true we annoy others coming straight from our deep subconscious mind who that rarely knows it isn't our fault we get bullied. It's logic dictates because it isn't our our fault is why we have get bullied to make it true we get bullied. 

The contrast our conscious mind doesn't except conclusions that way. We are plumaged by our conscious thoughts of why me? I don't do anything wrong? Our conscious mind doesn't understand our subconscious is incapable of asking questions.

We often get conscious feelings of being disgusted with ourselves for standing by while letting bullies get away with humiliating us made worse thinking how could we let it happen right under everybody else's noses. The thought often turns into self loathing. In our lowered alertness we often get conscious thoughts about cowardice crossing our minds. 

The thought of wishing we could put our nemeses in their place for a change but feeling we can't galls us even more. Our conscious thoughts shows in our withdrawn and moody behavior others can see miles away. We often see this on TV shows. Everybody notices from friends and family. They are often hurt buy our shunning them. We often get persistent asking what's wrong interrogation attention hating ourselves for not looking out for ourselves.

Under our current self loathing we feel as an unwonted interrogation and patronization we don't want right now. All we feel is to be left alone. lashing out we feel embarrassed to talk it. Others don't understand how we feel specially not able to understand our lash out behavior either.

The one place that allows us to let bullies get away with messing with our heads is the fear of putting the bully in their place once and for the number of reasons already described. We can all take comfort by a world war 2 American president present Theodore Roosevelt in a famous speech address to the public when he said we can use as a life lesson when said we have nothing to fear but fear itself.  Fear comes from our gut feelings straight from our subconscious mind we are out of our depth.

Consequently we get conscious messages it's our fault. If it becomes a habit we end up training our subconscious mind to believe it. During upset we are not fully alert. We become in danger of our subconscious mind taking over it's our fault because we are bullied because it's our fault because we get bullied logic. It becomes a conscious obsession. 

Think of the habit we consciously don't believe it's not our fault everybody humiliates us. Any habit keeps us on our toes and this positive affirmation is no exception. The habit of not believing it's not our fault we tend to be cool, calm and collected with ourselves. We become more alert. Fully alert our brain is cool, calm and collected free from the ravages of our own negative integration thoughts. In fact the habit our subconscious thinking can brilliant at supporting ourselves.

Our conscious mind's obsession with looking for answers we find ourselves question the logic it's not our fault. The questioning ability is maximum when fully alert keeping itself looking for answers motivating us to consider the possibility that it could be true it's not our fault after all.

Our conscious mind is free to recognize any bullying threat as an illusion of what it really means. It tends to be incredibly smart at recognizing transparency of what's really going on. Fully alert any out of the blue humiliation our brain can recognize testing initiation or jealous attacks when our brain sees it.

To work it must become a conscious habit of recognizing it's not our fault we have a bullying nemeses. The conscious habit of realizing it's not our fault appeals to our conscious mind supportive reasoning. 

The thought of it's not our we start experiencing revelation. The trick is conscious self talk it's not our fault until it sinks in we believe it's true. In doing so we train our subconscious mind to believe it is not our fault.

There is 2 supportive magic words that helps us control our panic and bring us to a state of full alertness is reciting don't panic don't panic followed by keep cool, calm and collected. Once again for this to work it must be a self talk habit telling ourselves we don't panic. 

Convincing ourselves we keep cool calm and collected until it becomes a subconscious habit logic we don't panic because we keep cool, calm and collected because we don't panic.

We don't panic because we keep cool, calm and collected endless circle logic. In the endless circling thinking our subconscious mind we don't panic because we keep, cool, calm and collected to make it true we don't panic, because we keep cool, calm and collected why we don't panic to make it true we keep, cool, calm and collected which is why we don't panic because we.....blar,blar,blar and son on

We retrain our subconscious mind set to believe it's important to be not our fault to make it true it's not our fault. In the thinking of our subconscious mind because it's not our fault, it is true it's not our fault because it's not our fault to make it true it's not our fault. Soon it becomes an unconscious mind set habit we believe it is not our fault.

The thought is a calm relief from the grip of fear. Not being afraid of our nemeses we can keep our heads. Keeping our heads shows. By standers can see us very sharp and alert miles away. It's done only by instinct. It is only seen as fake if acted. 

Our mind clear is incredibly intelligently and cool looking to bystanders look very brave and smart instructed by our subconscious mind telling us it is important it isn't our fault to make it true it isn't our fault. This can't be acted. It has to be real. Under the influence of our subconscious mind our brain fully alert can properly observe, think and remember details with ease.

To bystanders putting a stop to bullying can be a dilemma. Interrupting an episode we don't have to be Einstein's to instinctively know most bullies tend to be grudge holders. We often see in the movies high school students that seem timid targets for teasing. An interruption is often seen as an invasion of privacy that doesn't concern them specially galling interrupted by a stranger.

We often see examples of a student who can't bear to be a bystander any longer interrupting a teasing scene. The bully feeling challenged by the bystander now becomes a target of the bullies annoyance themselves. The original victim is forgotten the bystander ending up in getting caught up in reckoning bluff with the megalomaniac grudge holding ego. The bystander is often forced into a counter bluff drama. 


Next thing we know the good Samaritan ends up forced into brawling the perpetrator taking the place of the bully's original victim. If we defeat a grudge holder ego it isn't over. Seen as a rude interference by stander are marked for plans of revenge either by bold threats usually followed up by covert scheming.

After all this there is 4 rules of conduct in dealing with bullies.

1.Don't panic.
2.Don't be a perpetrator.
3.Don't be a victim.
4.Don't be a bystander.