We are often reminded of a philosophical cliché we can do anything when we put our minds to it. But there is something more powerful. Habits. Nothing to do with anything about good or bad only anything we started finally doing it hundreds and thousands of times without any more conscious input from ourselves anymore.

Psychologists specially hypnotists believes habits that rule our lives comes from one place, the start of a habit from self talking. Not the out loud conversation with ourselves, but the habitual silent thoughts flowing though our heads. In other words we are what we habitually think about. Hypnosis believe habitual thinking Habits come from a part of our brain that is our unconscious selves.

According to hypnotherapy we have two parts to our brains a conscious and an unconscious part. We know our unconscious part  when we get hit on the head knocked out, or used as a esthetic operation preparation. We have seen our unconsciousness in action thousands of times on TV and  movie plots. Someone sometime or another is knocked out cold. We have twin but opposite parts of ourselves genome. We've seen hundreds and thousands of times paramedics fighting to keep someone conscious and so on.
What is this conscious and unconscious states we have?

We are aware of being aware. There are some days there seems to be to many hours in a day. But when it comes to our unconsciousness all we know of time flow is meaningless when out cold. We have no memory of several days when we come to. Only when we come to are we conscious. Strange as it may seem a bit like a science fiction time traveler traveled many years into the future that feels was not much more than less than a second or two.

Who's to say we are permanently unconscious only for the fact there is a conscious veil we are aware of being aware operating in foreground like the desk top of your computer's operating system desk top permanently open in the background of this page. Our consciences understands the difference between one plus one is two and two plus one is three. Our mathematical instinct aggress with the logic. Math's can't lie you know.

In comparison our unconscious is an unintelligent moron .It hasn't the ability logic to agree. It excepts one plus one equals two and one plus two equals four but doesn't know the difference. In fact because it doesn't know anything about any differences it is instructed except as fact one plus one is two that equals one plus one is three. It thinks in terms two plus two is two equals two plus two that equals three the same as four. As far as it's concerned one plus one equals one one plus one that equals one plus two, that equals one plus one that equals one plus two that equals one plus two equals that equals one plus two that equals......... Everything is equally to everything.

Our five senses are excepted by our unconsciousness the same way. Our unconsciousness can't tell the deference between, smell, taste, touch, sight, and hearing. Even semiconscious the sight of a car, it's color, music, the smell off roses wolfing from a near by garden and the taste of the after math of a burger are all registered as the same things.

Our unconscious hovers in the background when we are fully alert. Our habits are started by our unconsciousness that can't stop. We start the processing programming our unconsciousness in a run away habit. The habit takes charge of our self communication dictating mind sets of who we are, and who we are not, and what we believe about ourselves is true and not true.

When we start the Habit of roll playing in our heads our perfect day is habitually happening to us every day we will develop a nagging habit it seems to be true. When we star the habit of self talk soon becomes a instructive habit, soon automatically carried out with out any conscious effort from ourselves to a point we stop arguing the pros and cons. It applies to everything.

When we start the habit of believing smoking is hard to give up only reinforces the belief. Any habit is a experiences of been there done that, hundreds and thousands of thousand of times before. When ever our habits are threatened by our own reasoning we tend to experience temper tantrums to to hold on to our habits.  We start experiencing panic attracts  which is why it is hard to give up smoking called withdraw. Many inexperienced observers often panic in sympathy because the don't recognize it's only display of withdraw systems. Imagine the threat we have to give up what we have already done hundreds and thousands of times.

Imagine an electronics repairman who have got hundreds of thousands of electronic apparatus running smoothly hundreds and thousands of times threatened to give it all up.

When it comes being aware we think on a conscious level. The third part of us, is us. We are our critical facture. We are the ones that decide what is and what isn't for our selves. We decide who we are and who we are not. Our conscienceless is just an organic that store house of informed judgments. Our background unconsciousness on the other hand is none critical, it hasn't a clue about judgments .With out our critical input it is a mindless automaton. It doesn't know anything about  analyzing pros and cons and making critical judgmental like we do. A case in point.

A person has been overcome by smoke in a house fire. The unconscious person still has time to escape to survive even when flames licking close by. The unconscious level cannot understand any of that kind of the concept even when still alive. It only knows how to keep it's body functions alive while it can. It only knows to stimulate the basic body functions to survive in a desperate attempt to stay alive while being consumed by fire. If lucky to come to fo any reason after breathing in all that smoke we take over.

When come to we are the conscious self not our brain. Our brain is only a simple communication device with the outside world. We are the intelligence living in it that will act for survival. Panic is often when things are very unfamiliar. But when we have been in a situation like that hundreds and thousands of times before our brain not letting us forget  previous experiences come to us in an instant flood. Our thought's are organized because we have done this sort of thing many times before. Not done before makes us unintelligent doing the wrongs things at the wrong times often for the wrong reasons often dictated by the thinking of unfamiliarity.

In an extreme case example of done something hundred and thousands of times before those that have been in earthquakes hundreds and thousands of times will be familiar with the latest event when it occurs experiencing little to no fear so are cool calm and collected with floods of memories of the after shocks that typically came from the previous experiences. The person will expect them coming as typical events that are going to follow when the main event is over. They will be prepared for the after socks every time they occur.

The first time in our lives is the key to panic and despair. For some reason everything seems to fast to think properly we are urged by our heads to do something right now in panic. For some reason familiar with any emergency the perception of time seems to slow down time. The slowing of time in a emergency gives us a sense we have time to think.

A wealth of data from our previous expenses flood into our minds we convert into instructions. We habitual look round gathering data we can see chances of executing a safe plan of escape in the middle chaos such as in the middle of an earthquake or a fire and the chaotic aftermath when the main event stops. In the chaos thoughts of getting rubble shard up support for the coming after shocks.

Done anything hundreds and thousands before we having floods of memories we'd done before we
paternally think ahead during any emergency.

Been though all this hundreds and thousands of times before our senses and intelligence is sharp to notice things. Something tells us not to open that door. When we don't panic our consciousness reasons with a thought there could be anything behind it. A flood of what kind of consequences can happen if we do. With such none panic thoughts we can think of plan of rescue without getting hurt. Our escape is well organized because we have done that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

With a clear head we are clear in our thinking reporting to any other rescuers necessary information handy for rescue  like professionals.

When we have done anything hundreds and thousands of times before we are very powerful. Done thousands of times we are confident and not ruled by panic. We are foresighted in what to do in any emergency. We are capable of thinking up improvised plans at top of our heads at the spire of any moment.

Take a fire emergency. When been in situations thousands of times before we are capable of analyzing properly the  first thing that come into our heads. We analyze, plan and quickly think of checking as we go in the fire helping everybody execute our organized escape route while doing so. Clear headed we can think carefully. For example  when not panicking spotting closed doors we experience the experiences of before might be a fire behind it testing feeling and probing it before blindly swing it open before it's to late.

Done hundreds and thousands of times before wood an excelled insulator of heat spotting a wooden door size board can be an excellent shield opportunity to escape behind. Observing how much will be burnt will carry along for safe measure further along corridors for protection.  All this because the person has been in a emergency situation like this hundreds and thousands of times before.

In other words there is two parts, us and our mindless brain that depends on us. We are the conscious self were we are at our  most alert. Without us our brain is just a organic computer automatically keeping our body alive and no more. A clear case in point when  we are unconscious our brain  is numbed not responding our inputs.

We are aware though our five sense though our organic windows of sight, hearing, taste and smell provided by the brain. We are like a person isolated in a room with only a keyboard, mouse and monitor controlling how we interact with life on the internet as the outside world , though a computer window, ( sight ) the multimedia speaker system, ( hearing ) taste and smell sensations picked up by the senses of the computer.

A part of our brain that stands between us it, is our unconsciiness. There is a minimum of slightly unaware of our immediate surroundings. The daze of a bitter disappointment's grief, and even the shock of witnessing a traumatic event will do it. In a extreme case panicking causes a lowering our alertness level. Think of the cleaver quick thinking we admire of others who have the ability of not panic in any emergency.

There is a consensus among hypnotists who believe the unconscious part of our brain is the place were the secretes about ourselves and habits come from where they have the knack at being able to  tap into it by lowering us from it.

Us being the critical facture the critical factor is gaining trust otherwise we  tend to rebel rendering our selves useless to hypnosis. The key facture to show Hypnotists is a friendly charm. It is an ultimate ice breaker ideal for business and sales people opening trust that promotes communication. Some people struggle it while others are naturals.

It is one of the factures we all find hard to resist rendering our cooperation.  We tend to over look the quite quiet and surly person until it is too late we are astonished to learn committed a murder atrocity we thought would have not done. The secrete to recognizing a potential perpetrator is recognizing very little and surly communication. As the saying goes "It's the quiet ones you have to watch" With the extreme charm is the key characteristic of con artists. We all fall for friendly charm. It's what makes us so vulnerable to con artists. 

We all impose negative impact on ourselves one way or another in our every day lives though a nonmaterial reviler. One common is day dreaming. When we day dream everything around us is less conscious wide open to our auto polite brain taking in the data from the outside world with out our input. Hypnotists believe under such circumstance we can potentially program our friends when they are in a momentarily lapse. Show hypnotists are dealing with hundreds and thousands of strangers all the time. They have applied friendly charm to induce the trust of the thousands before the proceeded with them This is a pre-relaxing technique to render our trust states.

Show hypnotists charm has to be genuine to us since the hypnotists is a stranger. We tend to be supper sensitive to picking attitude. Our mindless brain can only provide incoming data. It is us who analysis and decides. Our judging is the most important part to show hypnotists. They have to  make it clear to gests we are not fools.

The environment round us can momentarily fade out as we drift into a world of our own. This can only happen when when we feel safe and relaxed.

During this period our brain is continuing the receive any  music, ( any sounds in fact ), any talk back radio or TV commercial to interview programs our brain. That's al it takes to be programmed by a TV commercial. We often fade in and out of alertness. This is because  Our brain is a fixed constant from the day we were born while we have varying digress from drifting off to sleep to a world of our own.

We all all born with a unconsciousness gene. In fact we are born that way. Medical TV shows testifies to this as apart of the human condition to fit in with the story lines. Action an adventure testify to Paramedics, nurses, and surgeons clamber about patience trying to save them going into shock to avoid unconscious and coma. Story lines of being whacked from behind sending people unconsciousness and coma stories and all that.

There seem to be  a mechanism that protects us from the shock of extreme pain.  Imagine what it would be like to have a major operation consciousness. We are born with the condition we are often lowered in some form of alertness. We fade in and out of alertness like the volume of a stereo from maximum zero.

As far as a coma is concerned coming too is always to us as if the last time remembering consciousness which would only seem a moment in time we don't exist until we come to, the closest description of what it would to be like dead.

Imagine being conscious in a coma. Coming out of one for as many days, weeks or months even years that we didn't exist until we gain our conscious level. From our  point of view would have traveled into the future somewhat.

Wile we are out of it. There is no concept of any past present or future concept when we don't exist while unconscious. All our brain knows the past is seen in a hear an now present us unconscious or not. We often hear of 30 years described as a long time ago at the same time amazed at some people saying a experience 30 years ago like it was  only yesterday. All those years of experience is a memory of right here and now.
All the time in a coma is our unconsciousness records as a present time. All the person knows when came too the last time remembering fully conscious.

In the medical world Surgeons tap into lowering our consciousness level till we are completely unaware by using general atheistic. That's the general plan. There have been documented reports of atheistic that hadn't worked the way it should have.

Never the less, time doesn't exist as we know at any in degrees of conscious level only when fully alert. It doesn't exist at all to our unconsciousness. The lest severe the lay person understands as semiconscious, technically called concussion. We are in a state of dumb nuts not with it. Fainting spells including can't stop shaking because of shock that is a sign of lowered conscious. Heart attacks lowers our conscious level.
It this not quite with it state that we are at the most valuable to automatic suggestion.

To our unconsciousness not only the spoken word, but, smell, any sounds, including tones, high and low pitch,  feel, touch sensation pain, ( heat and cold ) just as it is with varying digress of light in sight is all instructive.

Hypnotists world wide believe our unconsciousness is a place where all our habits are controlled. Smoking is a classic example. Our consciousness is aware of the education smoking is bad for us. But for the life of us we can't explain the unexplained obstinacy of not wanting to give up. Saying we can't is actually the only conscious explanation of explaining away our unconscious addiction.

Our unconscious is fully active even fully conscious in touch with the outside world it is not aware of. All it knows the information coming from all our senses while we are unconscious. We are in fact unconscious except for our consciousness awareness operating in the foreground.

Our conscious part understands, A,  B,  and C, differences. A good analogy clarifying Hepatitis into A,  B  and C, category. Any doctor will tell you Hepatitis A is not the same as Hepatitis B or Hepatitis C even though they are all Hepatitis. Our unconscious cannot  think in that kind of differences. Everything equals all the same. It thinks in terms Hepatitis A is the same as Hepatitis C and Hepatitis C the same as Hepatitis B and Hepatitis B the same as Hepatitis C and Hepatitis C the same as Hepatitis A respectively. Every is the same.

Remember to bear in mind our brain having automatic functions keep us alive when unconscious. As far as our conscienceless is concerned we’re perhaps the closest experience of what it would be like to be dead even though still body alive even though it struggles with traumatized breathing and heart rate. We are not conscious to experience the share panic of the trauma. Only when we come to we begin to feel the conscious experience.

In the meantime our unconsciousness records everything of the trauma that is unconscious memory. It exists from moments of day dreaming to light concussion. Even light concussion is suggestive. There is a collection of all the times we suffered minor concussions we have consciously forgotten about, Not to our unconsciousness it's not. All records are there just not available as conscious memory.

There's no level to our unconsciousness. It’s a permanently fixed operating in the background of our consciousness since birth. When our consciousness is lowered, for what ever reason, leaves our unconsciousness open to our five sense sensations during unconsciousness programming us. Our unconsciiness continues to record everything.

Stories of amputees still feeing the ach of their amputated limb despite the fact the limb is not there and nowhere for doctors to dispense a pain killers. An example of how our unconscious memory runs our lives, an avid horseback rider comes off a horse braking a leg. All memory of the event  semiconscious memory during the periods of the stress. Giddiness on the verge of collapsing for example.

Although the leg has long since healed every time our unconscious hears or smells everything that reminded it during any traumatic incident remembers the trauma to our consciousnesses the cause of old wounds playing up latter at latter dates. Our unconsciousness is remembering flash backs of everything of our five senses.

There is a great deal  of attention brought to post traumatic stress issues recently. If there is ever a cause it would be  due to the reaction of our unconsciiness remembrance of traumatized events. Triggers can be a smell, a sight, a sound, to a touch sensation that can be the stressor that sends a person off their rocker. Chemical brain imbalance has been fingered as a possible maybe off mantle illnesses like bipolar disorder and schizophrenia.

The remembrance of a traumatic is often inflicted on us by our brain's memory system. Suffered extensive burns during a fire several years ago the wounds long since healed. Just the sound of any wailing of a emergency vehicle wail feelings of frantic and anxiety and the growing sensation where the person as burned start nagging nag. It is our brain memory remembering everything that happened communicating with us to get away from danger.

Getting down to the nitty-gritty of the sciences it is a chemical reaction of our living brain cells that make up the brain dedicated to living and surviving. Our bodies depend on our automatic brain functions controlling hormones to keep us functioning a normal. The automatic functions that keep us alive with out conscious effort is controlled by the chemistry brain cells that make up each dedicated part of the brain. For with out a chimerical reactions we would not exist.

Hypnotists believe we are programmed when we're off in a world of own state a day dreaming or reviver state. Half asleep is a lowering of our consciousness awareness. Maximum consciousness when are bright and alert.

Reviver is often brought on  by some monotonous routine getting to us like watching the scenery pass by in public transport to watching TV. Engrossed in our own thoughts waiting for commercials to pass we're not alert to the environment's background.

We are not even aware of a friend trying to tall to us unstill they gain our attention.

"Are you listening"  "A Penny for your thoughts"

"You hoo.....are you there!"

"Oh! Sorry! Sorry. What was that?"

Our unconsciousness harbors our emotional feelings such as elation and joy where rational reason doesn't prevail the characteristics of the manic episodes of bipolar disorder. The mid is in a run away not happy mood when it remembers the incident that triggered it in the first place were person experiences the pleasant emotion welling up inside us no matter how inappropriate at any time. It can be any trigger from an unconscious memory of a smell, taste, sound, touch or sight that is usually the stressor.

Bitter disappointments to heart rendering traumas can also play a part in rendering the shock of a world of our own that lowers our consciousness to same degree. Our unconsciousness operating in the background not only harbors the emotions for life the roots of post traumatic stress disorder. It is normal to experience bitterness and grief for a time being recovering back fully bright and alertness where rational reason prevails. Our uncommonness  is  a power drain on our full alertness.

Your unconsciousness heard it all right. The environment's background is an unconscious memory until it's brought to your conscious attention again where the unconscious memory is popped from your unconscious memory into your conscious memory. Some of us can recall what people just said quicker than others.

What ever is said to us during a state of any day dream is absorbed by our brain, as programming instructions. Our brain is not able to tell differences statements and questions are treated in the same programming context. Questions, regular conversation and explanations all have no pronunciation meaning.

It see's them  all as a single programming words. Hypnotisms believe even a minimal lowering of our consciousness is a potential programming effect on the brain thus us. During times of day dreaming we have a potential  of the words of songs we follow in our heads. They believe these moments our own thoughts program us including rehearsing songs we currently listing to or repeating over in our heads. During these day dreaming states what goes on in our heads we eventually unconsciously become.

If we keep repeating something long enough it's reparative we can eventually unconsciously become, positive as well as negative. If it becomes a habit can convince our unconscious it can get anything and do anything your habit demands. Habits convinces our brain  that convinces us of the unconscious habit, even if it is only an unconscious thing. Self talk habits often start as a passing though rehearsing in our heads caused by some inspiration followed by a curiosity. Curious enough we will be driven by our curiosity. Thus hypnotists into using hypnoses as a therapy are all unanimous our unconsciousness is the prime source of all our habits good and bad,

Curiosity inspires inspiration that inspires action. Curiosity is electric. It give results in discoveries and inspiration  bursts of energy and ecstasy. Habitual curiosity (and often driven by passion as well),  is the secrete of high achieving. Famous scientific people are habitually curious that's the cause of  the birth of modern quantum physics theory that started it all in 1900. Habits is also the same simple thing  that create self made millionaires. Habits are the driving of high achievers energy and focus even though it may be unconscious driven by their unconsciousness.

The best motor mechanics are caused by a deep passion and curiosity if he (and even a she) could get a old dilapidated vehicle running smoothly again. The habitual curiosity they can rebuild a wreck as good as new and curious if they can meat top safety mechanical standards required by the law putting it back on the road and running smoothly again. Curiosity starts to become a habit at being very passionate at doing good jobs at the absolute best. The same with individuals obsessed with achieving some record breaking attempt we criticizes as adrilllion  junky driven by habitual curiosity  to see if they can do it.

Curious to know is the secrete to scientific greatness like the famous hero Albert Einstein. He was curious about what it would be like at the maximum speed of light that inspired him to shear his thoughts during his employment at a patent office in 1905. (From Einstein's theory of reality my curiosity is what would it be like to travel a distance of a 160km, (100 miles),  in one second flat.

After all,  light at it's maximum speed in the zero resistance of open space does a distance of just under 300,000km in a second). Einstein's  curious habit was the driving force to his concentration and focus writing drafts and sending the final revised copies off to publishers eventually creating the world famous theory of relativity. In it he shared with his scientific colleges his inspiration extreme velocity causes time dilution and all his famous light laws. he discovered. In the second year of world war 1 further inspirations inspired him revising his 1905 version, he shared the inspiration gravity is caused by matter bending space. After the war it was proven by a measurement of an eclipse that light is indeed bent by gravity. Einstein became famous because of his curious habit of searching for the theory of everything shearing with his colleges though papers on the subject.

Habits are also the secrete of becoming millionaires. Being a millionaire is a habitual passion for businesses. The founder of the famous Windows computer operating system company Microsoft, bill Gates had a passion for computer programming when he was only a kid well over thirty years ago. He and a friend Paul

Allen's habits at playing round with the then computer technology become well known. Their curiosity at computer programming becomes a habitual source of their knowledge experience. The pair got recognized and some awards for excellence in that field. These two had a passion for businesses adventure using their experience curious the could write one of the early computer traffic control operating systems for a couple of traffic control firms in the midd 70's. Both men put their business and computer programming and businesses habits to good use becoming milliners today.

Mind over mater usually starts with a curiosity that never seems to be satisfied growing into a obsession of wanting to know more. A lot of us are skeptics about our mind controlling matter. If you are one of those you have every right to be skeptical because it can’t work with out a habit. Habits are the key to mind over matter control. Individuals that appear in the Gneiss book of records and Ripley’s believe it or not that seemed to achieve humanly impossible things were governed by the well known cliché everybody’s familiar with Practice makes perfect. They didn’t use their minds they way we think. It starts off as a curious idea.

When they first started it was impossibly hard. What starts as routine training excurses becomes a habit.
After a while they noticed getting closer and closer to their goal all the time. Now they've done it over and over hundreds of thousands of times before the discipline required has become so easy it's now taken for granted encouraging the habits to continue. Habits turn into an unconscious routine. When we fall into an unconscious habit we take for granted there’s no drudgery to spoil the focus. Habits can focus anybody into indefinite robotic routines.

It's habits why some of us are more lucky than others. Studies by professor Richard Wiseman of the university of Hertfifordshire has uncovered an interesting insight that suggests luck has to do with the psychological attitude of individuals. His report found those who considered themselves lucky were typically extroverts. Extroverts are at ease mixing  with strangers. Mixing well with strangers makes a lot of friends and friends leads to many open opportunities. At ease with strangers is the aptitude of the worlds great entrepreneurs, marketing gurus and sales people money spinners. These people have habitually been reminded how lucky there are over and over again habit even if it unconscious.

It can all just start with something as simple as any body put on a pedestal as a mentor that gets a lot of peoples positive attention at first. Then as it grows it starts to become routine the person soon gets used to becoming a typical  reoccurrence because the persons been there done that pedestal mentor all before. It can become quite intoxicating. All from a habit of believing because it's happen to them many times. 

Therefore to our  unconsciousness it's got to keep happening we habitually believe out of habit has always been that way. Soon our unconsciousness believes true becoming a part of the person's every day life they eventually taking it for granted without every thinking about it. We can say out of habit we believe in ourselves, just as it's a habit of being skeptical about how lucky we are not. Being skeptical about being lucky is a self talk habit that that our unconscious will believe habitually. It's a vicious circle.

But all is not lost with habitual negative thinkers because habits often change unconsciously to something else testimony when we work on changing our bad habits can equally work when we know full well some times change by themselves. Most of us are skeptical because when things change without us realizing because we are not aware have changed in our own minds. So we don't know things have changed because we need awareness things had change in our own minds to help us become stuck in a habitual possessiveness.

Habits cause mental pictures in our heads seeing ourselves at our goals encouraging rehearsing in our heads tactics and strategies that further encourages mental pictures of our goal encouraging inspirational plans to carry out our desires that encourages a sense of progressing. We developed day by day plans planning for our long term goal keeping us busy.  

Operating on the principle habits can convince us we are currying our cancers. It starts off with a curiosity of what's causing our ache and pains and recurring illness. Seeing doctors are tied down to obligations demanded by government agencies and drug companies in the name of sensitive politics not allowed educate patients on the cause of illnesses and cancers. This is why doctors can be a  very unhelpful source of education.

The curious take as much information as a doctor can provide visiting the health section in libraries filling in the rest educating themselves with books on their condition. Developing a habit we can discover more helpful information on how our illnesses and cancer works. We create a knowable data base in own own heads at what we understand is happening to us. The habit studying our symptoms from medical library books we can pin pointing the area of pains come from, matching symptoms to library books can be very educational enlightening and inspiring. 

Again curiosity is the key to habits. The information provided by library books and internet resources can became habitually encouraging and inspirational as they are writers shearing the same symptoms as you and me. There will be things you find you wonder why doctors don't embrace recommend and use. Again it all comes down they are not allowed to discuses ordered in their contracts by government and dug companies for political reasons. This is why our own research from libraries and internet can be more inspiring than your doctor's advice. 

We'll become so familiar with some of the medical knowledge will soon be taken for granted continually looking for more inspirations becoming an unconscious habit digging deeper and deeper into the world of our medical condition. With the habit of collecting medical knowledge we start the habit of forming plans in our heads. Before we know it our unconsciousness responds working on your plans automatically. We no longer struggle to think about how to implement our plans. We implementing our plans with out thinking automatically from continuous new inspiring information popping up as we habitually keep digging deeper and deeper into our medical condition. 

When we begin to take the knowledge we'd gain for granted, the habits of constantly forming plains to deasl with our condition becomes a unthinking habit from our unconsciousness 

Knowing how you illnesses or cancer works, you'll be inspired you can use your mind to fix it. The habit of instructing yourself the causes and habits and the things you can do to help curer your complaint can encourage mind over matter control controlling your medical condition better than doctors could their hands tied down by government and drug company policies. Ignorance of how your condition works is the cause of your mind's neglect neglecting it is the cause that makes it worse.

Knowing how your condition works, you understand what's causing it, getting inspiring insights you're doing well. The only way to know how your complaint works is the habit of studies study of internet web pages and library books looking for the symptoms the web pages and library books describe. A helpful way is a habitual diary, collection of the habits of your complaint can often sus out a pattern for us. Checking library books and the internet can inspiring. The studies habit can help with mind over matter control of your internal organs for grater health.

Habitual study supported by curiosity and inspiration promotes entitlement knowledge that promotes sense of well being. Habit fueld by passion can be worth a lot of money to major companies. Forming habits begin with  learning something that's new. Starting from scratch even the basics seem way, way beyond our league. My definition of experience is  is the habit of done something,  (anything)  hundreds and thousands of time before. A computer buff that's done programming on his PC hundreds and thousands of times is before is more of a confident professional than someone with just a diploma to show for it.

Habits being the thing that eventually becomes so familiar to us we start to take for granted as a part of our every day lives, is a recipe for high achieving successes. The rich and famous celebrities have done their thing so many times before without thinking how it should be done is at a point it's clockwork routine that their profession is taken for granted as a natural part of their every day lives. They've gotten so use to it they've taken their skills for granted worth a lot of many to many high profile companies.

They say we can do anything when we put our minds to it. There is something more powerful than that. Habits. The real secrete to successes when we habitually talk too ourselves about the things we dream of. The habit of roll playing in our heads all week about the positive things happening in our can show us how powerful they can be at coming true.

Entrepreneurs and marketing gurus and rags to riches story millionaires had started off with the habit of roll played their goals in their heads a long time ago. The habit of self talk thousands of ways to raze money have has crossed their minds over the years. In the habit of it have done that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times by now.

If we give a criminal mind a questionnaire on justice and fair play they will surly show bellow average intelligence in empathy and ethics. Bellow average tend to have no problem cheating their way is razing money dishonestly rubbery and  frawed. Most of us taking the same questionnaire will probably show high degree empathy and ethic scoring. Anybody with a reasonable empathy IQ can't do any injustice and sneaky actions to obtain their goals.

A good example is dreaming of living our perfect day every day. Once a habit gets a hold of us both positive and  negative  won't let us go. Self talk habits start and roll playing follows we have and got. With out the habit our imaginations won't work property. Once in a while doesn't seem to come true.  The a habit of roll playing in our heads, all the health, wealth, power, and romance will seem to true .

Habitual self talk is a treasure house of inspirations within us all  The habit of roll playing in our heads we can't help ourselves with some form of inspirational idea popping into our heads all the time. With a high empathy and ethic IQ level we can look to the habit of self talk in our heads for all our hearts desires.

A high empathy IQ is a intelligence exclusively involved with romance and love successes. It is known as emotional intelligence formally known as sensuality. A high IQ in this area gauntness successes in relationships.

Habits builds experience. Our brain never lets us forget we have done something hundreds and thousands of times before. A car wont start for example. Many have tried to get it going but can't find the fault. Someone who has gotten cars running smoothly again hundreds and thousand of times before has seen it all before. Inspirational talk like "I've got an idea" and " Let me try something"  "Can I try something" or " I just though of something" With the nod of the owner's approval the person digs into his tool box looking like he knows what he's doing because it looks like he'd done that sort thing hundreds and thousands of times before brings hope an tears of joy to anybody.

With a high emotional  IQ and self talk habits can forge the ability to be able to establish friendly relation with strangers literally the ability to establish a rapport from strangers likening well enough to trust and support.

Success at gaining trust of the owner of the stubborn starting car, or applied to sales to picking up men or girls, anything, is due to experience, gained from doing that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before because of the habitual roll playing in the mind in the first place. A warehouse manger wasting a motor mechanic degree shows he doesn't care about mechanics to a back yard mechanic who has reputation has gotten hundreds of cars running smoothly again hundreds and thousand of times before. Done hundreds and thousands of times before our brains want let us forget any of it which self counteracts any negative ideas.

To be outstanding at anything there must have always been an affinity drive, an extra pride in going to the trouble for that extra mile for the thing interested. We must have a affinity with what we do. A sports hero is not interested in acting, nor a successful actor interest being a sports hero. A salesman is not interest in those things let a lone being a mechanic. In other words each of us have things we know we are not into and know what we are. The habitual inspirations of a habitual roll playing of our perfect days see's to that.

Going the extra mile at what we do may appear extreme but their is psychology disorder what psychologists term Occupational, Compulsive Disorder,( OCD ) lay people relate to work dedication we express as a workaholic .OCD is a description of the habit everything must have it's place. Fussiness is taken to extremes.

For example motor mechanics with this tendency tend to adverse to the that will do that will do attitude. They have an obsession with details before they can relinquish delivery. OCD mechanics can drive bosses to frustration fussing about not being happy to release the car not finished with minor details yet. OCD attitude in rebuilding vehicle chassis body work is a very good safety attitude.

We can all tell a when a shop assistant is just there as a job noticing a lack of interest when we ask straight forward questions about a product. OCD is a potential good sales rep who has a driven affinity of the product but not interested in cars or anything else.

They will talk like an enthusiast selling who can't stop shearing experiences showing how the products works tips and hints in choosing the product and arranges the best brand suited for the customer needs. Done hundreds of thousands of times before have pick up body language cues taking opportunities with well place conversation opening  instead of "Can I help you?"  to establish what customers really don't want as much as want they really want.

Done hundreds of thousands of times before is a valuable asset. Rapport building is easy when done it all before in our head specially with a high empathy IQ. It is the first rule of a police force work specially negotiators. Front line police personal are the type of people who have the ability to remain cool calm and collected handling lashing out troublemaking drunks. The best have handled these sorts of people hundreds and thousands of times before in their heads driven by the desire driven by an affinity for their work.

To show you how far the potential of rapport building is police detectives for example have the ability to get on good terms with mean spirited and spiteful suspect towards them. The biggest challenge is knowing committed a harness crime unable to prove it because of lawyer egos pushing for political correctness demanded by law while the suspect shows no remorse knowing full well by the suspect mockery letting detectives know they are getting away with it. It boils down to the detectives abilities to show the suspect are cool about the suspects attitude.

Remaining cool about any bad attitude is important skill in getting at truths otherwise can easily set up brick walls with evasive nonsense answers, spiteful resentments, bullying silent treatments to arrogant mockery. This is what detectives try to avoid drawing on their truth by the ability to making friends on a mean spirited suspect's terms.

Imagine how far you will allow your patience to be tested like that just to establish a rapport on a surly bully's terms. Although for the wrong reasons the ability to take charge is present in crime bosses, gang leaders and convicts  We all can tell a leader in action establishing handling of their subordinate followers  ability to gain cooperative attitudes and issuing orders like a general in charge. We see it all the time in sports teams, coaches, news media, political leaders and directors and the armed forces all the time.
In civilian leadership the enjoyment  of the company of others establishes rapport is important. Never the less leadership shows especially if it shows done hundred and thousand of time before because of the habitual roll playing  in his head hundreds and thousand of times before.

Very Important People ( VIP ) support was how Adult Hitler came to power because these people were charmed by his charm in their company. His intelligence to pick upon what they wanted was high expressed as sensuality today  known a emotional intelligence his habitual ability at being whipping up crowds resulting in responded in kind to him. VIP's saw for themselves he was not afraid of public speaking even in front of them. People not afraid are seminar experts who have no problem in front of a huge crowed even flanked by surly looking VIP's beside them. It shows they have done that sort of thing in their heads hundreds and thousands of time before.

Hitler must have habitually self talked getting into his head how he was the best.Done hundreds and thousands of times before in roll playing in our heads we tend to act it out showing  influence and power like Hitler did. Anybody can show it, walking into a place never been in before as if we'd been in there hundreds of thousands of times before. Police detectives investigating crimes at a crime scene seen by subordinate officers like he's has habitually been there, done that, seen it all before, can command authority. 

It is important to bear in mind of a trap of being becoming artificially charming, nice and friendly to peoples faces but underneath not caring to much for the person. But most of us are not cowboys. The average person we feel some degree uncomfortable playing the game of secretly not impressed with the other person anyway.

All this ability is the potential right stuff for self made millionaires. The habitual roll playing in our heads we develop a transfer ability not to  panic in the company of surly looking hard to empress  company executives officers ( CEO's ) for support. This is a high emotional inelegance IQ. We can treat the strangers as if we have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before because it is in our habitual roll playing in our heads. Experience is always a decisive advantage and it shows.

A high emotional intelligence IQ can sense other peoples moods. Wheeling and dealing with surly CEO's  hundreds of thousands of times before has recognized the habits of a low emotional indigence from facial expressions and body language signs CEO are not really into. Experience recognizes the habitual no sympathy for inexperience straight away by recognizing the surly and unimpressed attitude.
The ability to recognize wasting time with a poor sensuality bullying we have the ability to turn our attention to a compensation tactfulness developing a rapport on their level we are happy with their attitude or avoid approaching anybody who are not into what we have to offer.
A strategy is to seek out companies who shows signs of high emotional intelligence behavior that makes it a lot easier to establish rapport. We don't have to Einstein's to realize even before we shake hands with a CEO on the first meeting if we know a CEO  has the ability to recognize and appreciate our inexpedience is not a big deal as well as into the product or idea we have to offer.
Inexperience  can get carried way over doing the enthusiasm high intelligence IQ can handle. Low emotional intelligence responses would show no sympathy to any inexperience while a high emotional indigence will be encouraging. The decisive advantage of wheeling and dealing with a high emotion intelligence IQ  CEO's and already sold before we open your mouths is a decisive advantage.
To be able to recognize high and low emotional intelligence lQ we have to have the habitual history of seen the behavior in interviews hundreds and thousands of times before. A high emotional intelligence sign we'd sense the CEO senses and understands and feels for us has there is no problem at putting us at ease with high rapport building applied to us to the business at hand. Selling to CEO's hundreds of thousand of times before we can recognize poor emotional intelligence ( or sensuality ) by the very little rapport building directed to us.
Experience will tell us when we know a CEO is into the same thing we are will have the habit of building a rapport with us. Poor sensuality ( poor emotional intelligence ) is often a challenge on our behalf. These CEO;s habitually wary of subordinate salesmen keeping enthusiasm to themselves. This is why it is still important to to have done this sort of the hundreds and thousands of times before to establish counter rapport pleasantries with the stranger before we get to businesses.
If we can believe familiars are only due to inexperience we can cope with mistakes easily moving on. This is achieved by the habitual roll playing fixed idea in our heads mistake are not a big deal because it is  only inexperience and nothing more.
It's a natural instinct our comfort is challenged in the face of a CEO displaying poor emotional intelligence watching us very carefully. Nerves happen to inexperience who hasn't yet recognize the sighs not into the product as well a deliberate test us for our experience easement specially when they have no pertinence for it.
Both poor and high emotional intelligent CEO's will notice all the signs of inexperience just a much will notice experience. An experienced CEO with poor emotional intelligence skills CEO is a potential for a uneven playing field. We can imagine the confidence when we have dealt with steely eyed surly company bosses hundreds and thousands of times before. We recognize al lt he signs of stranger CEO meeting us for the first time is a poor emotional intelligence struggling to a establish a rapport with us . The habitual roll over the years playing in our heads potentially see us though in actual practice.
Break downs in selling ourselves is often based on not really interesting ourselves. In our uncomfortable ness we potentially miss the signs. Experience CEO's can spot this sort of nervousness straight away acting accordingly. Experience recognizes when some is not showing all their heart in it acting accordingly. An experienced CEO  will recognize a subordinate has done this sort of thing hundreds of thousands of times before confidence but will still be weary it may be an act . This means success is always ours when we have wheeled and dealt with CEO with our our heart in support hundreds and thousand of times before and shows.
Operating on the principle an inexperienced subordinate can even the odds gaining experience by bearing in mind approach the CEO is  experienced at noticing signs inevitably noticing our inexperience mistakes.
With that attitude in mind we can plan a strategy. We approach with not only that in mind but also armed with the idea or product the CEO is exactly into. What will help calm nerves too is recognizing the surly mood of the CEO can be a sign of testing our experience giving us an incite into the CEO aware sense we can keep a positive attitude because we can see what's coming ahead of us.
Experienced entrepreneurs and marketing gurus are the ones who create our infrastructure often worth a lot of money to us we take for granted every day. Think of what it takes to run our local supermarkets, fast food restaurants and local takeaways, to diaries. Think how grateful we are when a place is always open just when we need something.
Think of the jobs of bar tenders serving drinks in drinking establishments. Think of what it takes to run night clubs for our benefit. And what about our telecommunication companies we all depend on so much for our phone services twenty four seven. What about our television and movie entertainment institutions. And what about our computer and internet services providers and other high profile companies we depend on every day. What about our power supply and maintenance. What about those who depend on public transport. Who do you think has to keep the businesses functioning we all depend on so much for their services?
Lets use a reverse psychology to make a point. Think of how much we learn at school  if we feel there is no need to. What's the point? A case in point. To kids old enough to drive legally on the road swatting the road code is just a drudgery means an end. They really don't care so long as their means gives them the right to drive legally.
Only a few have a passionate mind set and it's specific subject there into not general.
Other pupils are have a passionate state of mind at being prefix, team leaders or sport captains all by themselves. For some reason it just comes naturally to them. They don't need any encouragement. They just go for it naturally. This often applies in criminal gangs that have always been the leader. They just do what it takes naturally. A student team leader that has passion and empathy for a team leading my be a two bit looser at math's because they have no passion for that.  A student with a passion for spelling may have no empathy for English. A student that has empathy for science has a motive for the study of mathematics. Another student has a passion for writing for their school news paper while their class mates tend not to not that startling.
Business is always got something worth a lot of money to the public that we all want as above. A golden rule to successful riches is into something something that gives you a good buzz.
is having no problem with establishing rapture with others. Some individuals enjoy wheeling and dealing persuasion negotiation. They are successful because they have a close affinity with it. When two wheel and deal  the one who understands the psychology behind it the most holds the greatest power. The one that doesn't gives the other the power to say no.
A scientific view of what's involved tells us of a fundamental aspect of our personalities called extroverts and introverts that play key rolls in shaping our personal preferences of how we go about doing things. An extrovert seems to have a smaller personal bubble  space then the rest of us a reflection of high tolerance to people close and personal round them showing an outward personality they generate round others. They have no problem establishing rapture with the company they keep. In contrast introverts seem to show others they have a larger personal bubble space a reflection of a low tolerance to to many people in their company.
Extroverts have the advantage of having no problem with lots of attention spending a lot of leisure time with others. They are best at establishing rapture. They are the popular school student. They seem to thrive with people round them. They are the team leader. They are the first to be comfortable at taking charge of cheering meetings and the first to volunteer for leadership. They are people with an inexhaustible energy. Some famous movie, sports and music stares show this by lapping up the attention enjoying a maximum fanfare environment. They are the party animal type. These are the stars we see so much of and so often.
Introverts on the other hand can be as much as a successful at being a millionaire, music or sports hero, but basically little seen in public and behind the scene millionaire. They were often people that had the help in their personally of understanding the psychology of wheeling and dealing. However they are not people oriented though. Although they can establish rapture, it is as formal affair as you can get. Being with to many people soon becomes a bit of drudgery. Strong introverts have a very large personal bubble space needing a lot of time on their alone.
The strongest characteristic avoids cheering meetings and the last to volunteer and very reluctant to be a leader. They are the best at avoiding attention just getting on with the job quietly with minimal fanfare. Some famous movie and music stares are very conservative and formal at Oscars avoiding to much attention. They are content with a minimal amount of fanfare environments. These are the stars we don't see or hear of very much in public..
There has been other ways some people have become millionaires overnight. We often from time to time the phrase “luck has nothing to do with being a millionaire” Mind you take the news media from rags to riches stories of poor families winning first division lottery prizes that are now millionaires. When it comes to breaking stories of a big lottery win attention from the media luck is every to do with becoming a millionaire in such a case. To be a millionaire without waiting to win a huge lottery you need leadership qualities of an extrovert introverts have in very short supply.
Where the luck came into it was often to do with the habit of regularly buying a ticket getting nothing back for many years. It may have cost a lot not saved over many years but news media coverage will rave how lucky they are to get well over a 100% return from their investment they put into their habit. As news media coverage tells us interviewing the major prize winners splashed all over TV were habitably patient buying a lottery ticket every week were humble enough with only the money they doesn't miss for as long as it took to win something. The attitude paid off big time. The point to remember its gambling and loosing if we start the habit of using "money we'll miss" in hit and miss desperation chance of getting rich on the spot.
Some of us have a philosophy about sticking at something even if we don't like doing it. I've come across many who say there’s no such thing as a dead end jobs. I've found more than my fear share who begged to differ on that one too. I'm sure extrovert entrepreneurs and marketing gurus believe it's a negative outlook if we get stuck with that philosophy all our lives. If I'm any example, of being an introvert I personally wont stick at anything unless I have an agenda and want to," and not before!" I'm sure that's the same psychology of entrepreneurs and marketing gurus have. If there's no such thing as a dead end job there’d be no point in moving on to better and more satisfying careers.
I believe individuals who stick at dead end jobs are missing the point since they think they don't think there job is anything like a dead end job to them anyway. Bear in mind entrepreneurial minded individuals are not employed. There self employed business people. If you don’t believe you are I a dead end job
Extrovert and even introverted entrepreneurs and marketing gurus are experts at razing money. Larry and Sergey are unemployed owners of their rich internet search engine Goggle company. So too Bill gates the founder of Microsoft. There are many other unemployed people making millions a day on the internet. These guys are good rags to riches stories. Larry and Sergey were just ordinary university graduates. Bill Gates just an average law student.
Their passion for making things happen was "only in the area they were interested in" was legendary. Everything else was irreverent. Social mixing at party's was often the key to their success. They had the extrovert social mixing behavior noticed by many wealthy cooperation computer company executives in that field at parties. Partying is not considered a drudgery to extroverts. They thrive on them. Party time was often were deals were created. Introverts will find the responsibility to tend parties and meetings and meeting people an energy draining drudgery and it shows.
Because of Larry and Sergey passion was a help gaining a formable reputation at party functions prompting help from their university setting up a dorm with a few common PC's to work with for a while. They were happy with all they had. It was a exciting adventure. That was the only thing they cared about. As with all entrepreneurs and marketing gurus Larry, Sergey and Bill Gates got reputations as potential hopeful though attending important social functions. Word got round. As their reputations crew important businesses bosses started listening to their marketing straties.
In true entrepreneur and marketing Guru style Larry and Sergey's passion for their search engine wasn't afraid to market it to the big wig owners and share holders of Yahaoo. They marketed their search engine to other portals as well. Having no takers prompted them to take the standing they must be taking the wrong approach, moved out of the dorm and began writing a plan of action. They weren't afraid to approach big businesses bosses with their business plan. The founder of Microsystems Andy Bechtolshein found their passion for their search engine contagious ending up supporting them by handing over a 100.000 dollar check to invest with.
Extroverts who make things happen are worth a lot of money supporting the rest of us running their companies we take for granted for the services. Our telecommunication companies come to mind for one. Humble workers keep our telecommunication and entertainment systems running smoothly we'd rather keep quiet about the fabulous golden hand shake wealth handed out to the company directors that keep the system running smoothly from board room to their humble office cleaner pay roll at keeping the services running for our own benefit. Telecommunications is worth a lot of money to us users.
Introverts find a tough world being responsible for millions of dollars their company is worth to us. Unpopular decisions are made all the time. Entrepreneurs building up empires though countless important party attending eventually rub shoulders with the powerful often sufferer a tremendous amount of criticism and incriminations reforming their business to make them survive and caught up in news media scandals. This is a nightmare to introverts. Rock. sports and movie stares can't afford to misbehave in public like we can get away with. The humble can get drunk, start fights in public, arrested for drink driving, obscene drunken sex overtures and nobody would want to know ideal for introverts.
Founding fathers of a company resulting in the company eventually worth a lot of money to us requires a mind that's almost to the point of obscenely mean to make powerful up top executive company director decisions. Stubbornness is often a shield against equally stubborn agendas working hard in the background to undermined their companies. There's a lot of mean hidden agenda attacks directed at some of our founding fathers of the various companies in this county. Entrepreneurial minds tend to be strong and firm in texture, flexible, can yield to force without breaking and capable of resisting great strain resulting from their decisions without coming apart. Does this responsibility come easy for you?
Entrepreneurs and marketing gurus don't have any job skills and jobs we have. They are self employed salespeople. Adults tended to be entrepreneurial minded respectable school prefect leaders that seem to enjoy the responsibility while the rest of us are not so sure about ourselves being a leader. Do we want to? Reminds us of the cliché not everybody's cut out to be..........or what ever. Entrepreneurial and marketing guru spirits tend to be great leader potential in politics and worth a lot of money to industry the rest of take for granted not particularly carrying much about the business side to set up the company for our benefit, such as the big news paper and magazine and TV station moguls we buy their products and read at liberties on a daily basis.
The study of the physiology of entrepreneurs and marketing gurus strengths can be beneficial learning how they pull off their successes. One of these is a leader of men. Anyway though anybody that seems to be a natural leader doesn't need this article anyway to learn how to attract investor backing. Most of this is the ability to make friends. There's no secretes to them. It just comes natural to them as the air we breathe. It’s what they do unconsciously the rest of ponder if we’re cut out for that sort of life of always selling ourselves to new investors to support our business. Entrepreneurs and marketing gurus have the passion to make things happen not only for themselves but for the investor clients too. For rest of us we shake our heads in amazement at how they do it. It’s what they unconsciously do. It’s what they live for.
Risk taking
These individuals although not gamblers have a psychologically skill at risk taking. It's not the relying on the blind hit and miss luck you're thinking of. These are strategies that are sound with risks involved often controlled by popping up opportunities from time to tem.
On clients wavelengths
For example this scenario of a entrepreneur is faced with. A entrepreneur spirited person learns a potential client shopping round for the best deal has particular passion and is considering proposals wowing the person away their competitor. The gamble is, theoretically the competitor may not have learnt of the client has a particular passion that could help this entrepreneur secure the client off the competitor, as heard, the client shouldn't be able to resist his favorite passion. Unlike trusting blind luck, there's still the risk of the competitor already knowing that could secure the client to them. As you can see the strategies is quite sound. It's not going to be luck that secures the deal. On the same wavelength as the client this entrepreneur could secure the client though working on the client's passion in doing the deal.
That's the kind of risk taking entrepreneurs and marking gurus have no trouble in tackling. Being on a clients wavelengths is entrepreneurs and marking gurus most popular tools. Their psychology understands the value all to well. There's no secrete. It just takes the psychology in you already know to cut deals with very important business people involved with the same idea product or service you're into the company's into too, getting what you want from each other. Wheeling and dealing comes naturally with two people who have the same interests. Good authors write what they know best entrepreneurs psychology. They do deals with with company's they are both into. Entrepreneurs and marking guru psychology can be applied to anyone with a new product idea or service on offer cutting deals with the company directors with the same passion and vision of the same product
If someone has a passion about supplying knowledge service or product something to do with bicycle performance for example can cut deals with a bicycle company that's striving to develop the same thing. The founder of Microsoft Corporation is a good example of how entrepreneurs think. He had the balls to wave his computer programming skills right under the noses of powerful computer company bosses who needed someone like bills skills. He done deals with them understanding all to well the meaning of the cliché' You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours. Another is the founder of dick Smith Electronics Dick Smith who made what the powerful electronic store into what it is today.
Passion is described as a very strong feeling specially associated with love and romance. Another word 'affinity' meaning a degree of liking or passion if you like. You can be passionate about your car, bike, music, anything that gives you a good buzz. It makes anybody become joyfully busy and skilful at what ever you like to do. The feeling makes it good fun whether wasting time playing round on the internet to people like the founder of Microsoft Corporation Bill Gates who seemed to live for cutting deals with the very important International business machine's ( IBM ), very executives to help him develop his operating system software for his company. What ever gives anybody that buzz in life, is what all they can think about. It's very important to them.
They have a do or die philosophy to shear with the world their passion like Bill Gates did. His example resulted in finances leading to Microsoft credited in the history of PC operating systems as the first in the world with built in features for operating systems we take for granted in PC's today. This is thing entrepreneurs and marketing gurus have that keeps them alive, wheeling and dealing with promotion ideas and projects with very important business communities.
It's not that they understand business, it's because the passion for it gives them the excitement about it that gives them the understanding doing deals with important business people gives them what they want out of life. They love it.You know what it's like with a passion of your own amazing friends with a knack at what you're good at, but you don't understand how they can see it that way since what ever you're into is so routine to you.
Passion about doing business deals gives anyone the confident balls at the challenge of borrowing money from money brokers with no securities, seceded in getting it and do the same with very important business people making everybody else including him ( or herself ), a lot of money in the process.
You'll find anybody who has a reputation of making lots of money not only for themselves but others as well can secure financial deals and praise for any kind of project you like at a drop of a hat.Making money for others specially very important business people one can secure a secure income even for a useless charity trust when you're wheeling and dealing will make others rich and famous at the bargain. Passion is needed for what if dealing for. Without it, everything seems rehearsed to much. You know it feels like talking to a stranger talking to you with a passion about something even when your not interested in it.
And you also know what it's like someone selling you something sounding rehearsed. Entrepreneurs and marketing gurus have a this psychological passion about business as much as someone who's cars or internet mad. They are business deal mad individuals. Doing deals with very important business people gives them a good buzz. They even have balls to do it with only a few dollars to spend. Very important business people can tell business owners are not quite passionate about their if business for their taste. They can see from the less than perfect deduction will dealing. They can see for themselves just enough just to run it traditional way is no getting stuck in there. That's why ninety percent of of business get ignored.
There's no impressive aggressiveness in the business. Bill gates for example had the balls to wheel and deal with the very important business computer companies and internet communities including doing deals with the controllers of the hypertext mark up language ( html ),for web pages the world wide web consortium ( w3C ) to suit his Web browse It's all in doing deals. Passion gives theses individuals the understanding doing deals gets what ever they want from their company of individual achievements from life. Market gurus and entrepreneurs are passionate with if marketing strategies often hired by ordinary business owners to do job for them. Passionate marketing guru and entrepreneurs are real real owners. Passion often leads to an obsession advantage in anything one can do. There's no secrete to business success if your are into wheeling and dealing with very important business communities.
Passion is like a PC hardware device driver that communicates the hardware device with the machines operating system. Entrepreneurs and marking gurus have a joyful experiences imagining outside square box approach cutting deals with very important business people who admire their balls at their ingenuity.Not passionate nobodies obsessed. This lack of obsession tends to neglect business for family and relaxation first. Lack of the later doesn't make thins happen. Often computers shake heads in dismay how they managed to pull of your dream with all those lucky breaks. They didn't have any breaks at all. They created their own success by the passionate drive to cut deals with very important high profile business organization people.It's this inner passion in Entrepreneurs and marketing gurus that create joy in experiencing new ways of seeking to satisfy their passion for securing business deals.
With a passion at selling too anybody is impressed it's not a rehearsed trick but a genuine instinct key to success. Being passionate about anything it's on your mind 24 hours a day partners often complaining your a workaholic. But firm your passion not from your point of view it's not.The most important thing to remember the fact alone someone done something hundreds of thousands of times before experience with no marketing degree qualifications becoming a state of a routine is worth more money than someone who hasn't done very much relying on a important marking degree as proof of professionalism. You can take a A grade technician barely doing a job compeered to some,( theatrically on paper at lest ), non technician doing a top rate job at keeping his machines running smoothly.Not done very much holding a important marketing diploma is not very professional.
A person with a passion for fixing things has done it hundreds and thousands of times before: been there, seen that, done that, all before becomes very familiar with lots of strange quirts by a lot machines developed in their later years unfamiliar to qualified technicians. On paper these enthusiastic non technicians having no business being one, but because of their know how and knack developed a talent over the years with their hobby the their experiences are often worth a lot more money to companies than their own technicians with a degree diploma bluffed by a troublesome machine these people had dealt with thousands of times before.
There are lots of success stories of ordinary untrained lay-people. Take a very unscientific school drop passionate and obsessed about marketing knows what he ( or she ),is doing scenario, That same kid can become crackerjack at making things happen, boosting sales and promotion for any owner of a business sets out to do for himself founding his own business People with a lot of passion find planning a little slow for their blood to be delayed by that. There marking gurus. What do you expect It's in their blood. Excuse for detail planning is irrelevant to passion. It spends the minimum amount of time planning and maximum amount getting the idea or product launch as soon as possible. Some gurus are so passionate they tend to exile at wheeling and dealing with very important business people. hey have joyful time at challenges of launching an idea never planed, with no marking strata gee to get it off ground the rest of us wondering how he,( or she ) did it.
Keeping an idea to yourself and planning first is often not a good idea. Take this scenario and it's happened dozens of times. A good idea born years ago. A marketing guru discovers someone else tinkering with the same idea and launched it as a sensational new invention nobody realizing someone else kept to themselves years ago waiting till he was ready. There's lots of regrets for the past and no time like the present. Think of the regrets world leaders would have if they allowed nuclear strikes to our world to happen, instead of working to prevent the threat of that madness in the present. If you've got the opportunity to offer something to the world unfinished don't neglect it as a hobby. Allow the opportunity to help you finish it in the present not dreaming about it would be like in the future. I once read about about web page design, once first impressions of a web site count's. You don't get a second chance with the presentation of poor quality spelling styling of grammar and layout. I beg to differ.
Someone once told me if every person in the whole world was in a line ( there's a few billion in the world ),greeting every one with a hand shake you'd never reach the end of the line in your life time. I believe it applies to developing a web site when you're not ready. Just because one visitor gets a negative impression from your poor first attempt doesn't necessarily mean the next visitor viewing your much improved version will.
A visitor in Britain less than impressed with your spelling and grammar, one week with improvements in the second attempt viewed by another in the United states weeks latter. Weeks later another visitor discovers your site for the first time much much improved over the first attempt. With the internet there's a infinite amount of second chances because there is so many new visitors who have never heard of you will discover your site for the first time for years to come. Marketing gurus are public people. Some people are drive by it. That gives them enthusiastic passion with public promotion than traditional planning stages.
The public can be shocked and amazed to discover the latest sensational ideas or inventions was actually thought up and on the drawing board years ago by another person. If you have an idea neglecting it on back burner you'll get round to it as a week end hobby you are not really that passionate about it can be seriously neglected in promotion never really getting off ground because of procrastination.
Putting it off because you think you are not ready, to gain experience anyway you have to start. You need to. We all quote cliché when it suits us ready or not here I come is a characteristic of passion. It was this attitude I took when I came into a fortune to afford the equipment to launch this site. This is marking gurus passionate risk philosophy we find hard to do to promote our ideas or inventions. You say Hey hang on I'm not ready yet. I've got a lot to do. Passion doesn't see it that way.
It takes two attitudes. One he ( or she ),will reply do you do you won't to lunch this or not? If you insist your not ready he ( or she ),will say well I'm off for someone else I can progress with. You're on your own, or convince you to go ahead wear your ready or not. A case in point with myself. As you no doubt seen from my spelling and constant updating of my files I wasn't ready for publishing on this site when I first started. Ready or not poor spelling and grammar and all I wasn't prop eared to waist time brushing up on it just dive in ready or not.
That's beauty with internet, specially free web publishing wizards from ISP's and that come with your operating systems. Amateurs won haven't a clue ready or not can publish articles world wide saying goodbye to main stream publishers who won't support the attitude won't support anybody like internet will will be if down fall. internet can be your personal marking guru. Nobody owns internet to put a stop to this practice people who haven't a clue publishing world wide if ideas like me on this site.
Entrepreneurs
Very similar passionate marketing strategies if passions are crackerjacks at launching businesses are business owners passionate about it obsessed with if business. Hiring any person who passionately believes in your idea, product or business you will be very pleased at pace in which every thing gets done even when your not ready and not planed. Passion is psychology behind entrepreneur and marketing not making it seem rehearsed that is genuine of you and your idea before money because person is passionate about your ideas or products than money that tends to attract money not for money. Those who are only in it for money will seem rehearsed expecting a retur or not allow you development spending like someone who believes in your and you ideas. They are not your friend when it comes to hard times. With no passion for your idea or product they'll let your down. Don't be lead by financial support by those who keep harping on and on about a return.
You cannot be successful with financial support from someone who really doesn't believe in product or idea only for fact it's making money at time. You can't take risks in developing your idea if that person is not just as obsessed as you are over it. Obviously passion breeds obsession only motivator anybody needs. If you are passionate you are obsessed with a product or idea you'll soon know this yourself. Passionate obsession drives you into joyful experiences. Anybody with no confidence in selling but is actually passionate abut it will forget haven't confidence automatically, their passionate obsession more than enough motive driving m.If you disagree you're not passionate with your project ,bear in mind you will change your mind on what can be done if you are passionate with it.
Passion obsession is abut psychology feeling about being very comfortable with strangers. I'm using this term to remind you of importance of feeling comfortable in company of important business bosses, high profile politicians, movie and rock stare legends to riches people in world because that's who your passion drives you to target for support as y are best people in positions to do so. To give an idea of how comfortable you should be follow with me with this scenario. Lets say for argument sake, you unexpectedly happen to be caught up in. growled in a shopping mall. A celebrity of your dreams makes a conversation opener to your.
How would you feel if celebrity makes opening conversation to you as if enjoying you company, trying to bring you out of your shell insisting on more than a passing conversation opener? Sounds to good to be true doesn't it. It serves as a example how entrepreneurs genuine passion make important people feel important person never meat before. Passion sets mood with appointments days ahead to suit important persons time rather than on spot selling's use it to relax strange important boss and who has never meet entrepreneur before. On appointment entrepreneur's genuine passion makes important person honored with a charming personality enjoying important person's company over lunch.
Important thing to bear in mind with entrepreneurs are genuinely passionately are not unmindful about dangers of rehearsed enthusiasm coming though making ors feel uncomfortable with a phoniness.
If passion is genuinely relaxed in company without rehearsing and without thinking to rehearse avoided hard sell tactics. Simply relaxed in company strangers important business bosses company. important person see's that by relaxed and cordial atmosphere aided by imperilment arranged days ago.
Selling comes from passion of being charming in presenting his or her idea. If you have problems with being intimated being in company of important people in and ultra rich is quite normal as re are millions who feel uncomfortable surrounded in luxury and impotent business people. Mixing with theses people is not for everybody.

How to picking up girls

The definition of experience is someone with a background habit of doing something hundreds and thousands of times before includes picking up girls, even women picking up men with out needing internet dating sites. In other words the real world face to face meeting strangers experiences.

They say we can do anything when we put our minds to it. There is something more powerful than that. Habits. Done something hundreds and thousands of times before. A secrete to successes when we habitually talk too ourselves about the things we dream of. The habit of roll playing positive things happening in our lives hundreds and thousand of times in our heads can show dividends how powerful habits can be.

Our own body language habits can be the most powerful put off's as well as turn on. We can all tell when we get the minimum amount of attention to the maximum amount do you deny that? We all note the silent treatment something's up. "I must have done something wrong" When we don't know what we did wrong often comes out in some body language or another reaction particularly the face.
When disappointed it looks a not pleased look no matter how humble we may feel.

Disappointment expression usually starts the same look as others. We feel worse when others ignore our conversation openers let a lone holding their attention. We observe faces drawn and tight in blank expressions, ( the not impressed look ) and a refusal to contribute to the conversation.

Other indicators crossed arms and legs seated or standing and hand, eye, and body clusters most of us chose to ignore on the habitual bases it means nothing. Not until a drama comes to a head when it's all over ending up in a dismayed. "What did I do?"

It's important to bear in mind when we don't know why things are not going right with anything we become bothered and confused which all to often comes out in our habitual facial look and body language responses. Any worry often comes out in a drawn out blank expression in the habit of trying to hide our worry. This includes worrying if we might step on a few toes in the environment round us.

Body language experts teach us to observe body language behavior. Truth is, we all habitually concentrate on faces for information. Only the experienced individuals at this sort of thing, body language experts, and those that have just been introduced to it learning to pay more attention to the rest of the body will observe the rest of the body signs. The second truth is, in a ordinary every day situations we habitually ignore body language itself habitually looking for it though attitude in others faces. Habitually concentrating on the face we unconsciously stuck in observing attitude clues from that area.

Little wonder the habit of concentrating on the face for clues of attitude the old clichés "The eyes have it" "The eyes are the window to our souls ".We are habitually sensitive to a worried look of a blank expression as a moody cold fish look in others. If we habitually carry the blank expression look over to single bars noticing any one we fancy with the same blank expression look on the face of the one we fancy we are just as sensitive to it as we are and tend reciprocate with each other the same blank expression.

The blank expression in both us is not a blank expression but the look of nerves "Gosh I'm so nervous" and disappointment written all over the faces followed by the resulting rest of our body language signals just as the rest of the others round us is equally habitually concentrating on our faces for attitude clues in us.

Often as not, noticing a blank expression we naturally avoid the moody "What are you looking at?" glare. We all get the message in less than a second glance. "What are you looking at? Stay away" looking glance. Naturally we look down and away. We then have then unconsciously we take the opportunity to observe the body language signals in the corner of our eyes as we move on and mingling with the rest of the crowed.

The blank expression look is for business and formal occasions. It has no place in informal singles bars. We see blank expressions all the time in public places. It is very powerfully in board room meetings, business wheeling and dealing and court room dramas. The same blank expression doesn't have the moody cold fish look there, as we seen on jurors, judges and lawyers faces in a court room drama.

Watch what happens to our feelings in discussion in a board meeting, wheeling and dealing business or a defendant in a court of law if every body was relaxed and smiling. The blank expression has it's place.

We notice a social gaze when someone talks to us when someone we sense is gazing only at our nose area. We notice a different gaze taking to us as if third eye right in the center of our forehead. We know what that feels like when we see an authority look of a business gaze. If someone has the habit of being a non stop bore it will help slow them down.....a lot. If they had the habit of it, eventually the Penney drops coming to a stop completely perhaps with a query provided the person is gazing into our eyes "What?" "Is there something wrong? There is an opportunity to reply.

Looking at the other person at the nose "I'm sorry. I'm at a bit of a loss." Maintaining the nose gaze to the bore "Can you go though all that again?" never lowering the social gaze. Then it will be easier to communicate properly.

A third gaze when someone appears to be gazing in both eyes chin triangle area while talking to us. It will only feel appropriate when actively found ideal pick up in single bars not public places. Public places is reserved for the social gaze. Thus, Intimate, social and business gazing have their places. Single pick up bars, public and businesses situations. If anybody who has the habit of any one of those all the time everywhere often finds conflict when in the unsuitable places.

Equally a completely blank expression using the business gaze every muscle in our face relaxed. It gives a different mood than the business gaze. To others a not impressed look. It is a powerful gaze when another habitually keeps cracking wise ass jokes to us. It will only work if when we have a gaze attention from the other to notice it.

If a blank expression is habitually carried over into informal social satiation like singles bar is seen in a different light. The average person will read a moody cold fish look. It will seem a hostile look to approach dear not approach keep away anxiety not only in their faces but in the resulting rest of our body language.

If we habitually "Dame it all!!" anxiety look like there's nobody at the wheel look all the time people will notice. They can see them shaking like a leave in uncertain nervous anxiety in the inside. Attempting to pick up someone in that state of mind potentially dramas can come to a head. "OHHH.
Dam it all" The eyes gives away suppressed disappointment look. Unsuppressed like we do when things are going from bad to worse for the football team we support or as a defendant in a court of law. Ironically the disgusted look all those wrinkles from children to adults will be seen in a different light as a feed up up disappointment look in the appropriate place

This is eye language reaction of those situations. It results in the habit of being afraid of making a fool of our selves due to the habit of expecting it due to happen, has become the habit of not trusting themselves. The reaction is a "I thought that will happen", with a follow up "I do wish I know how to do this" disappointment non verbal face language transferred into the whole body as well.

Putting into practice there is a place and time for it. Only those that have done thousands of of times before can get away with a practice away from single bar. Often others the very motive if we let ourselves get into the habit of the wrong place and time. We will get all sorts of attention we don't want. We will bound to be put in our places and very frankly at that. If not careful with our habits anywhere we will open ourselves to be bullied put in our places by all sorts of people.

What we really feel habitually comes out in our body language behavior. The thing is there are times when it happens to be the right time and place where any negative body language including frustration "That's all need right now" eye and body speak can be positively be powerful from on lookers point of view at the right place and time often seen as normal and understandable. If a constant power from both sexes in business power play treating others in a non verbal social situation "Do you have to bother me right now that?" while taking in the talking..

We have all seen talent show judges hand and face evaluation signals. Any hand to face language in business evaluation of company executive like finger steeple involving the nose to a entrepreneur selling an idea to them is very powerful here. If a habit of carrying over into in social situations like singles bars is not a good habit to anybody we fancy. Different body language signals have their places in different places.

If we have a habit of studying body language book images examples practicing picking up moves we can see negative body language of the eyes is not a good look to us. The same picture will have a different look in the eyes when we roll play an imaging selling an idea product to them.

Another example of body language signals have their place in the positive area. The habit of being relaxed with body language signals in a business situations is not a good look either. Only a good move a social environments. If the habit of it is carried over in social situations doesn't go down to well there either.

The habit of being nervous has it's place as an audience of a seminar. If habitually relaxed neighbors will notice as not right including the seminar speaker putting everybody off. But things can potentially be different if there is an agenda point to be made. It be can be a very powerful point when we wish to show we are serious not interested letting the speaker volunteer to release the trap we are in letting us go.

Car sale people are only taught how to gain the upper hand though establishing a social rapport. They will not know what to do with some one who habitually cowboy stances hand on hips, or in pockets similar to we'd expect to observe in singles bar courtship behavior, or the habit of the power company execrative business stare, arms crossed, hiding naughty bits figure leave stances in their presence. They will either back off and let us view over their cars to make up their minds in peace or start showing signs of being cross with us.

If habitual frustrated the habit will no doubt been seen though the eyes all the time and everywhere. Around psychologists are just the people to put us in a border line personality disorder category. The frustration body language habit follows. Body language habits is the key notice of everybody.

The habitual business power play body language carried over into social situations make us look
The habit of recognizing our own habitual body language is a very powerful way to control our misfortunes in the places of our choosing. The habit of checking our habitual body langue habits can also lead to the habit of over doing things often ending back to where from seen in the eyes of others.

But power of habitually reminding ourselves of the potential of over doing things is very powerful influence motive to developing the habit of thinking how can I work on this. How can I stop my eyes from giving myself away and so on.

Both positive and negative body language in all social to business situations have their places of power and influence. They fall flat if we habitually carry one or the other habit into social or business situations. Both positive and negative body language in all social to business situations have their places of power and influence. They fall flat if we habitually carry one or the other habit into social or business situations.

Experienced men have habit of noticing women noticing them ever since they were yay high. These guys had the ability to notice when a woman was attracted to them all there lives. They can notice girls eying them kilometers away. To them it had always been sexy as far as they could remember. It's an aphrodisiac rush to them.

What's a aphrodisiac rush? A sexy flush feeling. Some guys have it strong. The first time was probably felt at school a long time ago experiencing an aphrodisiac surge when spotted a girl or couple in excited gossip about them. Then girls noticed the radiant look on his face reacting even more. These guys had been able to communicate with the feeling though meeting girls ever since. No anxiety is seen in the eyes. They were passionate about meeting girls. There is something sexy about the way girls do that sort of thing as it still does as an adult.

These guys have habitually noticed eye contact glances by thousands of woman. So too, all men in fact. The problem the eye contact form most woman is often flashed, looking away a bit too quickly all with a blank expression men can see anxiety in the eyes.

Blank expressions without anxiety are what we all expect as a business look almost a poker game face. It's not a very good look in pick up situations like singles bars as it conveys a very informal business look. Women who actively chase aphrodisiacs from men have habitually become not afraid to express the entire interest all over their face to a strange man she fancies. She shows she fancy's him with a broad smile, cheeks full and radiant glowing shy alluring look for a second or two then look away away, no sign of any fear detected by the man as if to say "Come and pick me up. Get back to me when your ready" The look is not flashed either. Even slow men can't help but notice it. "Wow. What was that? She's definitely crazy about me" It would certainly floor a guy who habitually experiences aphrodisiac flushes with courtship glances like that.

To the experienced, less than a second smile less blank expression over the shoulder glance the woman has noticed them. They take note promising to get back to them after finishing scouting round because the woman obviously had noticed them.

The average guy a bit on the inexperienced side will flash back an equally blank expression and just as fast. These men have noticed it many times. But a blank expression is such a business glare in places like singles bar situations tend to pass each other over. Trouble here everybody is so used to it has become habitually normal. Normal or not, smiles less glances enumerate the surly unimpressed look.

Women don't want to seem to be as too forward. Nore as easy. This is one of the good reasons why experienced men hang back. They make sure woman noticing them with a gentleman's compliment return look on his face flirt with a smile with no anxiety in the eyes acknowledgment for an equal short amount of time moving on promising themselves they might come back to the woman in a minute.

Experienced woman have seen this all thousands of times before from many men as well as inexperienced moves hanging in there waiting for the guy to return to resume another flirt because they have done that sort of thing so often the first time round works on men every time.
The experienced men doing the latter to a woman that has a habit of a surly poker faced look woman certainly to be more relaxed the next time round. Experienced women are not shy at avoiding the quick blank expression style to any man they fancy.

Experienced women habitually hook men with by making them experience aphrodisiac rushes what is commonly the men killer flirtation glances. Both don't have to wonder whether they like each other or not. Both experienced men and women habitually spot each other giving a few seconds longer than normal radiant smile eye contact flirtation glances. Their psyche had always interoperated that as the coolest things they ever see for a women signaling with her face to a man "I'd love you to pick me up" and for a man a aphrodisiac rush and "Don't mind if I do" signal written all over his face. Body language and facial expression "Don't go way. I'll right be back".

In the ability to notice seated as well as standing they habituallnotice knees and toes pointed straight at them. They observe the fact not pointing anywhere is but them is enough of a aphrodisiac signal turn on.

Theses guys habitually focus on keeping their attention on her eyes only, habitually avoiding their mouths specially anywhere lower when returning the flirts. Turned on by the woman's flirting gestures any women can see it in these guys eyes before he even make a move. The next move is not immediate coming back to them in a minute.

Thus the key to successful interaction face to face opposite sex strangers without the help of internet dating sites. The secrete is in the guy's aphrodisiac habit of rehearsed roll playing in their heads thousands of times. This means the experienced have done that sort of thing with hundreds of girls thousand of times. They don't need the internet to meet their dream lover.

For the rest they all have noticed women's courtship signals too, but haven't the aphrodisiac rush to make it seem alive to them. It means nothing to them that tend to dismiss as "Girls do that to everybody. I've seen it many times" Without the aphrodisiac rush the pick up attempts will appear corny are dull and flat to women.

These days the guy community is more open than used to be. There are thousands in the guy community who aren't interested in the opposite sex as most of us are. Some of those people find the opposite sex unattractive. Experience develops the habit of noticing these things in the streets parties gatherings, in friends to acquaintances.

Noticing things hundreds and thousands of times before stepping into rooms, family gatherings, library's, restaurants, single bars to night clubs we will notice every thing were ever we go specially the habit of looking for the perfect aphrodisiac rush develops experience.

Done hundreds and thousands of times very little gets unnoticed .The habit of sorting out details using discrete recommence for courtship signals and behavior we can spot already spoken for signs as well as availability signs. Experience can spot a potential habitually knowing things can change in a matter of minutes.

The biggest barrier for success is spotting a person not recognizing obviously the person they spotted was attracted thern so can only ignore. If it was pointed out by experience these people may feel looking back at experienced person with a look of "Is that suppose to mean anything to me?"

Not recognizing the signs of someone attracted to us is the key player in resulting stop messages following. Some may only be able to notice the resulting disappointment response interoperated they don't like "Move on" body language signals. Both can be uptight with "What's the matter with you?.

Don't you like me or something" thoughts flowing though their heads.

Both may vow to themselves they will not make the mistake with that person again. When we get into the habit it we will get the nagging habit it has to be made always true cycle because we have seen it often enough. The habit of not recognizing some else is attracted to us is often the notice of a resulting disappointed response as a bad habit of everybody else throws at us. Everybody has the habit of ignoring me. We have seen habit of observing tense stop signals directed at us hundreds and thousands of times habit.

How do we know when someone is showing signs attracted to us? How can we turn around our bad habit of of not recognizing the signs someone is attracted to us? .It won't come from a experienced guide showing how to do pick up but our own habits of recognizing the signs others are attracted to us ourselves. The rest takes care of itself naturally.

The best place to start is the habit of researching body language books not reading though page by page but reviewing various aspects discussions in general new to us and concentrating on coming back to the them flirting with the courtship body language signals chapter back to the generals. It will take time. Scientists have found it takes a little under a month on average for any habit to take properly.

The habit of coming back to review bits and pieces every wear hundreds and thousands of times we will learn a thing or two more every time. It needs to be we have reviewed those bits and pieces hundreds of times.

The experienced habitually hesitates in a crowed singles bar or night club seating circles making a mental note of all the possibilities. Woman habitually signal men they fancy more than once.

Experienced man have developed their own unique style allowing for a percentage of how many times other promising girls got his attention back to them in a minute to check for the signs how the others are getting on.

Done hundreds and thousands of times before we notice introvert and extrovert behavior when we see it. With experience we notice signs some people energized in crowds others not. We've seen it all before people seem alive in company while we can't help noticing others obviously not enjoying the company as much by the shy hovering in the background behavior. It's obvious they are not making any attempt to join in.

By the time we gained expedience we'd seen it often enough. Since we have seen this sort of thing many times we recognize extroverts and introvert behavior body language anywhere. That is how we can tell between gay and straight people body language signs anywhere.

It come stop ass time and time again we developed a habitual observation people energized in the company of groups we can recognize as an extrovert behavior langue. Some of the signs of Bipolar disorder. While others look as if if they are not fitting looking uncomfortable. Experience tells us that this is not necessarily being left out because we have seen introvert behavior not comfortable with many for long hundreds of times before. We have seen their body language change to relaxed signs when alone with only one person. We've seen it often enough.

Seen many times before we often observe extrovert body langue behavior the saying "Two's company three is a crowed" is not necessary true for them, while it's typical of introvert body language behavior the opposite that it is very true. The habit seen often enough we have a great deal of self confidence we'd picked up our dream person hundreds and thousands of times before we can pick up anybody we want any time well like. We've done it all before.

Experience has seen gay as well as straight courtship behavior hundreds and thousand of times. That's how they can tell who's who in a mixed night club and single bar environment is really typical. They have seen it often enough. They habitually notice these things. What they have seen hundreds and thousand of times becomes is very familiar. Very common. Typical.

The habitual scanning picks up a lot of useful information
Those who have hardly done this sort of thing before has the habit of a folded arms mode scanning crowds. Their habit may ask what's wrong with that? I feel comfortable that way". Every body language book constantly advise it's not exactly the best positive look to pick up with. A key to understanding this is an ability in roll playing images in body language book examples look like in different situations.

Think of the image as a stranger you are are approaching. Practicing in our heads straight will be enlightening . Body language books describe how to read everybody's hidden thoughts. But they neglect concentrating the readers signals inevitably portray themselves to others. There should be a lest a chapter title like "What are you saying with your body language to others"

The habit of folded arms everywhere. Been in night clubs and singles bars hundreds and thousand of times before the experienced knows all to well the chances all sorts of thoughts by others in a the confines of a crowed singles bar looks just like a bouncer over seeing every body behaves and waiting to throw someone out any moment or undercover cop working in the place scanning for evidence of criminal activity.

Simple testing roll plying the pictured illustrations in body language books with folded arms you spotted scanning the floor of a crowed singles bar. Other way way what it would be like for you if the image was a stranger you are approaching can be illuminating. Very often folded arms can make us nervous enough to be tongue tired. Another confirmation is yourself in a mirror.
We can see straight away what we look like when watching in a folded arms mode to ourselves in a mirror. Compare that with hands in pockets. We notice something else. The geometry of our faces. We can be shocked at what we see with folded arms.

If we habitually roll play picking up a girl (or a man ) body language book illustrations hands in pockets seated or standing, hands on hips, cowboy stances an other illustrations we can become an experienced expert in our heads because we have seen that sort of thing hundreds and thousand of times we habitually notice in the the real world too.

In the habit of tilting our heads in a "let me see" analytical view point seems a change. The thing we most notice how dramatic even with the slightest tilt it can be. Once again when we try with hands in our pockets it just as dramatically changes with folded arms.

We can be pleasantly suppressed at what a difference it makes to ourselves. We find ourselves in a cute smile that dramatically changes things again. Scientifically speaking tilting the head, back, down left or right even if ever, ever so slightly in effect is adjusting our best side towards our selves. Now image if it was you who caught you doing that to you.

Imagine face to face with a woman ( or a man ) of your dreams talking to you with your arms folded. Then imagine the woman with her arms like you see to you. Try with hands in your pockets. Imagine a woman in that mode to you while talking to her. We instinctively shift most of our weight to a leg and in a "let me see" analytical tilt of the head.

Getting into the habit of hands in pockets with ever so slight tilt of the head everywhere, anywhere and everything we do all the time prevents us from the habit of forgetting we are listening with folded arms mistake. Making a habit of anything makes perfect. Our brain takes over letting us know all the time we've done what ever habit we get ourselves into hundreds and thousands of times confidence.
The habit of hands in pockets we develop the habit of feeling we look and feel great every day and everywhere we go.

Observing our faces if we can spot imperfections in our skin tone which others will too. Skiers and cyclist with wind blown redness looking uneven sun burn all over on the checks. We all notice and old and ugly appeal. Cosmetic products traditionally reserved for women that will help hide all that making the face the back to the illusion of very young and youthful looking.

If we get into the habit doing this all day we begin to recognize the the benefit of folded arms and hands in pockets have their places that can work wonders. For example the folded arm testing with left, right, up, or down head tilt combination in a mirror to ourselves we can see has their places. The folded arms maneuver can help deflect challenges directed directly at us by others. There is respect observing somebody in a tense situation reaming cool calm and collected during a tense stand off in though calm body and facial language signs not afraid of looking after themselves when need too.

The insipience tend to show panic or frustration all over their faces as well as afraid body language signals. The "Oh O! " flight or flight shock look response written all over their faces coupled with some body language signals. Common looking away and down.

Extreme cases of frustrated feelings though face wiping which tend to pull a scared crazy eyes look, wiping hair over ears in a extreme case with both hands in a tense stand off environment where people are looking on. Trying those to ourselves in a mirror we'll soon get the idea why we can easily be assaulted, laughed at as a jerk and thrown out of a place with no sympathy by our trousers by a bouncer.

Likewise the hands in pockets technique has it place as all the body language tips you see in body language books. Practicing enough of the relaxing technique to a point we have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before we begin the habit of it naturally knowing places and times to use the signal properly and in it place have developed experience on our side. It's n good to know we have done something hundreds and thousands of times before confidence behind us.

It is the backing of our experiences we'd done it all before successfully that we are so familiar it we can always do it again. It is good to know our brains never let us forget we have done it all before.
We also learn the value of what happens when we over do things too.

The habits of the experienced instinctively avoids limbs anywhere near, crossing each other or the body standing or seated. For both men and women habitually hands in pockets ,including blouses, dresses jeans or slacks. Experienced would noticed this sort of language in others hundreds and thousands of times before. Very common relaxing technique as demonstrated consistently in all body language books.

The relaxed attitude tends display a visual normal looking when we see it in a mirror of ourselves is equally from someone else's point of view us too. Everybody is relaxed. If someone else is observant will notice the behavior the experienced person well aware this can typically happen being unexpectedly picked up or flirt to from a girl or men or two approaches

Habitual roll playing in our heads is a good away to develop any habit. We are putting into practice our own private fantasies where there is no fear off disappointing frank rebuffs of being asked to leave. Without the nagging fear we are free and open to do in our heads what ever outcome our hearts desires.

Most people will call this day dreaming fantasies. But if we make a habit of it we soon get this nagging habit we have to make it come true. Once a habit gets a hold of us we can't shake it off easily. Thus dismissing the habit as day dreaming fantasy won't help developing the habit to make our desire come true.

When we have the habit of not being afraid to approach a potential partner of our dreams in our heads we start the burning desire habit to make it come to pass in the real world. Habitually roll playing approaching a stranger of our dreams in our heads with out fear will be able to transform into the real world.

The property of understanding women's moods for men is an important part of picking the girls. For women understanding men's attitudes is equally important. In general psychological practice it is called emotional intelligence formally known as sensuality expressing we are intelligent to other people feelings. If these people were to take an empathy questionnaire would score a high empathy IQ. We all notice an inelegant attitude towards us.

What's empathy? A feeling for others. The characteristics doesn't concentrate on communicating practical solutions to problems but dwells on shearing how it feels communication. High emotional intelligence is the key for that sort of thing. It simple means a person with a talent at picking up on how others feel.

An example, the ability to recognizes someone displaying depression signs when they see it. Empathy is about this ability. The opposite to this having know idea how others feel. In the battle of the sexes the difference is often expressed with the classical old cliché "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus"

That is not necessarily true. A husband with a high empathy intellect towards his wife is sure fire recipe for a successful marriage. Like wise a wife with the same empathy towards men's ways is a guaranteed loving relationship. Experience tends to habitually apply empathy in their pick up approaches. Done hundreds of thousands of times before can easily communicate shearing combination.

The habitual sensuality practice tend to treat everybody as if they weren't born yesterday approaches, as if intelligent and smart, treating others as if they have been there and done that attitude. Both men and woman notice that sort of treatment from each other. Conflicts and marriage break ups when each partner has poor emotional intelligent skills with each other.

Experience has taught most people we do much better at bars and night clubs rather than public places like libraries and beaches. These are the places inexperience have no business practicing. Public places are far to tricky to get away with inexperienced at picking up a lover. Only the experienced individuals has the capability of knowing how to handle the tricky formal setting and even then it is a challenge to the most experienced.

The best place for inexperience novices are single bars and night clubs because it is the closest thing to a place where others are potentially doing the same thing a perfect spot for self taught body language book details in action. Body language books are a excellent heads up in what to look for signs.

Observing flirting signs from body language books is the best way to develop the habit of it. Don't take one with you. It will can easily be seen as a joke. And there is a potential of getting into the habit of rousing lots of suspicion an uncover cop operative on the prowl where all activity will all but dry up round you. Be aware of that sort of thing can happen by the habit of the relaxing hands in pockets whether standing or seated.

If already been there where opportunities suddenly dried up round you will recognize the latter. Being aware we can guess we had inadvertently may have aroused suspicion that might have happed. Inexperience gives itself away every time.

Avoiding behavioral suspicion while investigating body language hundreds and thousands of times develops a habitual skill of patient and discrete reconnaissance. The experience habitually avoids the habit of making people self conscious they are being observed.

The habit of scanning a dance floor and what's going in on the dance floor and seating arrangements for signs off flirting is often a life saver from making a disastrous moves. The experienced have learnt to habitually look for the same sex as well as opposite sexes flirting signs to each other before they make the mistake of moving in where they are not wanted.

They are on the look out for possible chaperone ( escort signs hovering in background keeping an eye on who they are escorting ) brothers and sister signs and signs of long time friends only out to have a good time signs. Done this sort of thing hundreds of thousands of times before is a great confidence we always know everything that goes on.

Experienced brain knows how to processes all this information advising them on it offering heads up advice and so know exactly what they are doing and will be in for if they do make a move in. The habit of reconnaissance prevents mistakes happening before they happen.
The flip side inexperience in a egger to get on with it will miss a lot. Not careful with all that activity going on is a potential for disastrous mistakes often end up with disappointment simply not careful going in where they where not really wanted.

Problems for the inexperienced men ( as well as for women ) encounter the classical display of turn off signs. The typical characteristics is a refusal to play to conversation openings. In most cases women ( as well as men ) habitually display the no sympathy attitude to inexperienced approaches.

The jerk approach behavior is often the most rebuffed.

A quiet bored treatment often confuses the inexperience how to deal with an unresponsive conversation. Attempt after attempt is made until has had enough treating the women as joke or a woman with frank rebuffs to the inexperienced approaches. The inexperienced can be left protrude and confused "Why do women do that to me" The same often applies to a woman.

Advice for the inexperienced is to take the advice of body language books. Book after book all say the same thing. limbs crossing any part of each other, self touch, hiding any parts of the body are expressed as barrier signals, arm and leg folding styles are tense put off signals with the exception of couple of important courtship signals. Book after book say the same thing about hands in pockets with no crossed limbs is considered a relaxed body sign that tends to relax everybody else.

They advise trying to stimulate a conversation side on doesn't work. Trying it standing while the potential partner is seated is not on the same level. They advise in standing position frontal face to face approaches no body touching, hands in packets relaxation aid with all hand held objects considered as barriers like a drink to be removed by putting aside.

The important point to bear in mind that they are all unconscious displays most of them habits. The habit of crossed limbs with any part of arm and leg or body, folding styles can cause tension with others in informal atmospheres like a night club. The experienced has developed the habit of the opposite uncrossed limbs away from the body. Hands hands in pockets has become a habit while seated often work wonders in helping to relax everybody else round them. Body language books discuss and show examples of relaxed stiles of seating.

The important point to bear in mind when learning these things is not to get caught up in a eagerness carry away show. It will look over done and acting causing tension. With experience you will notice it yourself when someone else tries it looking like a embarrassing joke. In any embarrassment people tend to behave with request frank requests to behave or ask to leave. Experience people have developed into a habit of looking normal if not a little sweet.

The trick is rehearse in a few samples in body language books in a mirror to get an orientation of what you will look like from other peoples point of view. Try the body language moves that you have the habit of.

Problems occur when empathy intelligence is lacking. For men in particular approaching women with poor sensuality skills. Women may recognize the signs of poor empathy skills in a man but if equally low skills themselves has the habit having no sympathy for inexperience pick up approaches. They habitually display the classic moody turn off signs.

An Inexperienced man with poor sensuality skills may try to hang in their making himself a persistent jerk. Reasonable sensuality has the ability to at lest detect the moody signals possibly a guy woman getting the message not wanted. In his inexperience will quietly back away with a possible quiet apology for the intrusion.

A high sensuality intelligence is the most experienced and will probably developed the skill of telling if gay or straight from an attitude language developing the habit a specialty of low sensuality and moody women. In the habitual ability developed the habit of being able to take on the challenge of turning round a moody straight women round hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced men as well as women as in experienced guy people will notice inexperience and experience when they see it adjusting their moods accordingly. A highly sensual guy and straight women will recognize a persistent jerk as not necessarily a jerk turning her on sensuality skills to her advantage the habits of being a jerk towards her soon disappears. It take a high empathy IQ in both guy and straight women to and experience taming somebody behaving like a jerk into someone who
is not.

When we have turned round a jerk behavior round to somebody else nicer hundreds and thousands of times it is a piece of cake to us to do it again and again.

Reasonable emotional intelligence habitually displays inexperience though picking up on the moody responses of any women. Poor emotional intelligence will be disappointed. It tends to vow to never make the mistake of upsetting her again backing off and avoids her after that. These guys are genuinely afraid of the moody display girls can look like she's about to call the police or her boy friends for help she is sexually harassed any second.

Experience observers will notice what both did wrong. It will be clear as the noses on their faces approached either a timid and shy way or a complete jerk approaches and the moody turn off signs showing no sympathy for the inexperience by the woman. Experienced observers spot low sensuality skills in both sexes when they see it because they have seen it all before. It is very familiar to them. typical mistakes.

The inability to pick others intelligence has developed the experience. If it continues there is a potently lack of experience that shows in both sexes in poor conversation opening sequences. If it becomes a habit of women to have no sympathy with inexperience pick up approaches has done that sort of to many men hundreds and thousands of times before. Trouble is habits are almost impossible to change once they get a hold of a person.

Men can eventually be so frustrated and angry will become wiredrawn with themselves showing it by lashing out at woman are all the same. If rejections continue they develop the habit of believing they are unpopular with girls. These guys have seen the impatient no sympathy syndrome hundreds and thousands o times before. The same is true with women. If turn off’s keep continuing to be a habit will soon develop a bad habit attitude men about women and women about men the source of sexist remarks and jokes about each other put downs.

On the other hand if highly sensual in the first place began the habit of being charming in the company of of thousands of girls becomes before that developed the habit of a good attitude towards woman and if the habit of girls warming up to a man continues will find his own habit very exciting often can't wait to charm all sorts of women with pleasantries for more attention. Their high sensuality ( or emotional intelligence ) has habitually communicated on the same level as women hundreds and thousand of times before will convince them of that for ever.

A guy not very good at being sensual will experience continual habits of women not very impressed with them all the time. They will develop the habit in their heads it's true they are unpopular with girls. They have seen it often enough. On the other hand if a man is highly sensual good experiences keep coming breading the habits in their heads it's true they are popular with girls. They also have have seen it often enough. In both cases they have been though it all hundreds and thousands of times before over the years that alternately determines the habitual self talk belief about themselves for a long time.

The habitual habit of a guy who believes unpopular with girls will almost be impossible to change unless their is an agenda, a purpose for the change. Habits need a convincing motive to modify the stance. The habit of believing unpopular with girls is based on the habits girls unexpressed with them so it is simply not possible to change it to not being unpopular with girls.

The main problem with inexperienced men have encountered the reaction of inexpeinces women where both don't know what to do. A highly sensual experienced person will recognize inexperience when they see it.

There are both men and woman who have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before who recognize experience and inexperience alike. The habit of chasing over the years have seen everything seen it all before and done it all hundreds and thousands of times. The start was a early habit, why they are so successful. Experience tend to recognize inexperience when they see it remaining cool calm and collected adjusting their attitude accordingly.

All the traditional courtship behavior remains intact expect for one detail. Experienced women noticing a jerk behavior yet initially fancied him when she spotted him, instead of waiting to be being lead by the guy they recognize their from observing their behavior leading the guy in opening conversations before he can say or do anything else to draw out the real person by her charm towards him before he gets in first to make a fool of himself to her. Done hundreds and thousand of times before can get on with the court ship ritual. It is all due the habit of doing that sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before.

Experienced woman who habitually encounters jerk behavior thousands of times. They have a unshakable confidence in remaining cool calm and collected applying psychology onto them becoming someone completely different. It is usually experienced prostitutes who have seen it all before where jerks don't know they had been put in their places. Experienced women are in hot demand. By contrast a woman who has never done that sort of thing before. Mistakes will be made turning off men against her that certainly could have been an ideal in the end.

Experienced woman can turn an boring jerk talking who habitually talks to much into an intelligent two way conversation because done hundreds of times before. We'd think they were psychologists in dis skies.

It started as a habit and by now have to do that sort so often to get more. Since they have done this sort of thing hundreds and thousands of times before the traditional roll of only men has take the lead has been abandoned in favor of experience in the last decades.

Other girls getting their men and men getting their girls and we don't is just experience on their part. Remember making a jerk or a laughing stock of ourselves is just inexperienced on our part. The experienced have seen inexperience behavior in action and so will we hundreds and thousands of times when we see it. The habit studying body language book images and mirror practicing will all help to gain confidence we also have done it hundred and thousands of times too..